Are gemini liars?

I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Do you have a hairy ass? What a ridiculous question. You'll find the answer to this same question on many other threads. Seems to be asked once a week. If a Gemini really likes you and determines you are "the one" they are unlikely to stray. Now if you continue to approach her with such an insecure personality, that is going to be a big turn off. We do keep our friends, does not mean we are going to cheat. Sheesh

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Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Do you have a hairy ass? What a ridiculous question. You'll find the answer to this same question on many other threads. Seems to be asked once a week. If a Gemini really likes you and determines you are "the one" they are unlikely to stray. Now if you continue to approach her with such an insecure personality, that is going to be a big turn off. We do keep our friends, does not mean we are going to cheat. Sheesh

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In further thinking, if it bothers you this much the best thing you can do is convey your feelings about it that you don't feel comfortable with the idea. Asking someone to go grcoery shopping when not together does seem rather bizarre. But I do not recommend being the controlling type. She needs to make up her mind. For now I suggest giving her the benefit of the doubt. See what she does after you talk to her about it. What is your sign?

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Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Do you have a hairy ass? What a ridiculous question. You'll find the answer to this same question on many other threads. Seems to be asked once a week. If a Gemini really likes you and determines you are "the one" they are unlikely to stray. Now if you continue to approach her with such an insecure personality, that is going to be a big turn off. We do keep our friends, does not mean we are going to cheat. Sheesh

In further thinking, if it bothers you this much the best thing you can do is convey your feelings about it that you don't feel comfortable with the idea. Asking someone to go grcoery shopping when not together does seem rather bizarre. But I do not recommend being the controlling type. She needs to make up her mind. For now I suggest giving her the benefit of the doubt. See what she does after you talk to her about it. What is your sign?

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thank you sir! I'm a sagittarius 🙂 I already did tell her and she told me that it's nothing and she wants me to come along... thank you sir!

Maybe you'll get your answer if you go with.... She said you could join. So join. See it with your own eyes.

I, personally, wouldn't ask you to come along if I didn't want you there....

I'm curious how this situation makes you assume and ask the question "Are gemini liars"?

Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Other times they can be pleasant, peaceful, loving and attentive. I'm convinced at this Point Gem's are born Bi-Polar or with Split Personalities.

Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

I dated a Gemini man that was going through a really hard time, I thought I could save him. He lied and cheated on me severely. And I financially took care of him. Not all Geminis are this way but I won't date another. I'm more attracted to earth and water signs.

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Yep, The ex and I had a bumpy relationship. She dumped me over not paying $ 80 a month to get a gym membership with her, instead I purchased a stationary bike and saved myself from having a hole in my wallet. I forgave her, took her back a month later but after she gave me her old phone I found texts between her a co-worker who comforted her through the breakup and told her she should apologize and take me back since she was so torn up about it. Long story short the guy treated her like she after showed she still had feelings for me, and after a 6 weeks of us being apart she ran off and fucked him, and didn't use protection. She acted like I did her wrong by dumping her skank ass and cutting off all contact, she still acts like the breakup was all because of me. Then when she realized she fucked up (again) she tried to kill herself once she realized she was dead to me.

She lost a great thing, her family and friends noticed how much happier she was with me and that I was the best thing that happened to her.

After that little experience I've given up not only on gemini, but women in their early 20's. Currently dating a 35 year old Pisces and I couldn't be happier.

We got back together after 2 months, not a month.

She only wanted me back because her rebound backfired, he cut off all contact with her after their night together.

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We got back together after 2 months, not a month.

She only wanted me back because her rebound backfired, he cut off all contact with her after their night together.

She sounds like she was very immature.

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

I dated a Gemini man that was going through a really hard time, I thought I could save him. He lied and cheated on me severely. And I financially took care of him. Not all Geminis are this way but I won't date another. I'm more attracted to earth and water signs.

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😢 sorry to hear that. My libra got burned by someone who did something similar (wasn't a Gemini). You Libs certainly do know how to love. I could never imagine doing something like that to someone who cares deeply for me and whom I value their company, love and loyalty in return.

I love this girl already
just afraid she might actually like someone

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

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I agreed .You don't have to worry about it anyway , My rising is scorp , I am loyal and manipulative if you deserve .

Posted by Gem87
You should stop sabotaging Geminis as liars just because you feel insecure deep inside. I advice you to work on yourself more, build your confidence, boost your self-esteem and stop stereotyping people. Look at the positive side: you are dating. This means that she likes you, she chose you over him so why are you making simple things complex? Spend your energy on improving your current relation with her instead of filling your mind with negative thoughts.

*I don’t have time to worry about who doesn’t like me. I’m too busy loving the people who love me*

+1

you will never know

Lol!

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Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Do you have a hairy ass? What a ridiculous question.

NAaaaaiiiiillled et!

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Well it is a ridiculous question. One we seem to keep seeing at least once a week it would seem. It's like we're already accused before even having a chance to say anything.

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

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No, it's not. A lot of people say that gems are two faced, manipulative, and good liars. You may not be like that, but some are. I met a few.

Ppl hang on the negatives of EVERY sign... It's a shame to judge the mass based on the few... Some say it's human nature to do so. I believe it's just a choice. I have gem family members that will make even MY head turn in shame... But, it's also a choice to have bad/unsavory behavior.

I guess, what I'm trying to say is, I agree with you, Noreallynow. 🙂

Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

I think they mean what the say at the moment they say it, but don't count on what they say because they'll change their minds two seconds after they say it.

OP, my gemini ex was friends with a girl. He kept saying he was giving her advice on how to save her marriage and they only talked because he was helping her. He kept saying it was no big deal, I could get on the phone with them. She would come over, sit on our porch and talk with both of us...well, this is the girl he was having a two year affair with. I made the mistake of believing him and trusting him.

So, from my experience, I think you have validation to feel the way you feel.

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Posted by unknownlegend
I just wanna know if Gemini's are liars? she got a bestfriend but she kept on telling me that her bestfriend wants her to help him do grocery and I could come along. Then when I asked her if she liked him before she said yes but not now it's been years.. I just don't get it if I should believe her that she doesn't think of him more than friends. We're dating and I don't know what to believe anymore... Though she always wanted me to come

Do you have a hairy ass? What a ridiculous question. You'll find the answer to this same question on many other threads. Seems to be asked once a week. If a Gemini really likes you and determines you are "the one" they are unlikely to stray. Now if you continue to approach her with such an insecure personality, that is going to be a big turn off. We do keep our friends, does not mean we are going to cheat. Sheesh

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Smh...at the end of the day people are gonna feel how they wanna feel about geminis regardless if I (or any other gemini) put our two cents in about it...

me personally I know a gemini who was honest about everything (even when I didn't wanna know) and another who was a manipulative type of liar...so whatever...kill this thread already lol

don't mean to sound bitchy but I just feel like us geminis always have to justify ourselves...gets annoying after a while

Posted by LadyGem86
don't mean to sound bitchy but I just feel like us geminis always have to justify ourselves...gets annoying after a while

Take the sign thing out of the equation. Do you think the gemini responses would be the same or different if the girl in question wasn't a gemini?

She goes shopping with her ex. Although he's invited, should he be concerned about the situation? Could she be lying to him?
Obviously, he's not comfortable with it.

Posted by LadyGem86
don't mean to sound bitchy but I just feel like us geminis always have to justify ourselves...gets annoying after a while

I think all signs feel that way on their boards. Perhaps yall are more sensitive? Just a question.
*shrugs*

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Posted by LadyGem86
don't mean to sound bitchy but I just feel like us geminis always have to justify ourselves...gets annoying after a while

I think all signs feel that way on their boards. Perhaps yall are more sensitive? Just a question.
*shrugs*

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perhaps...I still feel like we get dogged the most tho...here and in real life...just my opinion

Posted by LadyGem86
don't mean to sound bitchy but I just feel like us geminis always have to justify ourselves...gets annoying after a while

Yep that's all I was trying to convey in my original response to the OP. It's true, I bet next week there will be yet again another post along the lines of:

"why doesn't he/she love me"
"why is he/she reserved"
"why do Geminis cheat"
"why do Geminis manipulate me, I'm so butt-hurt because I don't have the brain capacity to figure it out, please someone help!"
"its been two days! why aren't they fucking me yet and committing to having my children?!"
"why do they want to be alone?"
"why are they such lairs?"

Hey to those of you who post these types of questions, I have one for you. Why do you need such validation? If you are doing the right thing you have nothing to worry about. Focus needs to be on you, moreso than us.

I'm heading back to the Libra board. It's been more stimulating lately. Tired of having to defend Gem nature.

Posted by Noreallynow

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

No, it's not. A lot of people say that gems are two faced, manipulative, and good liars. You may not be like that, but some are. I met a few.

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Yes, it is. Anyone here will tell you that we are the most sincere and committed if things are serious. Again, so long as you don't burn or manipulate to get what you want, all will be well. Give us a reason to and we will immediately take all bets off the table as we consider it fair game and don't take kindly when others toil with our emotions.

Well, all Gems that I know act strange. I mean, maybe it's in your nature, and doesn't have to mean anything bad, but I noticed when you talk to someone, your eyes starts to wander, so you don't look that person in the eyes, even he tells you something confident, or important, which seems fake and unreliable. Like you're not paying enough attention. Whenever I was near Gemini, and they were talking to someone, it was always like that, and not only with some specific person.

Second, male Gems that I know will go out with you for 3-4 months, and than they will disappear for couple of months, like they don't know you. Many guys that were friends with that Gem guy said that he only looks for some sort of interest, and if it's not there, they're looking somewhere else, but eventually come back to you again, like nothing happened. So many of people that know him don't have a very good opinion, because guy appears fake. Also, they seem to have a lot of friends, and that are good with everyone, but it's only some sort of interest only, and not some real connection, so they seem unreliable. Other Gem guys that I know are the same. Many friendships, but only if they have something out of it.

Now, don't get me wrong, as a Sag, I get along great with every Gem that I know, male or female, it's just what I noticed. And they can listen to you, but I get an impression that they mostly like when you listen to them more, than the other way around.

And about faithfulness, I was in some volunteering camp couple of years ago, and I clicked great with some girl which of course was a Gem girl. She had a bf for some time, and of course, she flirted a lot with me, but she also cheated her bf. She loves football players, and some playing field was right beside us, and at first, she was watching them with her friend so eagerly, and when those players noticed that, they went right to them.

I just want to say that Gem girls will cheat if there isn't some sort of deeper connection, and they see someone cute, even though they're with you for many months. She talked with her bf over the phone when she was sitting in that guys lap. Ofc, she was with him as long as she was on that camp. I see now that she is with some guy for couple of years, and I believe that she doesn't cheat on him, I only wanted to say that Gem girls have no problem to be with many guys at the same time if there isn't something special in them. So, yeah, it IS called cheating, even if they don't see it like that.

And of course, it's all OK if you like some other person more, but if they are just leading on some guys, that is not cool. Be fair, and break up with them, so when you're free, do what you want. I had an argument with her about that, but to her, it was just normal. Like, I'm young, and can do what I want. She was 21. But generally, I noticed that many people are like that. If that person doesn't mean something special to them, they will cheat until they find something that they really want, and that is not cool.

And all of that are just negative traits. I know it's "human nature" to only notice and remember the negatives... but here's a challenge... Now, how about some positives?? How about trying to remember the good things about all those you have mentioned??

Well, this thread is about negative traits, so I focused on that, and said what I noticed. No need to find yourself offended. It's nothing personal, just discussion about negative traits.

Never offended. 🙂

Was just a challenge.

🙂

And, it's is only what YOU (

No we're not!

well I'll add some postivity to this sh*t...geminis believe it or not have a big heart. I'll give the shirt off my back for my loved ones, and even tho I can be flaky I'm ALWAYS there when they need me...I can't always say they will do it for me, but I do it because I care...not so I can get something in return. But it does get frustrating for us when our good deeds go unnoticed and consequently we feel unappreciated sometimes.

But overall we are good hearted people and we mean well....so misunderstood 😢

Yeah, you are always there for your friends, that's right, but you also tend to date multiple people, and to play hot & cold. Everything is fine, and you're so affectionate for one week, then all of sudden, for no reason, you distance yourself, or ignore that person. If it's not ignoring, then it is flaky behavior, and coldness.

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Yeah, you are always there for your friends, that's right, but you also tend to date multiple people, and to play hot & cold. Everything is fine, and you're so affectionate for one week, then all of sudden, for no reason, you distance yourself, or ignore that person. If it's not ignoring, then it is flaky behavior, and coldness.

actually I personally tend to date one person at a time sweety...and I don't tend to ignore people unless you give me a reason to.

People are not going to be the same way all the time for the rest of their lives. you never know what someone is going through to make them go distant. People take things so personal sometimes. Instead of being a selfish ass and just worrying about why someone is ignoring you and "woe is me" just think for a second what that person may be going through or dealing with...

@ozzzy are you a capricorn?

you guys can be mean as hell...and you guys tend to always make things about YOU...my mom's a cap

I'm not a Cap. I'ma a Sag, as you can see in my avatar. I gave her a lot of freedom, as I need it too. And I also have a lot of understanding, it's just, I don't like when somebody chase you, and everything is fine, and all of sudden, they are cold even for weeks for no reason.

I'm more like, if you have someone else, or whatever, just fu**ing say it, so I can move on. I hate flaky behavior especially if I did not deserved it. Don't like liars. Also I don't want to be a backup, or whatever. I want respect, and I want to be a priority. If I'm not, I will look somewhere else.

honestly @ozzzy regardless of sign sun...if someone really really wants you in their life they will make you a priority and will make time for you...

That's correct, but sun sign has a great impact on how you deal with it. And some people are just immature. Also your dual nature is unpredictable, and it is known that many people never know where they stand with you, even in longer relationships. So, all of that matters, and makes difference.

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Posted by Hemispheres
Coming from someone who has 2 Gemini grandparents and who's ex is a Gemini.

Yes, they're known for being very two-faced, manipulative and selfish.

Only if you give us a very good reason to be. When in love, I beg to differ. That's more a Scorpio tendency.

No, it's not. A lot of people say that gems are two faced, manipulative, and good liars. You may not be like that, but some are. I met a few.

Well, if you go by popular opinion, you're going to be so ignorant on the facts in life you might as well live as a hermit.

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I guess you missed the part where I said I know a few.

Posted by ozzzy
That's correct, but sun sign has a great impact on how you deal with it. And some people are just immature. Also your dual nature is unpredictable, and it is known that many people never know where they stand with you, even in longer relationships. So, all of that matters, and makes difference.

Sounds like this has just happened recently, or you're still holding on to some anger.... letting go is healthier.

Btw, I've been with the same aqua man for 4 years and just got married in march. Not all of us are like the experience(s)you've had.

Posted by LadyGem86
honestly @ozzzy regardless of sign sun...if someone really really wants you in their life they will make you a priority and will make time for you...

+1!

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Posted by ozzzy
That's correct, but sun sign has a great impact on how you deal with it. And some people are just immature. Also your dual nature is unpredictable, and it is known that many people never know where they stand with you, even in longer relationships. So, all of that matters, and makes difference.

Sounds like this has just happened recently, or you're still holding on to some anger.... letting go is healthier.

Btw, I've been with the same aqua man for 4 years and just got married in march. Not all of us are like the experience(s)you've had.

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Yeah, but you're over 40, and she's just 20. Ofc that she will behave immature. She's still very young. In that age girls cannot resist to various temptations, especially Gem girl. And many boys are chasing her constantly.