Why to look younger... (Page 2)

Gemitati · 2017-06-13T20:27:35Z

Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Teena Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Teena Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Gemitati Posted by Teena Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Teena Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Gemitati Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Gemitati Posted by pinkbird03 Posted by Gemitati Posted by pinkbird03 Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!! Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so. I'm going to be a cougar one day... since I'll be single forever It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it! Look at yourself in a mirror naked! Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours! Good luck! lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it! Well than therapy is in order!!! What is going wrong? 1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!! 2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away! 3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking 4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit 5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!! I'm sure I could think of other problems!! I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling. Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much? N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons? I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer. No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle. I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing? Then she gets clingy with texting and calling. ? lol yea! Lol! And then they run away?? Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship. Probably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ? click to expand The best part is you know where you're possibly effing up n that's a cool thing. Haha yeah 20 sounds like a good number. Goodluck?

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