Gemini moons who want to feel deeply and connect

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Hi everyone, this is my first post, glad to talk to you all 🙂 Today I was reading an astrology book and Gemini moons were described as having superficial emotions and talking about emotions rather than actually feeling them, I related to this and it made me feel really sad (or think really sad, more like haha) I'm an Aquarius sun, Gemini moon and Gemini ascendant so very airy, I have always really wanted to feel a deep connection to people and experience emotions like love and bonding but my brain is too loud and my feelings very changeable, confused,scattered and weak. Do gemini moons have to resign themselves to the fact that they will never have the capacity for depth or is there some way or technique to break through that barrier and truly feel something and connect. Whenever I hear descriptions of geminis and Aquarians I always hear them described as detached or un emotional but it's always written in a way that makes it sound as if they don't care and enjoy being this way. I hate being this way, I so want to connect emotionally and feel but I have no ability to so far and always feel I'm on the outside looking in.I have had great relationships and some friendships but I always feel limited and can't reach any emotional depth. Anyone else felt this way?Any suggestions? Thanks a million guys xxxxx
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I get on really well with others, can make friends or relationships super easy, I'm easy going and people mostly like me so it's not a matter of rubbing people up the wrong way or not having access to people. It's that the connections are superficial because where other people have feelings and a bond which is deeper then words I just don't feel those things. I've got Mars in Taurus. Thanks for the replies 😉
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Posted by Fox
Surprised because my Aries sun/Gem moon aunt feels so deeply. She doesn't have to cry to show it, you see it in her eyes when she's talking. I think gem moons are deep, but sometimes people think you have to be balling all the time to be considered deep and sensitive which isn't the case at all. love maaaa gem moon aunt v-v
I've been told this as an Aries sun/Leeb moon. Granted, Leeb moons are the most openly sensitive out of all air moons, however that would never negate the fact that air placements are in fact sensitive. All placements are; it's just a matter of expression.
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I am a Taurus Sun/Gemini Moon.

This is quite a challenging dual pair. Attempting to maintain a 'fixed' relationship for longevity when your emotions are at a constant fleeting state can be quite testing...especially when you lack the 'conventional' ability for empathy because you're faced with an overwhelming number of distractions. My method of communication? Take a huge dilemma, synthesize, decipher, simplify it, and then communicate. Now I'm able to fix it! For highly emotional charged signs, this can be seen as apathy...when in fact, this is how I express a genuine interest in someone. I can't take care of you if I don't fix it, I can't be there for you if I don't fix it, I can't nurture you or see a solution to your problem if you're not communicating directly. I don't read minds. This creates discrepancies....and eventually for a Gemini Moon, an emotional disconnect....there are other male fishes to fry.

What keeps me emotionally connected? An individual who has a strong sense of self-identity, a certain level of independence, something that is not contingent according to how I'm making them feel at the moment. Someone who owns their 'own' emotions....can process it, and therefore communicate it. Over a period of time, My Taurus traits kick in, open communication may no longer be required. A routine is in order. I'm able to sense when they're unhappy without asking, sense when they need me without asking, and so forth.

But during the initial stages, you will need a magic wand to hold my interest. Good Luck with that one. Not being an @sshole, just keeping it honest!
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e sure how to answer the OP, but take in consideration that I am overloaded with Scorp energy. With that stated, I don't think any description of Gem moon that I've read has accurately described this moon because it's always without consideration of the rest of the chart---which is understandable, but still an issue.

While I can relate to this:

Posted by Cutevouge
Gemini moons were described as...talking about emotions rather than actually feeling them
I can not relate to this:

Posted by Cutevouge
Gemini moons were described as having superficial emotions
I would say I feel deeply. That isn't the issue. The difficulty is not wanting to feel actually, so instead of sitting with the emotion I will intellectualize it away. I feel, but don't allow myself to feel things for too long. Big difference in my opinion.

Posted by Cutevouge
Do gemini moons have to resign themselves to the fact that they will never have the capacity for depth or is there some way or technique to break through that barrier and truly feel something and connect.
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I don't even think this is true. At least it hasn't been my experience.

How are you defining "depth" or "deep connection"? Maybe you are making this to be much more than it is meant to be.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
...My method of communication? Take a huge dilemma, synthesize, decipher, simplify it, and then communicate. Now I'm able to fix it! For highly emotional charged signs, this can be seen as apathy...when in fact, this is how I express a genuine interest in someone....What keeps me emotionally connected? An individual who has a strong sense of self-identity, a certain level of independence, something that is not contingent according to how I'm making them feel at the moment. Someone who owns their 'own' emotions....can process it, and therefore communicate it...
I can relate to this.
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Posted by PhoenixRising
I would say I feel deeply. That isn't the issue. The difficulty is not wanting to feel actually, so instead of sitting with the emotion I will intellectualize it away. I feel, but don't allow myself to feel things for too long. Big difference in my opinion.


This is 100% accurate.

An emotional disconnect for me begins with rationalizing my emotions...
Then there are distractions, a change of scenery, new faces, and finally a change of heart.
Other possibilities are looking better at the moment (grass becomes greener on the other side).
This may appear insensitive, I think we just heal a lot faster.

OP-
I think your question is how does a Gemini Moon learn to process and navigate through these emotions without rationalizing them..

LOL

I'm still figuring out how to do this...