To be Loved or To be Understood?

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Posted by Torro
I don't think that you need to be understood to be loved. Someone just might love you because you're hard for them to understand.

I'd say respected above all. Someone who respects me doesn't have to understand me, and I won't ask them to. Ihe important thing to me is that they respect me, what I do, the decisions I make. They don't have to agree with them or understand them. Just respect them. Love is optional, they can still love me even without understanding or agreement. That'd be an interesting kinda love.



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I have been most loved because of my understanding.

I am most loved by those who understand me.

Understood.

As TheMoodyVulcan said, "Understanding always has the potential to become love, whereas love may never lead to understanding."

Thinking very primal here, I just imagine being on a desert island with someone who "loves" me but, doesn't understand me...grrrrr!

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Posted by Jahlia
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Posted by Jahlia
To be loved-being understood is not always a good thing IMHO
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Jahlia - I didn't realize that you're a young version of me 🙂



LOL, How so? I think this is the first conversation we've had, so I'm rather curious about which similarities we may have 🙂(or well had).
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Posted by WaterCup
Understood, I like when people GET me & it usually leads them to liking me. I'm misunderstood a lot, so its always refreshing when I'm actually understood.
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Exactly!!! I'm the same thing. It's when people understand the real you that they start to love you and it's not really easy for people to start liking me because they don't understand where I'm coming from and I'm vice versa.

Well, I even don't understand myself most of the time.. 😉

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