Capricorn moon and Aqua moon

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I've been on good terms with this Scorpio guy; he's the aqua moon. We had and still have a magnetic relationship. His whole life was about to change when I came back into the picture. I understand that he tried to make me happy while balancing his emotions so I gave him as much space as he needed. Before I even knew about the scorp stuff, it pleased me when he said "I love the way you react differently, most people get mad" so that was some type of approval. We eventually fell into a friendship because he has to focus on his new life.

We still have amazing conversations and he stays texting me until he falls asleep and even reads it b4 he goes to sleep. Mind you, he always texted me first but the roles have changed. The other day I wanted to know his birth chart and he isn't in to astrology like I am. He was more interested in knowing what makes me tick. I care for him so much but for the first time in my life, I feel he doesn't trust me like I trust him. I've pulled back and in my disappearing mode because him not trusting me makes me feel like I've done wrong expressing myself to him(no, it has nothing to do with "I ❤ u"). He loves my weirdness but I told him my secret of being an empath and I feel like I've frightened him because I told him what power I saw that he possessed and I could feel him. I know they h8 being analyzed but he truly doesn't know his potential!

I'm a Virgo sun Cap moon. I guess I want to know:

1) Are we compatible?

2) If so, should I go with the flow of my cap moon and disappear or go against it and talk to him about the trust issue? If anything, I don't want to lose him even as a friend.

I'm just tired of being the initiative. Actions speak louder than words and he still laughs at my jokes n stuff. The over thinking is blocking me from feeling him. It's just the trust thing that is bothering me. He said he needs to focus on himself and his responsibility but we can be friends. I believe his heart is closed to outsiders because of his focus. I can't blame him for that. I still give him space. My love for him is deep but for the most part gone. The thing is, I feel like no person can top him and I push them away because I don't sense that deepness and magnetism he gave...sigh ?
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I've been on good terms with this Scorpio guy; he's the aqua moon. We had and still have a magnetic relationship. His whole life was about to change when I came back into the picture. I understand that he tried to make me happy while balancing his emotions so I gave him as much space as he needed. Before I even knew about the scorp stuff, it pleased me when he said "I love the way you react differently, most people get mad" so that was some type of approval. We eventually fell into a friendship because he has to focus on his new life.

We still have amazing conversations and he stays texting me until he falls asleep and even reads it b4 he goes to sleep. Mind you, he always texted me first but the roles have changed. The other day I wanted to know his birth chart and he isn't in to astrology like I am. He was more interested in knowing what makes me tick. I care for him so much but for the first time in my life, I feel he doesn't trust me like I trust him. I've pulled back and in my disappearing mode because him not trusting me makes me feel like I've done wrong expressing myself to him(no, it has nothing to do with "I ❤ u"). He loves my weirdness but I told him my secret of being an empath and I feel like I've frightened him because I told him what power I saw that he possessed and I could feel him. I know they h8 being analyzed but he truly doesn't know his potential!

I'm a Virgo sun Cap moon. I guess I want to know:

1) Are we compatible?

2) If so, should I go with the flow of my cap moon and disappear or go against it and talk to him about the trust issue? If anything, I don't want to lose him even as a friend.

I'm just tired of being the initiative. Actions speak louder than words and he still laughs at my jokes n stuff. The over thinking is blocking me from feeling him. It's just the trust thing that is bothering me. He said he needs to focus on himself and his responsibility but we can be friends. I believe his heart is closed to outsiders because of his focus. I can't blame him for that. I still give him space. My love for him is deep but for the most part gone. The thing is, I feel like no person can top him and I push them away because I don't sense that deepness and magnetism he gave...sigh ?

People say they like being told the truth but not when its about them. I'd tone it down on the astrology until you've known him long enough for him not to care. Trust me, I've been in your position regarding that. If he pushes or asks, then shoot.

Your Sun Signs are definitely compatible. Aquarius Modern ruler is Uranus and traditional- Saturn so I think your Moon is also compatible in that sense.. Best to post both your chart. You probabley know as an astrologer, you shouldn't base compatibily just on the triad but look at the charts as a whole.

You could be compatible via the normal Geocentric, Sidereal or Declinations
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scorpios are similar to us, they don't like being analyzed and for people to be in their faces, they like to have their space when going on about their own thing. don't push for info...the less you do the closer they get.

If I was you I wouldn't expect anything more than a friendship atm...especially if he told you so...they are usually honest with their intentions. even if he text you until he falls asleep and all that stuff, scorpios are naturally obsessive and committed to whatever relationship-friendship they have. they express that freely when the boundaries are clear and they are sure the other person wont get the wrong msg which is super endearing imo.

watch out for detaching yourself way too much. try to find balance..thats the only issue I face with them, any problem can be easily resolved as they are good with confrontations and don't like the drama so its good.

don't overthink too much, as we're naturally comfortable around them

enjoy the friendship for now.. mine are friends for life.

what are your other placements?
I'm not looking for a romantic relationship with him anymore. If it happens then so be it. He's made me grow as a person so much and for so long I was deprived of growth because everyone around me were beneath me. He's like a breath of fresh air and I told him this in a friendly manner and he smiled. In reality, I'll tell you like it is, you know Scorps can be touchy feely when they like you so he wanted fwb and I told him the above and basically said I can't jeopardize losing what he provides for me by developing deeper emotions through sex that he doesn't want. So, in conclusion we are platonic and for me to say no to him is a big deal but he is still being that breath of fresh air when I need him....

The placements

Mine:

Virgo sun

Cap moon

Virgo merc

Libra venus

Gem mars

Virgo jup

Aqua saturn

Cap Uranus

Cap Nept.

Scorp pluto

His:

Scorpio sun

Aqua moon

Sag merc

Libra venus

Scorp mars

Virgo jup

Aqua saturn

Cap uranus

Cap Nept

Scorp pluto
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"People say they like being told the truth but not when its about them. I'd tone it down on the astrology until you've known him long enough for him not to care. Trust me, I've been in your position regarding that. If he pushes or asks, then shoot.

Your Sun Signs are definitely compatible. Aquarius Modern ruler is Uranus and traditional- Saturn so I think your Moon is also compatible in that sense.. Best to post both your chart. You probabley know as an astrologer, you shouldn't base compatibily just on the triad but look"

Thank you so much! I posted both of our charts. We've been talking for 10 years. I felt heartbroken because I felt it was my fault we didn't get together. He asked me out multiple times but I was scared then. He asked one last time before he got with his now bm in 2011. Our friendship went silent until Sept 2015. I had contacted him to see how he was and just in time, I became his shoulder to lean on because he just broke up with his bm and was nervous about his new responsibility in October. He did everything in his power to show me that he was done with her romantically and it was all true...blah blah blah and here we are.
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good, its always better to know where your head at. I know what you're talking about, I owe my scorp buds a lot, they helped me grow and get out of my bubble..hold into that friendship
Ok. I won't disappear. Thanks for the advice! It is much appreciated.
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Sorry but what's with the whole cap moon disappearing act thing? I'm an Aqua moon and I'm very good at disappearing and detaching but the cap moon does it so much better. Currently I deleted the watsapp app coz we chat through there n I'm trying to detach from there unless he reaches out other ways but for the first time I'm doing the detaching thing. Honestly I had enough of his detachment issues after 3 years but now I'm doing it.. Sorry to jump into ur post but I'm really curious..
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As an Aqua moon i feel amazed by cap moons, I think that all cap moons I know like to teach, I like to learn, they are so complex, cold, ambitious and interesting almost makes me crazy. Sometimes crazy good sometimes crazy bad 😄

Yet, I am not sure if both moons work in a relationship!
They are an egg on the outside but a true egg yolk on the inside.. Cold exterior yet a very softy softy soul.. Burden all their problems and trouble in themselves.. Truly truly need a true friend but can push others that love them away ( detaching) . this is my opinion for them coming from an Aqua moon. They are master and colder than us.. is that even possible? Lol
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As an Aqua moon i feel amazed by cap moons, I think that all cap moons I know like to teach, I like to learn, they are so complex, cold, ambitious and interesting almost makes me crazy. Sometimes crazy good sometimes crazy bad 😄

Yet, I am not sure if both moons work in a relationship!
They are an egg on the outside but a true egg yolk on the inside.. Cold exterior yet a very softy softy soul.. Burden all their problems and trouble in themselves.. Truly truly need a true friend but can push others that love them away ( detaching) . this is my opinion for them coming from an Aqua moon. They are master and colder than us.. is that even possible? Lol
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I totally agree with all you said, yet still need to find that softy softy soul. They're just so cold and inteligent!!
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As an Aqua moon i feel amazed by cap moons, I think that all cap moons I know like to teach, I like to learn, they are so complex, cold, ambitious and interesting almost makes me crazy. Sometimes crazy good sometimes crazy bad 😄

Yet, I am not sure if both moons work in a relationship!
They are an egg on the outside but a true egg yolk on the inside.. Cold exterior yet a very softy softy soul.. Burden all their problems and trouble in themselves.. Truly truly need a true friend but can push others that love them away ( detaching) . this is my opinion for them coming from an Aqua moon. They are master and colder than us.. is that even possible? Lol
I totally agree with all you said, yet still need to find that softy softy soul. They're just so cold and inteligent!!
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Yeb very cold.. but I think they show their soft side to those who mean a lot to them and who truly care about them.. !🙂