So decency = not being caught.
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Well, porn is prostitution. So, i suppose... it depends how you feel about this type of prostitution (can even be related to integrity, morals and such...). Some women support it (enjoy it too) - other don't, and same goes for men (even atheists - cause it might be more common for religious people). There's women that might indulge (or more like - ignore - cause i presume - they'd rather not know about it) - even real life prostitution or striptease. Also, this days - there's probably more couples than ever - who gain an interest in the porn industry - as participants - as it's the case with Cam shows (earning a quick buck - at the expense of their public image). There's not many couples - who would agree with something like this, tho for some - it's just another way to earn a living.
It can be related to insecurity, or it's simply a matter of beliefs - like believing that you should be enough for your partner (maybe she doesn't need more - from other sources). If he's doing this behind her back - then yeah, you can call it cheating.
Many people have a tendency to redefine words based on their personal beliefs. Tho, if you check a dictionary:
"Cheat
- act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage."
It can be related to insecurity, or it's simply a matter of beliefs - like believing that you should be enough for your partner (maybe she doesn't need more - from other sources). If he's doing this behind her back - then yeah, you can call it cheating.
Many people have a tendency to redefine words based on their personal beliefs. Tho, if you check a dictionary:
"Cheat
- act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage."
Posted by DamnatalolPosted by PanelaI speak better English than most of this site so sit down.Posted by Damnatay'all don't speak no English up there?Posted by tizianihttp://vocaroo.com/i/s14WzQx9UI1JPosted by DamnataSorry, got a bit caught up in the mutable spirit.
*deadpan*
Yes, yes it is.
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Posted by poison_ivyShe really does.Posted by nikkistarShe has insecurities obviously...
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
She needs to be by herself..
I love watching porn, with or without my man... and I don't mind him having female friends..click to expand
I tell her she needs to just be alone, but she says she doesn't feel complete unless she is with someone. I feel sorta sad for her, which is why I am patient with her when I normally am not.
Posted by tizianiMy Gem has a smart phone for work but his personal mobile is a flip phone from the stone age. I never have to worry about thirsty instagram thots cause he has zero social media. He's also 25.Posted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiI think this is where my shortcomings are. I don't really empathize with how a like or watching porn would hurt a person's feelings. It's so foreign to me, that because I can't comprehend it, it seems really warped to me. But that is my own shortcoming.
Everything is cheating nowadays.
Is this really any worse than people who feel hurt over facebook likes?
Either way they legitimately feel hurt and deceived. They might find someone who shares their standards, they miht..
I think there are a lot of guys who don't watch porn so she might not have to change her outlook if she finds the right dude.
I used to share that same disbelief, because it almost looks like we're living in a time where people are queueing up actively going out of their way to look for reasons to feel betrayed.
But it's just a question of different standards.
If you're lucky enough to be attracted to someone who doesn't believe in smartphones, love them and never look back.
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I found a unicorn and I'm never letting go!
Posted by P6X58DEtell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.Posted by Damnatahttp://vocaroo.com/i/s0N238DQHnKJPosted by PanelaPosted by Damnatay'all don't speak no English up there?Posted by tizianihttp://vocaroo.com/i/s14WzQx9UI1JPosted by DamnataSorry, got a bit caught up in the mutable spirit.
*deadpan*
Yes, yes it is.
I speak better English than most of this site so sit down.
lol
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Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Posted by nikkistarYah! Or she should find a guy who fits her "rules and regulations".. There are some dudes out there that think as she does... My ex had issues when I used my "toys" to please myself.. He said it was weird and made him feel less of a man because obviously the toy wasn't his penis.. SMH! He was basically just insecure tho..Posted by poison_ivyShe really does.Posted by nikkistarShe has insecurities obviously...
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
She needs to be by herself..
I love watching porn, with or without my man... and I don't mind him having female friends..
I tell her she needs to just be alone, but she says she doesn't feel complete unless she is with someone. I feel sorta sad for her, which is why I am patient with her when I normally am not.click to expand
Is she a libra? I'm kinda that way because of my Libra Moon, that I often times feel I need companionship. But I'm not so uptight as her.. My Sag Venus mellows me out..
Posted by tizianiSo, it's a good thing that the Cancer I am dealing with has a prepaid flip phone cause he doesn't see a purpose for more? lolPosted by LadyNeptunePeople without smartphones are the true first tier of the dating pool. You found the promised land.Posted by tizianiMy Gem has a smart phone for work but his personal mobile is a flip phone from the stone age. I never have to worry about thirsty instagram thots cause he has zero social media. He's also 25.Posted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiI think this is where my shortcomings are. I don't really empathize with how a like or watching porn would hurt a person's feelings. It's so foreign to me, that because I can't comprehend it, it seems really warped to me. But that is my own shortcoming.
Everything is cheating nowadays.
Is this really any worse than people who feel hurt over facebook likes?
Either way they legitimately feel hurt and deceived. They might find someone who shares their standards, they miht..
I think there are a lot of guys who don't watch porn so she might not have to change her outlook if she finds the right dude.
I used to share that same disbelief, because it almost looks like we're living in a time where people are queueing up actively going out of their way to look for reasons to feel betrayed.
But it's just a question of different standards.
If you're lucky enough to be attracted to someone who doesn't believe in smartphones, love them and never look back.
I found a unicorn and I'm never letting go!
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Posted by tizianiLol @ promise lands. But pretty much.Posted by LadyNeptunePeople without smartphones are the true first tier of the dating pool. You found the promised land.Posted by tizianiMy Gem has a smart phone for work but his personal mobile is a flip phone from the stone age. I never have to worry about thirsty instagram thots cause he has zero social media. He's also 25.Posted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiI think this is where my shortcomings are. I don't really empathize with how a like or watching porn would hurt a person's feelings. It's so foreign to me, that because I can't comprehend it, it seems really warped to me. But that is my own shortcoming.
Everything is cheating nowadays.
Is this really any worse than people who feel hurt over facebook likes?
Either way they legitimately feel hurt and deceived. They might find someone who shares their standards, they miht..
I think there are a lot of guys who don't watch porn so she might not have to change her outlook if she finds the right dude.
I used to share that same disbelief, because it almost looks like we're living in a time where people are queueing up actively going out of their way to look for reasons to feel betrayed.
But it's just a question of different standards.
If you're lucky enough to be attracted to someone who doesn't believe in smartphones, love them and never look back.
I found a unicorn and I'm never letting go!
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Posted by poison_ivyWhoa... I just looked up her birthday on facebook.Posted by nikkistarYah! Or she should find a guy who fits her "rules and regulations".. There are some dudes out there that think as she does... My ex had issues when I used my "toys" to please myself.. He said it was weird and made him feel less of a man because obviously the toy wasn't his penis.. SMH! He was basically just insecure tho..Posted by poison_ivyShe really does.Posted by nikkistarShe has insecurities obviously...
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
She needs to be by herself..
I love watching porn, with or without my man... and I don't mind him having female friends..
I tell her she needs to just be alone, but she says she doesn't feel complete unless she is with someone. I feel sorta sad for her, which is why I am patient with her when I normally am not.
Is she a libra? I'm kinda that way because of my Libra Moon, that I often times feel I need companionship. But I'm not so uptight as her.. My Sag Venus mellows me out..click to expand
She is a libra. Her bday is 10/14
Posted by HareYeah yeah...Posted by DamnataIt's for research purposes only.Posted by HareLmao.Posted by DamnataIDK what you're talking about.Posted by HareIt's posts like these when I remember you have an 8th house Venus on top of your Sun/Moon lmao.
What if you're watching a video you secretly took with a hidden camera of you and your partner having sex?
I'm just throwing out some hypotheticals here.
It's not even only sex, I have so many recordings of the other person cuz I find it endearing. I would freak out if they found it/saw it. Worse, caught me watching it.
I remember coming home one day and the Cap was watching a video I didn't know existed so I was just caught off guard and it was awkward. I went "Ohhhh...welp I'm going to go fix dinner now".
But that sense of calm composure helped me the night after we broke up when I was sweet as fuck til he fell asleep so I could get in his laptop and delete everything he had with me lmao.
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Posted by tizianiHe's 25 too like Lady's hahaPosted by nikkistarAbsolutely.Posted by tizianiSo, it's a good thing that the Cancer I am dealing with has a prepaid flip phone cause he doesn't see a purpose for more? lolPosted by LadyNeptunePeople without smartphones are the true first tier of the dating pool. You found the promised land.Posted by tizianiMy Gem has a smart phone for work but his personal mobile is a flip phone from the stone age. I never have to worry about thirsty instagram thots cause he has zero social media. He's also 25.Posted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiI think this is where my shortcomings are. I don't really empathize with how a like or watching porn would hurt a person's feelings. It's so foreign to me, that because I can't comprehend it, it seems really warped to me. But that is my own shortcoming.
Everything is cheating nowadays.
Is this really any worse than people who feel hurt over facebook likes?
Either way they legitimately feel hurt and deceived. They might find someone who shares their standards, they miht..
I think there are a lot of guys who don't watch porn so she might not have to change her outlook if she finds the right dude.
I used to share that same disbelief, because it almost looks like we're living in a time where people are queueing up actively going out of their way to look for reasons to feel betrayed.
But it's just a question of different standards.
If you're lucky enough to be attracted to someone who doesn't believe in smartphones, love them and never look back.
I found a unicorn and I'm never letting go!
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Posted by nikkistaryeah I know they are. and if by "I don't want to be "that" person" you mean you don't want to be that person to ignore Gemini, I'll say you are. that person that is. seem to me youve been doging gemini as of late. i dont know why. maybe because youre scared of them or something. tho I already know you'll say you mean you don't want to be that person, meaning you wouldn't want to be the Gemini in general.Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hareclick to expand
I'm not recording my voice because of you. I don't want your attention. what I have to say doesn't have nothing at all to do with anybody here nor this thread.
Posted by PanelaBruh, I see why people are avoiding you now. Learn to take a joke Terra Jr.Posted by nikkistaryeah I know they are. and if by "I don't want to be "that" person" you mean you don't want to be that person to ignore Gemini, I'll say you are. that person that is. seem to me youve been doging gemini as of late. i dont know why. maybe because youre scared of them or something. tho I already know you'll say you mean you don't want to be that person, meaning you wouldn't want to be the Gemini in general.Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
I'm not recording my voice because of you. I don't want your attention. what I have to say doesn't have nothing at all to do with anybody here nor this thread.
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Posted by nikkistarI'm not joking kiddo. I'm for real.Posted by PanelaBruh, I see why people are avoiding you now. Learn to take a joke Terra Jr.Posted by nikkistaryeah I know they are. and if by "I don't want to be "that" person" you mean you don't want to be that person to ignore Gemini, I'll say you are. that person that is. seem to me youve been doging gemini as of late. i dont know why. maybe because youre scared of them or something. tho I already know you'll say you mean you don't want to be that person, meaning you wouldn't want to be the Gemini in general.Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
I'm not recording my voice because of you. I don't want your attention. what I have to say doesn't have nothing at all to do with anybody here nor this thread.
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Posted by PanelaOk Terra 2.0.Posted by nikkistarI'm not joking kiddo. I'm for real.Posted by PanelaBruh, I see why people are avoiding you now. Learn to take a joke Terra Jr.Posted by nikkistaryeah I know they are. and if by "I don't want to be "that" person" you mean you don't want to be that person to ignore Gemini, I'll say you are. that person that is. seem to me youve been doging gemini as of late. i dont know why. maybe because youre scared of them or something. tho I already know you'll say you mean you don't want to be that person, meaning you wouldn't want to be the Gemini in general.Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
I'm not recording my voice because of you. I don't want your attention. what I have to say doesn't have nothing at all to do with anybody here nor this thread.
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Posted by HareBruh. lawl.
Right?
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
Posted by nikkistarHow you gonna ask her to elaborate then shut her down and tell her to ask someone else for sympathy.
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
You sound judgemental and elitist. Since she's so much younger than you, you could have offered guidance and a different perspective.
Some women are such bitches sometimes and always in competition with their fellow woman.
You want a cookie for being sooooo secure?!
Posted by bkbella86Is this April 1st?Posted by nikkistarHow you gonna ask her to elaborate then shut her down and tell her to ask someone else for sympathy.
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
You sound judgemental and elitist. Since she's so much younger than you, you could have offered guidance and a different perspective.
Some women are such bitches sometimes and always in competition with their fellow woman.
You want a cookie for being sooooo secure?!click to expand
Posted by nikkistarI'm getting good at thissssssss.. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyWhoa... I just looked up her birthday on facebook.Posted by nikkistarYah! Or she should find a guy who fits her "rules and regulations".. There are some dudes out there that think as she does... My ex had issues when I used my "toys" to please myself.. He said it was weird and made him feel less of a man because obviously the toy wasn't his penis.. SMH! He was basically just insecure tho..Posted by poison_ivyShe really does.Posted by nikkistarShe has insecurities obviously...
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
She needs to be by herself..
I love watching porn, with or without my man... and I don't mind him having female friends..
I tell her she needs to just be alone, but she says she doesn't feel complete unless she is with someone. I feel sorta sad for her, which is why I am patient with her when I normally am not.
Is she a libra? I'm kinda that way because of my Libra Moon, that I often times feel I need companionship. But I'm not so uptight as her.. My Sag Venus mellows me out..
She is a libra. Her bday is 10/14click to expand
Posted by poison_ivyYea, I am a little shocked to be honest.Posted by nikkistarI'm getting good at thissssssss.. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyWhoa... I just looked up her birthday on facebook.Posted by nikkistarYah! Or she should find a guy who fits her "rules and regulations".. There are some dudes out there that think as she does... My ex had issues when I used my "toys" to please myself.. He said it was weird and made him feel less of a man because obviously the toy wasn't his penis.. SMH! He was basically just insecure tho..Posted by poison_ivyShe really does.Posted by nikkistarShe has insecurities obviously...
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
She needs to be by herself..
I love watching porn, with or without my man... and I don't mind him having female friends..
I tell her she needs to just be alone, but she says she doesn't feel complete unless she is with someone. I feel sorta sad for her, which is why I am patient with her when I normally am not.
Is she a libra? I'm kinda that way because of my Libra Moon, that I often times feel I need companionship. But I'm not so uptight as her.. My Sag Venus mellows me out..
She is a libra. Her bday is 10/14click to expand
Posted by Hareyou know something rabbit. I always associate you with dickbutt. you're both a**kissers who does nothing but kiss butts just to get laughs and likes. you might think you funny but you really not. you're just a try hardPosted by nikkistarRight?Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
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She's only 22 people. JFC.
Maybe she lived a sheltered life or isn't into porn herself. That's perfectly fine too. Just because someone dosent share our same views on something doesn't mean they deserve to be fucking bashed and ridiculed for it.
How many times do y'all call someone retarded for disagreeing with you?
What the actual fuck
Maybe she lived a sheltered life or isn't into porn herself. That's perfectly fine too. Just because someone dosent share our same views on something doesn't mean they deserve to be fucking bashed and ridiculed for it.
How many times do y'all call someone retarded for disagreeing with you?
What the actual fuck
Baitin to porn isn't cheating it's only cheating if when she goes over he responds with 
Posted by HareDo you think he's mad cause this thread is about to hit double digits and he can't get one?Posted by PanelaDon't you ain't speak no english here?Posted by Hareyou know something rabbit. I always associate you with dickbutt. you're both a**kissers who does nothing but kiss butts just to get laughs and likes. you might think you funny but you really not. you're just a try hardPosted by nikkistarRight?Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamAnd according to you, it's not. What's your point?Posted by Capricorn91According to you.
Well according to me it is wrong to watch once you are in a relationship. There are ethical issues also but that is a different thing. The time you could have spent with your lover you are spending on something which gives you instant gratification and is bad for your mental health like drugs. The girl's reasoning is wrong but she is right to feel bad as trust is broken. But that is for the couples to decide. Some are open and some are not.click to expand
Posted by HareHe should start with inverting penis surgery videos first.Posted by nikkistarHe just can't accept the fact he will never be in the same tier as @VageenkaPosted by HareDo you think he's mad cause this thread is about to hit double digits and he can't get one?Posted by PanelaDon't you ain't speak no english here?Posted by Hareyou know something rabbit. I always associate you with dickbutt. you're both a**kissers who does nothing but kiss butts just to get laughs and likes. you might think you funny but you really not. you're just a try hardPosted by nikkistarRight?Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveThere is still the mind :-)
what would boys/men do if there was not porn everywhere? (and gf/whatever is not there either)
no sex?
Posted by RumiLPosted by DwellingOnMoveThere is still the mind :-)
what would boys/men do if there was not porn everywhere? (and gf/whatever is not there either)
no sex?
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Men aren't generally good at that.....imagination, that is....they usually need it to be in their face to get off
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Posted by nikkistarEva rolls eyes.
So this girl I know is talking to me on facebook asking me for advice. She's all boohooing cause she said her boyfriend was cheating on her. I asked with who, she tells me he's been watching porn! So I get confused by this. So I ask her, wait you think watching porn is cheating? YES, she says. I ask hey why. "I should be enough for him! He shouldn't need anything or anyone else" I told her I couldn't relate to her cause I didn't think the same and to ask someone else for sympathy.
This shit is nuts to me, but it got me thinking, maybe there are more girls like this out there. Do some of you girls think this way too?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by nikkistar😆 wtf. who's on here 24/7 creating threads? and THIS thread? wanting everybody's opinions if porn is cheating? when you old enough to figure that out fo yourself. what the fuck. like seriously. don't you have anything better to do?Posted by HareDo you think he's mad cause this thread is about to hit double digits and he can't get one?Posted by PanelaDon't you ain't speak no english here?Posted by Hareyou know something rabbit. I always associate you with dickbutt. you're both a**kissers who does nothing but kiss butts just to get laughs and likes. you might think you funny but you really not. you're just a try hardPosted by nikkistarRight?Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
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now off to the gym I go as promised. now watch when I come back y'all gone give me 100 notifications of garbage.
Posted by nikkistarOh now she's a friend. In your first post you claimed you told her to go to someone else for sympathy.Posted by BuffaloBills28Cause she is a friend, I was nice. I just told her I couldn't relate to her cause I thought differently, and I wasn't the best to approach with this issue.
Tell her she's being paranoid. Porn isn't cheating.click to expand
I wish a so called friend would tell me that.
Anyway which one is it. Cuz this statement is a lil diff than what you initially posted.
Posted by P6X58DEIf you can't understand than this wasn't for you. Move along.Posted by bkbella86Competition? lolPosted by nikkistarHow you gonna ask her to elaborate then shut her down and tell her to ask someone else for sympathy.
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
You sound judgemental and elitist. Since she's so much younger than you, you could have offered guidance and a different perspective.
Some women are such bitches sometimes and always in competition with their fellow woman.
You want a cookie for being sooooo secure?!
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100But woman continue to make excuses for men.
It's not just men who are "visual creatures" .. There are women out there who are "visual creatures" too ☺
As if women don't like to look as well. Y'all give men too much credit or maybe not enough.
Posted by P6X58DEBecause I have different views.Posted by bkbella86I definitely understand, sensitivity when needed, and when it clearly is not needed and you need a slap.Posted by P6X58DEIf you can't understand than this wasn't for you. Move along.Posted by bkbella86Competition? lolPosted by nikkistarHow you gonna ask her to elaborate then shut her down and tell her to ask someone else for sympathy.
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
You sound judgemental and elitist. Since she's so much younger than you, you could have offered guidance and a different perspective.
Some women are such bitches sometimes and always in competition with their fellow woman.
You want a cookie for being sooooo secure?!
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some of you love to ride dick and jump on bandwagons for likes and cyber friends.
Cornballs
Porn can be very harmful. Lots of young men are growing up with a distorted view of both women and sex. Some of them, when watching too much, can't get off with a real life woman
How sad is that?
How sad is that?
Posted by P6X58DEExactly like said a dick rider. beat itPosted by bkbella86I'm a Cancer and i protect shit.. i have a thing for Nikki.Posted by P6X58DEBecause I have different views.Posted by bkbella86I definitely understand, sensitivity when needed, and when it clearly is not needed and you need a slap.Posted by P6X58DEIf you can't understand than this wasn't for you. Move along.Posted by bkbella86Competition? lolPosted by nikkistarHow you gonna ask her to elaborate then shut her down and tell her to ask someone else for sympathy.
I should also include that she has issues if her bf has girl friends as well.
It's fucking weird to me.
You sound judgemental and elitist. Since she's so much younger than you, you could have offered guidance and a different perspective.
Some women are such bitches sometimes and always in competition with their fellow woman.
You want a cookie for being sooooo secure?!
some of you love to ride dick and jump on bandwagons for likes and cyber friends.
Cornballs
Tough shit.
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Posted by bkbella86Sorry, I don't speak moron.Posted by nikkistarOh now she's a friend. In your first post you claimed you told her to go to someone else for sympathy.Posted by BuffaloBills28Cause she is a friend, I was nice. I just told her I couldn't relate to her cause I thought differently, and I wasn't the best to approach with this issue.
Tell her she's being paranoid. Porn isn't cheating.
I wish a so called friend would tell me that.
Anyway which one is it. Cuz this statement is a lil diff than what you initially posted.click to expand
Posted by lady_chatterley
http://fightthenewdrug.org/is-watching-porn-cheating-on-your-partner/
Why watching porn is cheating
There is actual scientific proof that watching porn is cheating. When someone is viewing porn, a pleasure chemical called oxytocin is released into the brain. Oxytocin is known to increase feelings of attachment, connection, and trust. Studies show that couples in a healthy and well-adjusted relationship exhibit much higher levels of oxytocin than those in a distressed relationship. Because the hormone is naturally released during sex, watching porn triggers the release of oxytocin as well, effectively bonding the person to that experience. Over time, the bond becomes stronger and stronger until it seems unbreakable. Meaning, a porn user is literally bonding themselves to a sexual experience coming from a computer screen, not from their partner.
...like the man that becomes overly attached and subsequently falls in love with his blow up doll?
Weird but true maybe?
Posted by PanelaHey, you really are Terra 2.0. He goes off and talks about working out all the time too.Posted by nikkistar😆 wtf. who's on here 24/7 creating threads? and THIS thread? wanting everybody's opinions if porn is cheating? when you old enough to figure that out fo yourself. what the fuck. like seriously. don't you have anything better to do?Posted by HareDo you think he's mad cause this thread is about to hit double digits and he can't get one?Posted by PanelaDon't you ain't speak no english here?Posted by Hareyou know something rabbit. I always associate you with dickbutt. you're both a**kissers who does nothing but kiss butts just to get laughs and likes. you might think you funny but you really not. you're just a try hardPosted by nikkistarRight?Posted by PanelaUhmm, I don't want to be "that" person, but Geminis are usually ignored...
tell me. what is required to post your voice? do you like need some kind of microphone or something? I got something I have to say.
😆 (Poking fun at your previous post I read in the other thread)
@Hare
Nobody cares what Geminis have to say.
now off to the gym I go as promised. now watch when I come back y'all gone give me 100 notifications of garbage.
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Posted by nikkistarYou're a moron bitch, you can't speak ya own language dummy?Posted by bkbella86Sorry, I don't speak moron.Posted by nikkistarOh now she's a friend. In your first post you claimed you told her to go to someone else for sympathy.Posted by BuffaloBills28Cause she is a friend, I was nice. I just told her I couldn't relate to her cause I thought differently, and I wasn't the best to approach with this issue.
Tell her she's being paranoid. Porn isn't cheating.
I wish a so called friend would tell me that.
Anyway which one is it. Cuz this statement is a lil diff than what you initially posted.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86I see typing, but it comes out like the teacher on Charlie Brown.Posted by nikkistarYou are a moron bitch, you can't speak ya own language dummy?Posted by bkbella86Sorry, I don't speak moron.Posted by nikkistarOh now she's a friend. In your first post you claimed you told her to go to someone else for sympathy.Posted by BuffaloBills28Cause she is a friend, I was nice. I just told her I couldn't relate to her cause I thought differently, and I wasn't the best to approach with this issue.
Tell her she's being paranoid. Porn isn't cheating.
I wish a so called friend would tell me that.
Anyway which one is it. Cuz this statement is a lil diff than what you initially posted.
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Posted by nikkistar
So this girl I know is talking to me on facebook asking me for advice. She's all boohooing cause she said her boyfriend was cheating on her. I asked with who, she tells me he's been watching porn! So I get confused by this. So I ask her, wait you think watching porn is cheating? YES, she says. I ask hey why. "I should be enough for him! He shouldn't need anything or anyone else" I told her I couldn't relate to her cause I didn't think the same and to ask someone else for sympathy.
This shit is nuts to me, but it got me thinking, maybe there are more girls like this out there. Do some of you girls think this way too?
Posted by HareSee, this is my logical stand point on it.
Porn isn't cheating.
It might be distasteful to you, and you might not want to be with a person who watches porn, and that certainly is your right.
But to call it cheating is going too far. You may indeed want to examine yourself and why it puts you in an emotional state where someone watching a video is equivalent to actual sexual intercourse.
I created this thread, really trying to figure out the reasoning for the thought process of porn equates to cheating. Because cheating to me, would be physical or emotional with anotherperson. Porn isn't personal, so I can't understand it.
I am really trying to wrap my mind around how people think otherwise. I still can't really grasp it though. I want someone to post and give me a detailed rationale on why they feel this way.
Cause when I talked to my friend, it was just "I should be good enough".
I just am curious as to why people feel this way.
Posted by nikkistarAll lies. You made it for validation. You could have posed the same question and left ya friend out of it. But you wanted to seem above her.Posted by HareSee, this is my logical stand point on it.
Porn isn't cheating.
It might be distasteful to you, and you might not want to be with a person who watches porn, and that certainly is your right.
But to call it cheating is going too far. You may indeed want to examine yourself and why it puts you in an emotional state where someone watching a video is equivalent to actual sexual intercourse.
I created this thread, really trying to figure out the reasoning for the thought process of porn equates to cheating. Because cheating to me, would be physical or emotional with anotherperson. Porn isn't personal, so I can't understand it.
I am really trying to wrap my mind around how people think otherwise. I still can't really grasp it though. I want someone to post and give me a detailed rationale on why they feel this way.
Cause when I talked to my friend, it was just "I should be good enough".
I just am curious as to why people feel this way.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by nikkistarAll lies. You made it for validation. You could have posed the same question and left ya friend out of it. But you wanted to seem above her.Posted by HareSee, this is my logical stand point on it.
Porn isn't cheating.
It might be distasteful to you, and you might not want to be with a person who watches porn, and that certainly is your right.
But to call it cheating is going too far. You may indeed want to examine yourself and why it puts you in an emotional state where someone watching a video is equivalent to actual sexual intercourse.
I created this thread, really trying to figure out the reasoning for the thought process of porn equates to cheating. Because cheating to me, would be physical or emotional with anotherperson. Porn isn't personal, so I can't understand it.
I am really trying to wrap my mind around how people think otherwise. I still can't really grasp it though. I want someone to post and give me a detailed rationale on why they feel this way.
Cause when I talked to my friend, it was just "I should be good enough".
I just am curious as to why people feel this way.click to expand
Posted by Ram416a lot of women are like this though,
Yeah a friend of mine feels the same way about porn. Her boyfriend has a thing for Japanese porn, and she felt like she should have been enough for him.
*shrugs*
my man told me one of his friends have to "hide" or just not do it around her, but he felt GUILTY for even wanting to watch it or "hide" it, when there's no reason to feel guilty but because she imposed this guilt on him, he won't feel "safe" wanting to watch, ..is some anime that has some sexy girls and it's cartoon! this was years ago. And this isn't porn at all!!! just anime.
and she got upset why he was watching the sexy cartoon. So he just avoids it.
edit - he wants to keep the PEACE so he just doesn't bother anymore.
Oh btw, he is with a libra sun woman, so he wants to keep the peace.
Posted by lady_chatterleySee I can understand this rationale. I can understand this better. I don't necessarily agree with it, but I can understand it.Posted by nikkistarI don't think there is an easy answer.Posted by HareSee, this is my logical stand point on it.
Porn isn't cheating.
It might be distasteful to you, and you might not want to be with a person who watches porn, and that certainly is your right.
But to call it cheating is going too far. You may indeed want to examine yourself and why it puts you in an emotional state where someone watching a video is equivalent to actual sexual intercourse.
I created this thread, really trying to figure out the reasoning for the thought process of porn equates to cheating. Because cheating to me, would be physical or emotional with anotherperson. Porn isn't personal, so I can't understand it.
I am really trying to wrap my mind around how people think otherwise. I still can't really grasp it though. I want someone to post and give me a detailed rationale on why they feel this way.
Cause when I talked to my friend, it was just "I should be good enough".
I just am curious as to why people feel this way.
But for people who have problems with porn this is their take on it:
"People don’t clear their search history because they spent too much time mapping out a road trip for a vacation with their boyfriend/girlfriend. People aren’t watching sports highlights with their door locked and their browsers set on private, right? No, of course not. It’s because they know none of these things will threaten their relationship. But with porn, it’s the exact opposite.
This is one of the main reasons that porn is cheating—because of all the damaging secrecy and hiding that goes into it. There are few things that will tear apart a relationship as much as snooping around and keeping secrets. And when that secret is that one half of the relationship is watching other people have sex and imagining themselves being with other people, how could the other half in the relationship not feel cheated on by that? All that time spent with porn is just selfish lost opportunities of being intimate with a partner.
Sex is one of the best parts of being in a relationship. It connects partners and provides a way to express the deepest emotions of love. Pornography is taking something exciting and intimate and just exaggerates and exploits it as cheap entertainment. When one half of a relationship views porn, they aren’t sharing intimate moments with their partner, but instead having them with a computer screen."click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8But don't you think it's sad that she didn't value his feelings as well? That what his needs were curtailed?Posted by Ram416a lot of women are like this though,
Yeah a friend of mine feels the same way about porn. Her boyfriend has a thing for Japanese porn, and she felt like she should have been enough for him.
*shrugs*
my man told me one of his friends have to "hide" or just not do it around her, but he felt GUILTY for even wanting to watch it or "hide" it, when there's no reason to feel guilty but because she imposed this guilt on him, he won't feel "safe" wanting to watch, ..is some anime that has some sexy girls and it's cartoon! this was years ago. And this isn't porn at all!!! just anime.
and she got upset why he was watching the sexy cartoon. So he just avoids it.
edit - he wants to keep the PEACE so he just doesn't bother anymore.
Oh btw, he is with a libra sun woman, so he wants to keep the peace.
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Cause I kind of see this as he is being punished for her insecurities. Right or wrong.
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