Frustrated with Taurus?!

I am a Gemini Moon in Aquarius..so that might explain my temperment about this situation.

I have been "Friends" with a Taurus man who recently broke up with his Aquarius girlfriend who cheated on him. I like him and he has told me he likes me, we hang out every week and either talk on the phone or text everyday. He has done strange things like pop up at my job... say hes in the area around the time i get off. But he is sO SLOW TO MOVE things to the neXT leveL i just DONT UNderstaND! Im thinking he is not over his ex..but geesh is this slow decision making a natural taurus trait or is this guy trippin? or am I?

so slow is good...unless you want to be his rebound girl! but make sure it's not sooooooooooooooo slow that your his council friend. Good luck, it'll be hot! (some things worth waiting for)

your probably right ...thanx 🙂

Being turtle slow is a Taurus trait. But be appreciative the longer you wait to really be together the more time there will be since his break, Taurus men hold on to break ups for awhile and you dont want him be even more leary about you because of what his ex did..

he is still hung on ex,but like u..let him get over the ex..do your own thing until he is ready,,but let him know u are interested,,as someone said before,,we dont move slow when we know we want u..but it does take a long time to get over a relationship especially a longterm one

I'm also Gemini with my Taurus. I knew him so well for so long that i knew how to deal with him. I knew i had to wait and he adored that about me. i let him get through everything he had going with no pressure.. i said he was my "investment". and he was. And he is now living with me, and he keeps babbling about marriage so i feel that's coming. It was so worth the wait. He is a phenomenal man. And because i was patient with him (Though it was SOOOO DIFFICULT FOR ME), we built this incredible friendship. we also had distance between us, and managed to make it through that. I can't tell you how many times he has said thank you for being patient with him while he workd out his challenges.

changing from friends to more is frightening for anybody(signs or no signs ) but then add in taurus cautiousness it;s not going to be a linear line to happyville.We are totally histrionic and on top of that it takes us a long time to make sure something is the best decision possible.we may finally give in to passion and do you,but it may be a long time before we act vulnerable to date you.im a female taurus ,but i think its pretty true of my male counterparts as well

im guessing theirs some definate.. ..caution on his part. But im not gonna stress or try to figure out if it ALl has to do with me or the ex. come to the conclusion...im Just gonna live my life..n see what happens..thanx everyone.

You're doing excellent with this guy!!

Taurus is slow...but if he is making you a priority to be seen once a day, you are excellent. Taurus is not one of those clingy, burst into your life, tossing everything up in the air sort of guys and I've never known one to need to be in your face all the time so if he's there it's because he wants to be.

Congrats to you!!

Forgive me for piggybacking on this post....

"Taurus is not one of those clingy, burst into your life, tossing everything up in the air sort of guys and I've never known one to need to be in your face all the time so if he's there it's because he wants to be."


So do they like for women to pursue them or is it best to let them come 2 you?

"So do they like for women to pursue them or is it best to let them come 2 you?"

It seems like a little bit of both.....From my experience with the 2 Taurus men I know, they want to know that you are interested in them and want them as much as they may want you, BBBUUUTTTT.......They do NOT like feeling like there is a ball and chain (YOU) around their ankle......

DO NOT rush them or they will distance themselves and sit back and watch you act like a fool while trying to get their attention....Continue to live your life and do you. They will find that interesting.......They want a mate, however, they do not need one?.Key differences??They want a confident woman and not one who will jump up and leave when they turn their back because she isn't getting the attention she wants from them?..

Key word: PATIENCE?.If you don't have any, you better learn to get some quickly because they take their time?.They are quick when it comes to something they want, but what you want is something that they have to think about how and whether it benefits them or the situation at hand?


Proceed?

Thank you! I just saw this post. Damn. I have met my match.I don't think I can win.

I know what you mean about taurus guys being slow.. haha I have full experience on that one. They are really slow about making descisions even being with one person. My moms ex boyfriend was a taurus and he wanted to marry her an then like he took forever so she dumped him an is now with a gemini for 7 years. They fight alot, shes a leo. Hm.
And this taurus guy is still waiting for her after 7 years he still didnt find anyone else.

i think you r tripping cause he probably moving slow cause he dont know how would you take it if he approach u on some relationship type thing so actually he is not moving to slow he is going with the flow