Porn is cheating? WTF? (Page 4)

nikkistar · 2017-02-15T17:34:16Z

Posted by nikkistar Posted by Ssuperman Posted by nikkistar Posted by Hare Porn isn't cheating. It might be distasteful to you, and you might not want to be with a person who watches porn, and that certainly is your right. But to call it cheating is going too far. You may indeed want to examine yourself and why it puts you in an emotional state where someone watching a video is equivalent to actual sexual intercourse. See, this is my logical stand point on it. I created this thread, really trying to figure out the reasoning for the thought process of porn equates to cheating. Because cheating to me, would be physical or emotional with anotherperson. Porn isn't personal, so I can't understand it. I am really trying to wrap my mind around how people think otherwise. I still can't really grasp it though. I want someone to post and give me a detailed rationale on why they feel this way. Cause when I talked to my friend, it was just "I should be good enough". I just am curious as to why people feel this way. Ok, in a way she isn't good enough. He's getting off to someone else. She might not be physically touching him but, he's "imagining" her being there. It's realistic fantasy. To her its emotional cheating. To you it might be perfectly acceptable because you enjoy it. She doesn't enjoy it so......... I really think it's funny that you are bashing her just for this. The chick is young, naive and reached out to you. What did you do? You blew her off when she's trying to learn and was looking for advice. No wonder this world is fucked up I blew her off, so to speak, because I was incapable of giving her the empathy I think she needed. I am not going to sit there and coddle her with false words. I could not relate to her on any level of her thinking that. Does that mean when she asks me if I think she is pretty, I sit there and say "FUCK NO". No, I find her beautiful and state so. But I am not going to sit there and give her advice on something I will never see eye to eye with her with. I am not her mother, to coddle her. And I refuse to lie to make her feel better. Bashing? Did you see me call her stupid? No, I said it was fucking weird. Not her. click to expand Jesus girl. Do you have kids?

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