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Posted by AriesIntrovert16exactly. Very rarely do I see a man break a woman down like a woman breaks another woman down. Just downright nasty. Said girl has no interest in dating a woman so why is another woman all up in her grill about who shes sleeping with? Women create words to demean each other. Why!
I'm tired of it, too. I also get pretty annoyed when I see "if you wear this, I'm calling you a slut" or "if you sleep with x amount of men, you're dirty" memes. Social media sites are rampant with sex/slut shamers.
It's very sad when a woman has to put down another woman to make herself feel worthy of a man's love.
That's all it is. When a woman feels threatened by another woman's sexual history, she goes out of her way to demean that woman, as if to say "Hey, look at this girl! She's slept with more than two guys in her lifetime so she's dirty! I'm so much better than her. Come look at me, I'm holy, not holey!"

Posted by Gobshiteno one shamed the men who the lady slept with. No called them names and publicly ridiculed them.Posted by rockyroadicecreamAgreed... and I'll stop there.
Double standards at their finest.click to expand

Posted by starloveralot of women dont know their own bodies. Theyve been shamed into not learning about themselves, not exploring.
I am tired of men doing it when they have been doing casual sex since time began ~ huge archaic double standard.
My mother used to say *only bad girls have sex before marriage* haha, can you believe that? Of course my sister and i were at it as soon we could manage, i was only 15 or just 16 maybe?
Two of my close friends have slept with 200 and 250 men respectively. Although it isn't something i could do, i love to hear their stories. One of them said one night when were having dinner together that i was *very pure and not jaded* followed by *i have slept with more men in a week than you have in your life* 😛
Ram, why do you think it is like that in Singapore? I am from the UK....totally in tune with my body and what it is doing
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Posted by DMVMen get shamed for more often, just for different things.Posted by Gobshiteno one shamed the men who the lady slept with. No called them names and publicly ridiculed them.Posted by rockyroadicecreamAgreed... and I'll stop there.
Double standards at their finest.click to expand

Posted by starloverIf two women were ever going to be called sluts, you're buddies fit the bill -- and rightfully so.
I am tired of men doing it when they have been doing casual sex since time began ~ huge archaic double standard.
My mother used to say *only bad girls have sex before marriage* haha, can you believe that? Of course my sister and i were at it as soon we could manage, i was only 15 or just 16 maybe?
Two of my close friends have slept with 200 and 250 men respectively. Although it isn't something i could do, i love to hear their stories. One of them said one night when were having dinner together that i was *very pure and not jaded* followed by *i have slept with more men in a week than you have in your life* 😛
Ram, why do you think it is like that in Singapore? I am from the UK....totally in tune with my body and what it is doing
:-))

Posted by aquapiscescuspBingo 🙂Posted by beautifulsoul74That's it right there.
There's no such thing as casual sex.
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Posted by CapTennsee that right there. Why do you feel the need to put someone down?Posted by starloverIf two women were ever going to be called sluts, you're buddies fit the bill -- and rightfully so.
I am tired of men doing it when they have been doing casual sex since time began ~ huge archaic double standard.
My mother used to say *only bad girls have sex before marriage* haha, can you believe that? Of course my sister and i were at it as soon we could manage, i was only 15 or just 16 maybe?
Two of my close friends have slept with 200 and 250 men respectively. Although it isn't something i could do, i love to hear their stories. One of them said one night when were having dinner together that i was *very pure and not jaded* followed by *i have slept with more men in a week than you have in your life* 😛
Ram, why do you think it is like that in Singapore? I am from the UK....totally in tune with my body and what it is doing
:-))click to expand


Posted by DMV250 different cocks.........Posted by CapTennsee that right there. Why do you feel the need to put someone down?Posted by starloverIf two women were ever going to be called sluts, you're buddies fit the bill -- and rightfully so.
I am tired of men doing it when they have been doing casual sex since time began ~ huge archaic double standard.
My mother used to say *only bad girls have sex before marriage* haha, can you believe that? Of course my sister and i were at it as soon we could manage, i was only 15 or just 16 maybe?
Two of my close friends have slept with 200 and 250 men respectively. Although it isn't something i could do, i love to hear their stories. One of them said one night when were having dinner together that i was *very pure and not jaded* followed by *i have slept with more men in a week than you have in your life* 😛
Ram, why do you think it is like that in Singapore? I am from the UK....totally in tune with my body and what it is doing
:-))click to expand







Posted by MadMarchRamI can respect that.
Lmao at how this has turned out!
I have had some serious relationships but when I've dealt with the emotional damage I have been known to go out on a rampage! Not looking for love just physical release.
Yes I've been a slutty slut! I'm quite open and honest about it, does anyones opinions irl or on the net cause me less sleep at night NO!
It's my life and my choices and they can't be undone so anyones opinion isn't going to change what has already happened or make me think differently about it.
I have no regrets!

Posted by RabbitWas going to include those ^^^^ facts too, but in a reckless society and people content & walking around happily with STD's like luggage, I figured it was a mute point....and yes, children by some of these irresponsible folks are considered nothing but luggage and an inconvenience and suffer greatly as a result.
I grew up during the height of the AIDS crisis in the US.
I've also seen how unplanned pregnancies can derail the best laid life plans and how the children resulting from those pregnancies can have their lives wrecked by the less responsible DNA donors.
So while I support a person's right to do whatever they want with whomever they want, I don't believe casual sex is a great idea. Regardless of how careful two people are, there are very real and very serious consequences to sex.
So while I won't think a person is less of a person or not a "good" person because of their sexual history, that doesn't mean I wouldn't consider that history when determining if they were a good fit for me.
Your experience may vary.


Posted by starloverKey word^^^^^^^MALE
Sadly, you will always have some male who has done the same thing themselves name calling you for it
Crazy i know!
smh

Posted by GobshiteThat's right...save the stone tossing for the women who choose the slut route and think they have a right to complain about their choices while attempting to blame the men. 😉
In a nutshell, stop throwing stones in glass houses.


Posted by starloverlol, I've noticed that about you Scorpio women here on DXP, especially when DMV starts in on some adventure of hers.
Two of my close friends have slept with 200 and 250 men respectively. Although it isn't something i could do, i love to hear their stories.

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Posted by Rabbitcant unplanned pregnancies still happen in a committed relationship?
I grew up during the height of the AIDS crisis in the US.
I've also seen how unplanned pregnancies can derail the best laid life plans and how the children resulting from those pregnancies can have their lives wrecked by the less responsible DNA donors.
So while I support a person's right to do whatever they want with whomever they want, I don't believe casual sex is a great idea. Regardless of how careful two people are, there are very real and very serious consequences to sex.
So while I won't think a person is less of a person or not a "good" person because of their sexual history, that doesn't mean I wouldn't consider that history when determining if they were a good fit for me.
Your experience may vary.

Posted by starloverIPosted by MadMarchRamNo regrets is good
Lmao at how this has turned out!
I have had some serious relationships but when I've dealt with the emotional damage I have been known to go out on a rampage! Not looking for love just physical release.
Yes I've been a slutty slut! I'm quite open and honest about it, does anyones opinions irl or on the net cause me less sleep at night NO!
It's my life and my choices and they can't be undone so anyones opinion isn't going to change what has already happened or make me think differently about it.
I have no regrets!
Sadly, you will always have some male who has done the same thing themselves name calling you for it
Crazy i know!
smhclick to expand

Posted by Gobshiteface palm, I was agreeing with you. Blame my mercury in scorp, i communicate better with telepathy.Posted by DMVNo, this is all about the hypocrisy and cattiness between women.Posted by Gobshiteno one shamed the men who the lady slept with. No called them names and publicly ridiculed them.Posted by rockyroadicecreamAgreed... and I'll stop there.
Double standards at their finest.
One gender shaming another gender, for whatever reason, has nothing to do with my last post.
You can get defensive, if you really must, but jumping to conclusions isn't very productive.
Going back to your point, charity begins at home. If most women stopped being catty and two-faced with one another, maybe there'd be an improvement both in gender attitudes and inequalities. Even if this wasn't the case, at least women's unity would be far more positive and influential in modern society.
In a nutshell, stop throwing stones in glass houses.click to expand

Posted by LetltBwhy do you refernce it as the slut route? Why are you calling her a slut? A weaker woman hearing that is damaging to her self esteem. I see these mems where woman are supposed to be enpowering each other. Are you enpowering her by tearing her down?Posted by GobshiteThat's right...save the stone tossing for the women who choose the slut route and think they have a right to complain about their choices while attempting to blame the men. 😉
In a nutshell, stop throwing stones in glass houses.click to expand


Posted by capricornmoonI can get with that its taboo.
But as women, we need to be discreet with it., why do that on national t.v? Get his number and bang him later when the cameras ain't rolling. We can't cry slut shaming yet do everything in public that's perceived as slutty behavior. Keep your intimate and dating life private until you get married so the holier than thou freaks won't have anything to condemn you with.

Posted by Rabbitim fine with your reasons for not having casual sex, but is that a good enough reason to call woman degrading names and publicy embaress them.Posted by DMVIndeed they can. And if one partner is getting around on the side, so can STDs.Posted by Rabbitcant unplanned pregnancies still happen in a committed relationship?
I grew up during the height of the AIDS crisis in the US.
I've also seen how unplanned pregnancies can derail the best laid life plans and how the children resulting from those pregnancies can have their lives wrecked by the less responsible DNA donors.
So while I support a person's right to do whatever they want with whomever they want, I don't believe casual sex is a great idea. Regardless of how careful two people are, there are very real and very serious consequences to sex.
So while I won't think a person is less of a person or not a "good" person because of their sexual history, that doesn't mean I wouldn't consider that history when determining if they were a good fit for me.
Your experience may vary.
My point is not the casual sex but more so why we shame people and degrade them for having it.
In general though (certainly not always) committed couples are better equipped to handle a child, whether emotionally or financially.
It's men/women who don't have a support system of some sort that often end up struggling with a child.click to expand

Posted by starloverWhat is hard to understand that men do not want women that act like men?
....rabbit doesnt but there are a few guys here that call women names for doing what men have been doing for years and not being criticised for it
Maybe they lack intelligence.....red neck or culchie type males, but even so ............

Posted by DMVLulzMAO 😄 aww!
face palm, I was agreeing with you. Blame my mercury in scorp, i communicate better with telepathy.

Posted by RabbitIt makes perfect sense.
I hope that makes sense.
It would be my preference to not date her.
But it would not influence my idea of her value as a person.

Posted by Rabbit#respectPosted by DMVNo. I wouldn't call her a slut or whore.
Guys, the question is why do we jump down womans throat. GOSH answered, whereas the rest of you are talking about unplanned pregnancies, casual sex, etc. Those can be your reasons for not having casual sex, but is that a good enough reason to call a woman a slut or whore?
Nor would I consider her one.
She would NOT be "my cup of tea" however.click to expand

Posted by Rabbitthis is interesting from a male perspective
It could also be that people who slut shame are insecure.
I can see other women lashing out because they wonder what she has that they don't and the men feeling insecure about how they "measure up" to all the other men she's been with.

Posted by DMV why do you refernce it as the slut route? Why are you calling her a slut? A weaker woman hearing that is damaging to her self esteem. I see these mems where woman are supposed to be enpowering each other. Are you enpowering her by tearing her down?Where did "sex shaming" come from? Is that the new socially acceptable term for slut? FYI definition of "Slut" from 3 different online dictionaries..
or is it just for fun?
it is sad to see a woman come in here and poster after poster riducle her. It hurts me to the core because ive been targeted on DXP repeatedly and been called names repeatedly. Im a much stronger womam so I can deal, but its shocking.

Posted by beautifuldiasterWhere's the shame here? If she's proud to be a slut, doesn't think twice about laying down with anyone, any time any place and enjoys it why would she feel shamed? Explain that.Posted by RabbitAt the end of the day, what another person does is not your business unless you are their friend/SO/family etc... and even then - it is still their life.
It could also be that people who slut shame are insecure.
I can see other women lashing out because they wonder what she has that they don't and the men feeling insecure about how they "measure up" to all the other men she's been with.
No need to shame.
Says more about the person shaming then it does the person of topic.
Actions will speak for themselves.click to expand

Posted by CapTennIt's all in the preference I suppose of the "throwback" and the "keeper."Posted by RabbitIt makes perfect sense.
I hope that makes sense.
It would be my preference to not date her.
But it would not influence my idea of her value as a person.
Your standards are higher than to try to turn a hoe into a housewife.
I agree.click to expand

Posted by LetltBDo you feel like the word slut is derogatory or demeaning?Posted by DMV why do you refernce it as the slut route? Why are you calling her a slut? A weaker woman hearing that is damaging to her self esteem. I see these mems where woman are supposed to be enpowering each other. Are you enpowering her by tearing her down?Where did "sex shaming" come from? Is that the new socially acceptable term for slut? FYI definition of "Slut" from 3 different online dictionaries..
or is it just for fun?
it is sad to see a woman come in here and poster after poster riducle her. It hurts me to the core because ive been targeted on DXP repeatedly and been called names repeatedly. Im a much stronger womam so I can deal, but its shocking.
slut
/sl??t/ noun
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
TOP DEFINITION slut
a woman with the morals of a man
slut A person considered to be sexually promiscuous
So to answer your second question "Why are you calling her a slut" ....it's what a slut is or the the "slut route" as you put it.
Regarding a woman's self esteem, if she's proud to be a slut, please tell me how it's damaging? ...and HOW is that tearing her down? I'm not ridiculing anyone...I stated and have stated TO EACH HER OWN. Am I suppose to wave a flag or march in a parade or something?click to expand

Posted by LetltBthere are alot of words in the dictionary that have implied meanings and are considered by some to be derogatory. Do you think the word slut is one of them?Posted by DMV why do you refernce it as the slut route? Why are you calling her a slut? A weaker woman hearing that is damaging to her self esteem. I see these mems where woman are supposed to be enpowering each other. Are you enpowering her by tearing her down?Where did "sex shaming" come from? Is that the new socially acceptable term for slut? FYI definition of "Slut" from 3 different online dictionaries..
or is it just for fun?
it is sad to see a woman come in here and poster after poster riducle her. It hurts me to the core because ive been targeted on DXP repeatedly and been called names repeatedly. Im a much stronger womam so I can deal, but its shocking.
slut
/sl??t/ noun
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
TOP DEFINITION slut
a woman with the morals of a man
slut A person considered to be sexually promiscuous
So to answer your second question "Why are you calling her a slut" ....it's what a slut is or the the "slut route" as you put it.
Regarding a woman's self esteem, if she's proud to be a slut, please tell me how it's damaging? ...and HOW is that tearing her down? I'm not ridiculing anyone...I stated and have stated TO EACH HER OWN. Am I suppose to wave a flag or march in a parade or something?click to expand


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Im so over women judging other women. Im tired of the name calling. Im tired of other women claiming they want respect, but they dont give it. This so called pecking order is just downright cruel. Women are attacked and gang'd up on just for having sex. The response is so strong and seemingly very deep rooted.
Why is tolerance so hard for some of you? Is the article right? Do you feel like you have a deep seated fear that you will become somehow powerlessness?