Too much sharing :/

Did you ever been in a situation, with coworker, or family member, anyone when they share everything about thier relationship with you?

Like she even talk about sexual things, even the nasty things, then she will laugh and say:” oh god I can’t believe I’ Sharing this with you!” Then she will continue, and she told me about how horrible his husband is to her, it’s been like this for a year now, and I’m tired 😓

I can’t take it anymore, I start to hide myself from her, and avoided her more than week, but she didn’t get it, she only talk about her misery with me, sometimes I wonder if she is really that misery? I know people can get stuck in a real bad relationship, and they can’t get out.

But with others she talk about positive things, and the places she and her husband goes to... etc

She think that I will be happy about this, she told me:” You’re the only person Who know about everything that happened in my life “ and I was like oh 😊. when actually, I was like what the hell, I don’t wanna know, I don’t wanna know, because I give her advices many times, I tried to help her, but nothing change, Imm tired.

So how can I let her know? That I can’t take it anymore, and that I’m really going through a lot, I just want her to stop with her husband stories

Without hurting her feelings.

I mean fk this , I don’t wanna be cruel, but this is too much for my heart 😿

Just say I don’t know for everything lol.