
Tina
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Posted by pinkbird03So get into speed dating asap! ?Posted by TeenaProbably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??click to expand

Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??click to expand

Posted by GemitatiLol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!Posted by pinkbird03Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by pinkbird03So get into speed dating asap! ?Posted by TeenaProbably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
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Posted by TeenaPosted by pinkbird03The best part is you know where you're possibly effing up n that's a cool thing.Posted by TeenaProbably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Haha yeah 20 sounds like a good number. Goodluck?click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!Posted by GemitatiLol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!Posted by pinkbird03Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
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Posted by GemitatiBlocked by a Scorpio moon?? Wow u must have been a stage 5 clinger!!Posted by pinkbird03Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!Posted by GemitatiLol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!Posted by pinkbird03Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
?
So I can't be now. Lol
How about asking questions when on a date and while not in a date just bite your hands every time you want to DO something clingy? Lol
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Posted by pinkbird03There was a stage created for me personally '5OMG!' ?Posted by GemitatiBlocked by a Scorpio moon?? Wow u must have been a stage 5 clinger!!Posted by pinkbird03Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!Posted by GemitatiLol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!Posted by pinkbird03Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
?
So I can't be now. Lol
How about asking questions when on a date and while not in a date just bite your hands every time you want to DO something clingy? Lol
Yes no more questions in text messages! I've had to write in the contact name ❓so I remember not to ask questions! Lolclick to expand

Posted by TeenaWhen I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?click to expand

Posted by AneemA08That's the way I am wired. All or nothing!Posted by GemitatiThat doesn't sound peaceful.. :/Posted by Scorpio84Tip isn't enough. I need whole 9 yards...
I can give you good tips to get younger lol
Why do you want everything?
It seems tiring, you know..click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaWhen I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?click to expand

Posted by TeenaYou haven't laughed hard enough after 3 beers, child...?Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaWhen I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
I didn't know this is a thing ?
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Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I never drank beer being in country which is one of the top consumers of beer in the world. You just gave me one more reason to not touch that butter ??Posted by TeenaYou haven't laughed hard enough after 3 beers, child...?Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaWhen I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?Posted by TeenaSheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —Posted by GemitatiLOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —Posted by TeenaI've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?Posted by Gemitati— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?Posted by TeenaI would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?Posted by pinkbird03Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.Posted by TeenaPretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase outPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaThen she gets clingy with texting and calling.Posted by pinkbird03I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?Posted by TeenaI get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.Posted by pinkbird03I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.Posted by Gemitati1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!Posted by pinkbird03Well than therapy is in order!!!Posted by Gemitatilol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!Posted by pinkbird03It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!Posted by GemitatiI'm going to be a cougar one day...Posted by pinkbird03Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!
since I'll be single forever
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
What is going wrong?
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Thankyiuverymuch!
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
I didn't know this is a thing ?
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Posted by Scorpio84You have a mother...Posted by GemitatiPosted by Scorpio84And I am not repeating it! ?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Scorpio84We've been trough this before.
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I am 51 as of May 26.
lol it's the first time your telling me xD
You could be my mother since she only got +5 years than you.click to expand
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Haha yeah 20 sounds like a good number. Goodluck?