Aqua Moons in love

What are your deepest needs and wants in love and relationships??

Calling all you cool Aqua mooners and those who have dated them!

aquas eh i think those dudes like to be unshaved and smelly, ya and some additional ganja would be fun
hippie love lol

pssh I shave fool.

Gosh, thats a hard question. I have an aqua moon so will give you my thoughts.

I really just love feeling like I have found a great friend, a friend that i can then share more intimate moments with, explore each other in great depth and have meaningful sex with. I find loving very easy. Especially loving humanity and the world around. I kind of view romantic love like an extension of that feeling but lit up with moments of deep friendship.

I want my partner to be open minded. To live and let live. To see the beauty in the world and not get caught up in unimportant stuff. I love to have conversations with strangers and go out and have fun with you and without you. I love to miss you and need my alone time to recharge. I love hearing you express yourself. I love talking to you and i need intellectual conversations with you, not just conversations about our feelings, lol. I need spontaneity and adventure with you. I want us to be open minded with one another, to not judge each other. To trust each other. i want to be independent. I want you to be independent. I don't want to be looked after or to look after you. Don't get me wrong i will care about you and will do things for you but i don't want to be your mama.

But really lets just be happy. Enjoy each other.

i want in a person: someone who is open and broadminded, who doesn't rush to commitment, who can meet my mind, who know who they are, humane, considerate, who mind their own business and doesn't gossip and who are unique and artistic

Knowledgeable and open-minded, true to themselves, an individual who doesn't allow others to run over them, someone who will accept me with all my little quirks as I will accept theirs and give me space to do my own thing. And someone who will understand that I need time to miss them. That might as well be my deepest need.

Posted by crabberries
i want in a person: someone who is open and broadminded, who doesn't rush to commitment, who can meet my mind, who know who they are, humane, considerate, who mind their own business and doesn't gossip and who are unique and artistic

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That's why I love you so much, guys!

this sounds very calm and i do need peacefulness!

Thanks for all the comments!

Follow up questions: How loyal are Aqua mooners when in love? and how much space do you need?

My Cap/Aqua with the Aqua moon, Scorp Rising, Pisces Venus and Aries Mars has recently been hinting at living together. Ie. "should I start looking for a place for us?". Me, being very skittish about commitment panics and says "uh.. well.. not right away..but it doesn't hurt to look". He quickly says "so keep my eyes open?", Me..."......yes.....".

I'm worried that if we get serious I'll always be the one missing him because he doesn't seem to need a lot of contact and enjoys missing me as you all pointed out. I don't really like that in a committed relationship...must be my Leo moon looking for daily attention from the one I'm with. I lose interest if it's not sustained 😢

Any advice?

Don't settle SunMoonStars

Posted by oyes0435
Space is important. Sometimes, for absolutely no clear reason (and absolutely NOT personal against anyone at all) I just have to be alone. Absorbed in music, nature, whatever, but definitely alone. When I'm done being alone I definitely need to NOT be alone any more.

haha, you've described it well.

loyal enough as long as you respect our love for freedom

Aquarius Moon faced with emotional matters, in a nutshell...


"Do you feel me? Even just a little bit? Or is it whatever to you?"

I've been asked this question a few days ago. At that moment I just thought to myself




At first I was hesitant to give an answer at all. He kept pushing it so I carefully asked "What do you mean, do I feel you?". And he started saying something about it not being something that can be explained...........




I go "If you're asking me if I care about you... I do care about you... but..." at that moment he asked me to stop, that that's all he wanted to hear, but I just had to go on and fuck everything up by saying "I mean I care about my dog, how would I not care about you?..." lol. SO I basically said that I do give a crap or two, but that he shouldn't feel too special because of it.



Go me! For real, I can be such an idiot. I wish I just smiled and kept my mouth shut or made a joke or something. Or I should have been honest and said that I don't know. I get so confused and start rambling bs when faced with such questions. That's air Moon for ya. Libra to a lesser extent tho.

Posted by oyes0435
Your worries are insightful to me.. I have my eye on a Leo moon..

I am loyal to the death when I'm seriously in love with someone. Out and about though, at a party, bar, or event or whatever, if the mood strikes me I'm a butterfly... social, going around, flirting (a little bit). If my partner has a problem with it and that's communicated correctly then it ends right there. Fidelity was/is never a problem (for me).

Space is important. Sometimes, for absolutely no clear reason (and absolutely NOT personal against anyone at all) I just have to be alone. Absorbed in music, nature, whatever, but definitely alone. When I'm done being alone I definitely need to NOT be alone any more.

If you need more affection SAY SOMETHING... maybe bring it up sideways so it's not like a demand. But communicate it, otherwise they'll never be the wiser. He does miss you, he just will not show it so directly unless its communicated (slyly) that that's what you need.

Hope this helps.

Thank you so much for this answer!

I think you sound just like him. I told him his casual flirting bothers me because he's hot and girls already naturally gravitate towards him. I don't want them to get the wrong idea. On the other hand, I don't care if I'm not there and he wants to be sociable, however when I'm around I expect him to keep conversations with females to a minimum. My Leo Moon will do the same for him, it's just respect imo.

He said "Ok, I hear what you said and take it into consideration.", then a little while later he said "after you brought that to my attention I've tried to cut that out now".

As for SPACE, ... it kind of sucks because I actually like banter a lot. All my fire placements, but I appear to be a loner/cold with the Aqua Rising when people first meet me.

If he needs space, that's fine, I just want to be informed "hey I need a night to veg out" or something like that. Nothing personal.

I definitely say things to him a lot haha, it's my Saggy Sun, I can't not. I mentioned before he said it's been like a year long interview 🙂

Another question for you Aqua Mooners...

Do you ever fully merge lives with someone? GF/BF? Husband/Wife?

Does it make a difference?

Posted by oyes0435
Your worries are insightful to me.. I have my eye on a Leo moon..

I am loyal to the death when I'm seriously in love with someone. Out and about though, at a party, bar, or event or whatever, if the mood strikes me I'm a butterfly... social, going around, flirting (a little bit). If my partner has a problem with it and that's communicated correctly then it ends right there. Fidelity was/is never a problem (for me).

Space is important. Sometimes, for absolutely no clear reason (and absolutely NOT personal against anyone at all) I just have to be alone. Absorbed in music, nature, whatever, but definitely alone. When I'm done being alone I definitely need to NOT be alone any more.

If you need more affection SAY SOMETHING... maybe bring it up sideways so it's not like a demand. But communicate it, otherwise they'll never be the wiser. He does miss you, he just will not show it so directly unless its communicated (slyly) that that's what you need.

Hope this helps.

This is so me. Sometimes I just don't want to be bothered. I like to be social when I am out and for the most part I keep it respectful but if you try to control me, the night and eventually the relationship will be short lived.

Most times it is hard to find someone to connect but once I am into someone, I am fully into them and will want to spend much more time together than apart. I love affection...unrestrained (PDA) but that may be my Venus in Aries.

Oh man, my guy has Aqua moon and I have sag moon..we are odd together lol

I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon female. Since I already think way too much I love it when you can bring a balanced point of view.. I love it when you introduce me to new things. I have alot of tolerance and patience, and I am broadminded.. anything tooo overly I get kinda scared maybe that's my Taurus sides.. my fears and emotional side is way too strong..

Once I make my mind up it's permanent. I am fixed in my ways. I need logic and balance at the same time. You talk, I talk, we must find a compromise.

I love it when you call me first actually.. I do like space, I love to cuddle and flirt with you over the phone or in person..I love it when you can make me laugh. I am a Taurus fixed female. And I am way too serious in lots of things..i love to go places with you or stay home too it's options.

To the person who is Sag moon dating Aqua moon how is that? I am interested in someone with an Aquarius moon so I am interested in the dynamics. I have an Aquarius Venus so I am interested to see how that works with someone with an Aquarius Moon as well.

I'm an Aqua moon...and I think paired with my Pisces Sun/Cancer Rising...I'm pretty hot and cold...

I give lots of attention but feel a little overwhelmed when my partner is clingy...I need enough space to want more, if that makes any sense...

I want my partner to be my best friend...someone I have fun with and doesn't take life too seriously...someone with a good heart who is open to anything life may throw their way...someone who enjoys adventure...who understands that routine can be deadly to any relationship...

My bf has an Aqua moon, I think it's important to be their friend first. If you can't be friends, there is no way it's going to work.

Posted by Gobshite
I really couldn't give a shit. IMO, the Aqua moon is one of the worst moons in astrology.

can you elaborate?

Gobshite pls tell us more.

Thanks for all replies so far! 🙂

Posted by Sunshinedaze
Gosh, thats a hard question. I have an aqua moon so will give you my thoughts.

I really just love feeling like I have found a great friend, a friend that i can then share more intimate moments with, explore each other in great depth and have meaningful sex with. I find loving very easy. Especially loving humanity and the world around. I kind of view romantic love like an extension of that feeling but lit up with moments of deep friendship.

I want my partner to be open minded. To live and let live. To see the beauty in the world and not get caught up in unimportant stuff. I love to have conversations with strangers and go out and have fun with you and without you. I love to miss you and need my alone time to recharge. I love hearing you express yourself. I love talking to you and i need intellectual conversations with you, not just conversations about our feelings, lol. I need spontaneity and adventure with you. I want us to be open minded with one another, to not judge each other. To trust each other. i want to be independent. I want you to be independent. I don't want to be looked after or to look after you. Don't get me wrong i will care about you and will do things for you but i don't want to be your mama.

But really lets just be happy. Enjoy each other.

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Posted by oyes0435
Your worries are insightful to me.. I have my eye on a Leo moon..

I am loyal to the death when I'm seriously in love with someone. Out and about though, at a party, bar, or event or whatever, if the mood strikes me I'm a butterfly... social, going around, flirting (a little bit). If my partner has a problem with it and that's communicated correctly then it ends right there. Fidelity was/is never a problem (for me).

Space is important. Sometimes, for absolutely no clear reason (and absolutely NOT personal against anyone at all) I just have to be alone. Absorbed in music, nature, whatever, but definitely alone. When I'm done being alone I definitely need to NOT be alone any more.

If you need more affection SAY SOMETHING... maybe bring it up sideways so it's not like a demand. But communicate it, otherwise they'll never be the wiser. He does miss you, he just will not show it so directly unless its communicated (slyly) that that's what you need.

Hope this helps.

This is so me. Sometimes I just don't want to be bothered. I like to be social when I am out and for the most part I keep it respectful but if you try to control me, the night and eventually the relationship will be short lived.

Most times it is hard to find someone to connect but once I am into someone, I am fully into them and will want to spend much more time together than apart. I love affection...unrestrained (PDA) but that may be my Venus in Aries.

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Everything you said on here is on point. Aqua moon w/ a scorp sun here btw.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon female. Since I already think way too much I love it when you can bring a balanced point of view.. I love it when you introduce me to new things. I have alot of tolerance and patience, and I am broadminded.. anything tooo overly I get kinda scared maybe that's my Taurus sides.. my fears and emotional side is way too strong..

Once I make my mind up it's permanent. I am fixed in my ways. I need logic and balance at the same time. You talk, I talk, we must find a compromise.

I love it when you call me first actually.. I do like space, I love to cuddle and flirt with you over the phone or in person..I love it when you can make me laugh. I am a Taurus fixed female. And I am way too serious in lots of things..i love to go places with you or stay home too it's options.

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same here! I can have a hard time dealing with emotions sometimes. I don't like anything that is too much but I need consistency. Don't like being clingy but I would like to spend as much time as I could with my love.

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Posted by Sunshinedaze
Gosh, thats a hard question. I have an aqua moon so will give you my thoughts.

I really just love feeling like I have found a great friend, a friend that i can then share more intimate moments with, explore each other in great depth and have meaningful sex with. I find loving very easy. Especially loving humanity and the world around. I kind of view romantic love like an extension of that feeling but lit up with moments of deep friendship.

I want my partner to be open minded. To live and let live. To see the beauty in the world and not get caught up in unimportant stuff. I love to have conversations with strangers and go out and have fun with you and without you. I love to miss you and need my alone time to recharge. I love hearing you express yourself. I love talking to you and i need intellectual conversations with you, not just conversations about our feelings, lol. I need spontaneity and adventure with you. I want us to be open minded with one another, to not judge each other. To trust each other. i want to be independent. I want you to be independent. I don't want to be looked after or to look after you. Don't get me wrong i will care about you and will do things for you but i don't want to be your mama.

But really lets just be happy. Enjoy each other.

Ahhh, but once you guys are done with someone or get dumped.. you guys become psychos. -Leo Moon

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Defo true. My ex is aqua moon and we split 8 years ago and he's only just stopped being a nasty, spiteful, vindictive bumhole in last 6 months.

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Posted by Sunshinedaze
Gosh, thats a hard question. I have an aqua moon so will give you my thoughts.

I really just love feeling like I have found a great friend, a friend that i can then share more intimate moments with, explore each other in great depth and have meaningful sex with. I find loving very easy. Especially loving humanity and the world around. I kind of view romantic love like an extension of that feeling but lit up with moments of deep friendship.

I want my partner to be open minded. To live and let live. To see the beauty in the world and not get caught up in unimportant stuff. I love to have conversations with strangers and go out and have fun with you and without you. I love to miss you and need my alone time to recharge. I love hearing you express yourself. I love talking to you and i need intellectual conversations with you, not just conversations about our feelings, lol. I need spontaneity and adventure with you. I want us to be open minded with one another, to not judge each other. To trust each other. i want to be independent. I want you to be independent. I don't want to be looked after or to look after you. Don't get me wrong i will care about you and will do things for you but i don't want to be your mama.

But really lets just be happy. Enjoy each other.

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That !!!!