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This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Morganofmind on Friday, June 13, 2003 and has 76 replies.

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@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts
Why is it that guy's sexual fantasies often include two women? I mean, it should be the other way around, two guys for every woman. That makes so much mor sense. Women can have multiple orgasms, guys not really, I mean as far as I know. The utility is much higher for the women when it comes to having two males than for the male when it comes to having two women.

Just something to ponder.
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@romeclone
21 Years
What do you mean "it should be the other way around"? No straight guy on planet Earth is going to fantisize about him and another guy in the same bed together. Why does it matter anyway? No one goes through the intellectual process before they have fantasies its just pure feeling.
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@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts
lol... I didn't mean that they should fantasize about having two guys and a girl. I'm just saying that when threesomes are actually done, it should be with two guys and a girl.
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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts
But no straight woman is going to fantasize about another woman, either. So either way, somebody ends up doing it with someone they're not interested in sexually. Perhaps this is why most threesomes are performed when under the influence of intoxicants.
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@romeclone
21 Years
Well your question was about fantasies. Maybe you feel that way because you are a girl. Just a wild guess. 🙂
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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts
my friends bi, she has a boyfriend, she wants her two best friends though(girls). Her boyfriend allows it. What do you all think? he doesnt care? or he just wants a piece of it? Or both, mwahahaha
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@cj7
21 Years1,000+ Posts
morgan, your original statement implies that you wish a guys fantasy to be unselfishly altered to think about how u could recieve more pleasure. if im fantasizing, trust me, its all about my pleasure. two.....well thats just got to be better than one.lol
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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts
Man,I wish I could have been here "live".

Toss out the word fantasy for a second. Why would anyone want "more"? Because, more is thought better. If you could have it your way, you'd want more, logicial or not. Now assume everyone's just met each other. All strangers. Would 2 girls accept 1 guy? Probably not. Would 2 guys accept 1 girl? Probably yes. And that's the difference.

I mean as far as I know. The utility is much higher for the women when it comes to having two males than for the male when it comes to having two women
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@cj7
21 Years1,000+ Posts
thats why its a fantasy, cause it probably wont or wouldnt happen very often. to be desired by two makes for a better fantasy than one.
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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts
Very rarely do I fantasize about two men @ once. Honestly, I really like to focus my attention on one person at a time. And I would definitely not be down with another woman being involved.
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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts
I've known one of either sex that have actually done this in their past. The girl said, every girl should try it "once". The guy said basically the same, and that if it came up he'd consider a repeat. (Both meaning 2 guys, 1 girl). It sounds good, but I think the fantasy breaks down after that part. I think only strangers could pull this off. My female friend indicated it only worked for her knowing none of them would meet again.
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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts
my boyfriend gets jealous if some guy is even looking at me... so i doubt we'd ever do anything like that. And besides, id smack the chick who he was thinking about doing it with - AND HIM.

has anyone made out with their friend?(im speaking to the females =P)
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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts
James, don't take this the wrong way.. I read you sometimes, and SWEAR you had some "Yoda" blood running through your veins. I couldn't speak like you do naturally, if I tried. But it's GOOD, I like it!
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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts
Now that everyone's established that...

"Where" is the perfect fantasy spot?

For me, it's mountains over the beach.. just more interesting to me. And it's probably dark, or twilight, also for interest. Criccckets.. crickketts. (I like.)
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@James the13th
21 Years1,000+ PostsPisces
that's sounds about right. but u forgot the roaring fireplace.
the stars slowly showing themself.
the soft motion of the water through creek down to the ocean.

that's something i won't forget. i love that water thing.
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@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts
I've got a water theme going on too... I love the dunes by the cape fantasy, maybe at midnight under a full moon, or by a light house... Although I could go for in the middle of the woods, by a waterfall (or in the waterfal)... Either one's good...
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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts
Maybe you're pervert.. ahh subverting me to your train of thought. Think of it.. a sensory deprivation tank neededn't be a lonely place. (I'm still stuck in the fog notion.)
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