Posted by TaurusBull1977How long does it last? A few days until you make up your mind? Don't you ever feel guilty for not feeling sad longer?
For me,
For an instant, I feel a collage of emotions, regret, resentment, anger, frustration, and sadness.
It's protected.
Internalized.
....And then rationalized.
...and then it's over.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
For me,
For an instant, I feel a collage of emotions, regret, resentment, anger, frustration, and sadness.
It's protected.
Internalized.
a few weeks
....And then rationalized.
a few more weeks
...and then it's over.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingDo you believe they rationalize it out?
Denial and avoidance.
Posted by Liliannidepends on their sun.Posted by AdreamuponwakingDo you believe they rationalize it out?
Denial and avoidance.click to expand
Posted by LilianniI feel guilty for the lack of emotional depth. Man, what's up with emotional peer pressure and conformity? Am I alive in the right century?
How long does it last? A few days until you make up your mind? Don't you ever feel guilty for not feeling sad longer?
Posted by VenusAquarius
What is this thing... heartbreak?
~Gemini Moon, Mars, Saturn in the 5th house~
Posted by DreamyboyThat's rough. :/ It sounds like you've been through the hardest stuff emotionally with that now, so you can go onto better happier times. :-)Posted by CopperDoveYea, it was my fault to even go into the relationship. I should've thought about it, but I was swept up because I was in love with her for so long. She got married young and offed and disappeared. Years later, she pops up with a baby and somehow managed to find me and restart an old fire. A red flag that I completely ignored was knowing she was married and going back and forth between our homes. So when she got bored of me, well, you know the deal :/
@Dreamyboy
I'm glad that you're having a social life again after recovering from what happened. I hope that over time you'll be able to trust women again -- not all women, of course, just the trustworthy ones, because they definitely exist. :-) I can relate to how hard it is when you do everything right but something goes wrong all the same. Maybe the person you were involved with was very troubled -- emotionally and/or mentally messed up -- so that skewed things.click to expand
Posted by DreamyboyThat's great! Free at last. :-) As hard as it was, a good thing has definitely come out of it with you figuring out how to approach things with people you meet from hereon in. I've had to do that too after a difficult relationship that I shouldn't have been in as long as I was.Posted by CopperDoveSeriously I know right?? Everything literally feels better now. I'm much more at peace with myself now then I was before. I'll love a little harder next time for the right girl and treat her like I'm gonna lose her.Posted by DreamyboyThat's rough. :/ It sounds like you've been through the hardest stuff emotionally with that now, so you can go onto better happier times. :-)Posted by CopperDoveYea, it was my fault to even go into the relationship. I should've thought about it, but I was swept up because I was in love with her for so long. She got married young and offed and disappeared. Years later, she pops up with a baby and somehow managed to find me and restart an old fire. A red flag that I completely ignored was knowing she was married and going back and forth between our homes. So when she got bored of me, well, you know the deal :/
@Dreamyboy
I'm glad that you're having a social life again after recovering from what happened. I hope that over time you'll be able to trust women again -- not all women, of course, just the trustworthy ones, because they definitely exist. :-) I can relate to how hard it is when you do everything right but something goes wrong all the same. Maybe the person you were involved with was very troubled -- emotionally and/or mentally messed up -- so that skewed things.click to expand
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