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Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
Probably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?
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So get into speed dating asap! ?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
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Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
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LOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
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Lol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
Probably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?
So get into speed dating asap! ?
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Lolol not a bad idea!
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
Probably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?
The best part is you know where you're possibly effing up n that's a cool thing.
Haha yeah 20 sounds like a good number. Goodluck?
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Lol yea I do see it! Thanks for the talk!
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Lol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
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Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!
?
So I can't be now. Lol
How about asking questions when on a date and while not in a date just bite your hands every time you want to DO something clingy? Lol
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Lol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!
?
So I can't be now. Lol
How about asking questions when on a date and while not in a date just bite your hands every time you want to DO something clingy? Lol
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Blocked by a Scorpio moon?? Wow u must have been a stage 5 clinger!!
Yes no more questions in text messages! I've had to write in the contact name ❓so I remember not to ask questions! Lol
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.
I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?
However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!
If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.
See?
Lol u clingy?? No way!! I don't believe that for a second. I think I get emotional. I'm a cancer sun Scorpio moon and Venus Leo. I've got a big heart! I cry during happy times in movies!!
Ok so I'm clingy by texting a lot, asking lots of questions even dumb ones just to know more about the guy, I want a lot of attention and to be the only girl he gives attention to, I enjoy talking on the phone and video chatting, I think wayyyy too much about him
When I realize I'm acting this way, I do sometimes back off a little or a lot. Won't text for a day or two is the most I can go! But then I go back
Oh yeah! I was so clingy so I got blocked from texting and calling period! By Scorpio moon! Imagine THAT!
?
So I can't be now. Lol
How about asking questions when on a date and while not in a date just bite your hands every time you want to DO something clingy? Lol
Blocked by a Scorpio moon?? Wow u must have been a stage 5 clinger!!
Yes no more questions in text messages! I've had to write in the contact name ❓so I remember not to ask questions! Lol
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There was a stage created for me personally '5OMG!' ?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
LOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
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When I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?
Posted by Scorpio84
I can give you good tips to get younger lolTip isn't enough. I need whole 9 yards...
That doesn't sound peaceful.. :/
Why do you want everything?
It seems tiring, you know..
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That's the way I am wired. All or nothing!
?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
LOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
When I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?
click to expand
I didn't know this is a thing ?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
LOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
When I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?
I didn't know this is a thing ?
click to expand
You haven't laughed hard enough after 3 beers, child...?
Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.
I'm going to be a cougar one day...
since I'll be single forever
It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!
Look at yourself in a mirror naked!
Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!
Good luck!
lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
Well than therapy is in order!!!
What is going wrong?
1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!
2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!
3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking
4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit
5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!
I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.
Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?
N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.
No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.
?
lol yea!
Lol! And then they run away??
Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?
Thankyiuverymuch!
— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?
Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??
LOL!! I want you to be with me everywhere here.. letting me post all stupid things, smacking me when I'm wrong or getting all emotional, defending me from stupid ppl... I effing NEED you —
Sheesh...do you know people here? They will blow it out of proportions so I will have to adopt you to prove to them I am having pure intentions and not some kind of creepy ones...now...1-2-3 bathroom run —
LOL!!! Yes yes I know how it is here. We'll have an official dxp adoption bond made n digitally signed by us?
Wtf is bathroom run tho—?
When I am laughing hard so I am barely making to the bathroom before it's too late! ?
I didn't know this is a thing ?
You haven't laughed hard enough after 3 beers, child...?
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LOL!! I never drank beer being in country which is one of the top consumers of beer in the world. You just gave me one more reason to not touch that butter ??
Posted by Scorpio84
How old are you now?We've been trough this before.
Too forgetful for your age? Write important info down. Save. Now you have it!
I am 51 as of May 26.
lol it's the first time your telling me xD
And I am not repeating it! ?
You could be my mother since she only got +5 years than you.
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You have a mother...
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The best part is you know where you're possibly effing up n that's a cool thing.
Haha yeah 20 sounds like a good number. Goodluck?