What you expect vs. what actually happens

Has this ever happened to you? You think situation A is going to happen, but then out of nowhere, situation B happens.

Or have you experienced this more: you think situation A is going to happen. And it does.

That's how life is right?

I can't say...hmm.. both A , B , sometimes even C D E F Z also have happened.

The Snellan eye exam chart ..lol @RumiL

That's right get your eyes checked. Haha.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
The Snellan eye exam chart ..lol @RumiL

Tehehe 😄

I've learned to just expect the worst on 100% of everything.

Then you're either proven wrong by something positive, or at the least not surprised.

Lucky u actually I think plan A will happen and it doesn't or plan b I'm just sol

I'm thankful for this thread....It's always when u least expect it or the 1 you least expect so now I definetly don't wanna expect anything & sometimes not even hope for anything. It's like in a relationship when a guy has one girl he wants attention from that's not showing him attention & may have even cheated on him he prefers but the other he feels is too nice that shows him attention & loyalty so he ignores her and when she leaves and betters herself he then realizes it was the 1 he least expected. She was the blessing and he was the lesson.

If plan A does work then it was meant to be but even if it's meant to be u may or may not have some regret depending on the situation like the 1 above plan a may work now but what if it doesn't later? & remember nothing's permanent even when couples say I'll be with u forever...forever doesn't exist and one day God may call one of u and 1 would be left alone so now attachments to temporary situations sets u up to fail too & ur still left with self.