Why to look younger...

...if people who matters love you the way you are?

Right? And specially when some of them don't even KNOW how old are you and never asked. So heck with it!

When you done - they will alter your face so no one can recognize you anyways?

Posted by Brosmosis

Posted by Gemitati
...if people who matters love you the way you are?

Right? And specially when some of them don't even KNOW how old are you and never asked. So heck with it!

When you done - they will alter your face so no one can recognize you anyways?

Put dat crack pipe down, bro.
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I really wish you had power outage!

Posted by Gemitati

When you done - they will alter your face so no one can recognize you anyways?

—

Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

Posted by GlaringTruth
Is this you talking to yourself?

No. This post is made for you to come out and ask stupid questions!

Mission accomplished. Deleting the post.

Duh!

@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly
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You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

arent u supposed to be wise and shit

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I am not wasting it on you.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?
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So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

arent u supposed to be wise and shit

I am not wasting it on you.

stay pissed and wrinkly

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Stay stupid and single!

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

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You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

big words right there

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Any word longer then 4 letters is big for you...

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

arent u supposed to be wise and shit

I am not wasting it on you.

stay pissed and wrinkly

Stay stupid and single!

go knit or something!
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Does your grandma though you to say that?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

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Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?
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Have you been lied a lot to witch hunter?

Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?

Posted by Scorpio84
I can give you good tips to get younger lol

Tip isn't enough. I need whole 9 yards...

Posted by starwars

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

oooo

you think gemitati = DJ? LOL

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@teena called it

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

Have you been lied a lot to witch hunter?

Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?
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You don't care cause your a troll.

A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.

—?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

Have you been lied a lot to witch hunter?

Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?

You don't care cause your a troll.

A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.

—?
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You make me yawn...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

Have you been lied a lot to witch hunter?

Seems you are obsessed with catching liars. I would feel for you info cared. Sorry I don't. ?

You don't care cause your a troll.

A troll with saggy wrinkly DEFLATED granny tits.

—?

You make me yawn...
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Thanks for the update ?

Posted by Scorpio84
How old are you now?

We've been trough this before.

Too forgetful for your age? Write important info down. Save. Now you have it!

I am 51 as of May 26.

Posted by Scorpio84

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Scorpio84
How old are you now?

We've been trough this before.

Too forgetful for your age? Write important info down. Save. Now you have it!

I am 51 as of May 26.

lol it's the first time your telling me xD
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And I am not repeating it! ?

13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by starwars

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

oooo

you think gemitati = DJ? LOL

@teena called it
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LOL!!

@hydorah

post your pic gemitati, I'm curious

Posted by Teena

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by starwars

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

oooo

you think gemitati = DJ? LOL

@teena called it

LOL!!
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How is it funny TEE-NA? ?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

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I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever
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It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!
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lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!
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Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by starwars

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati
@starwars

Chickenshit! I saw you posted...BOO!

chill or you'll get even more wrinkly

You wish you were as wrinkly as I am!

You could get land some one to deal with IRL and not online...?

So there ARE wrinkles. Waiting on that picture of them that you promised...

You deflating. Your responses are vague and invalid. Go take a walk or something.

Deflating?? What does that even mean.

I caught you in another lie geminati, or should I say DJ? ? ? ?

oooo

you think gemitati = DJ? LOL

@teena called it

LOL!!

How is it funny TEE-NA? ?
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No kidding! Not funny at all ?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?
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1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
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I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?
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Lol oh come on I can't be that bad

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I am packing my stuff and moving outta this thread. So long...?

Lol oh come on I can't be that bad

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Trust me. You are!

I am afraid it's sociopathic Narcissism.

And there is no cure so far. Bye

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!
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I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

Posted by Teena

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?
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I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Teena

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.
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I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?
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Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

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lol yea!

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

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Lol! And then they run away??

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

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I can read!!!! ?

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

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Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
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Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out

Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
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I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?

Thankyiuverymuch!

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out

Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.

I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?

Thankyiuverymuch!
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— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out
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Ok. HOW clingy are you really? Describe.

I know I can be unbearable. Not kidding! As hard as this to believe?

However when you cherish that man - you figuring out what he is made of and if you are not complete dolt - you get when he is happy or pissed. And adjust accordingly!

If I was acting like myself - I would be history a looong time ago.

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

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lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out

Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.

I would appreciate if someone tagged me into this convo.?

Thankyiuverymuch!

— I need not tag you Gemi! You own this convo?
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I've missed 2 posts! Like if you don't want me to be here! ?

Well...I think I am PMSing or getting pre-menopausal. Whatever comes first.??

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Ill have to stay young looking forever because no one loves me!! I mean no guy!!

Do you want 20 at 40? I don't think so.

I'm going to be a cougar one day...

since I'll be single forever

It's all in attitude darling! Men can sense your insecurity. STOP it!

Look at yourself in a mirror naked!

Assess your body. Whatever you don't like - fall in love with it because it's yours!

Good luck!

lol I look good naked! I actually have so much confidence being single!! Maybe too much! It's the relationship that I'm insecure with!! I'm just not good at it!

Well than therapy is in order!!!

What is going wrong?

1. I want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. So basically i like to chase the guy I like. Then when he wants me, I don't want him anymore! So I distance myself and then he distances himself and then I want him again until he wants me! I don't like guys that chase me first! I've turned down two celebrities who chased me at different times. Like how stupid was that!!!

2. I get too emotionally attached before the guy does and that I think scares him away!

3. I'm a bit clingy! With texting and talking

4. I have a huge wall up! Which means I don't trust guys one bit

5. I always think there's someone better out there for me so I have a hard time settling. I'm also super picky!!

I'm sure I could think of other problems!!

I think the first case is because you're looking for validation (not because you're not getting enough already.. it's just how human brains are wired..we need validation from someone who we think we can't have) n not because you're in love. Or you just love the idea of love n the chasing part which seems thrilling.

Getting too emotionally attached too soon n having huge walls up sounds contradictory. So in what way are you getting attached? Like what do you share(or don't) when you think you're getting attached? Do you retreat once you think you've shared too much?

N feeling there's always someone better can be because you didn't find the one. Did you meet someone who ticks all your boxes yet didn't fall for him? N did you meet someone who you thought you actually fell in love with(not just the chasing part) n let go of for whatever reasons? If you did, what were the reasons?

I get attached with the idea of wanting to be in a relationship with someone I like. I haven't really liked a lot of guys in the last 6 or 7 years that I've been single and just dating. Only 3! So when I like them, I don't want to lose them. That's why I get attached. But I also have my wall up and never like the guy that much in the first month. And I never meet a guy I met online for at least a month if not longer.

No I haven't met a guy who meets all my criteria lol but those 3 have been pretty close and I was willing to settle.

I get it. So what happened when you were ready n willing?

Then she gets clingy with texting and calling.

?

lol yea!

Lol! And then they run away??

Pretty much!! They don't act too interested and it's usually a phase out

Maybe just slow down a tad with opening up n stuff n give them more space. I don't know how clingy you're being but why blame yourself. Maybe those guys weren't even looking to be in a relationship.
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Probably both! They don't actually want a relationship and I need to give more space so I don't pressure them. I must say i get better with every guy I date!! Maybe eventually the 20th one will be the charm!! ?