
I have posted question in scorpio forum as well here it is especially for moons. We always hear about Scorpio's intensity in relationships, but how will you explain that what is that intensity to you? please give examples if possible



Posted by TaureyeThankyou for the Insight taureye π
Once i'm in i'm all in. I love hard, but i don't like to be dramatic either. Like i'll do everything possible to make sure i'm delivering on my end of the relationship sometimes doing more than i should. I have a propensity to be always observing the relationship and evaluating, and making sure that if the ship hits some waves i can at least steer it in the right direction. Again taking too much on myself. But for me passion is the name of the game. Basically my love interest will be #1 on my radar.

Posted by RumiLI agree that that the definition vary from person to person but I hear everyone talking about scorpio intensity. So I would love to here from you people what is it actually. Whats that intensity that you give and want in a relationship
As a Scorpio moon.. I say it's bullshit β
Maybe definition of intensity differs from person to person..? βΊ

Posted by TaureyeBullshit is a curse? π πPosted by RumiLRumi you curse?!?
As a Scorpio moon.. I say it's bullshit β
Maybe definition of intensity differs from person to person..? βΊ
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Posted by Taureyeagreed. i eat breathe and sleep you. i like passion, grand displays of emotion, undivided attention, specialized attention. I want to feel special from anyone else.
Once i'm in i'm all in. I love hard, but i don't like to be dramatic either. Like i'll do everything possible to make sure i'm delivering on my end of the relationship sometimes doing more than i should. I have a propensity to be always observing the relationship and evaluating, and making sure that if the ship hits some waves i can at least steer it in the right direction. Again taking too much on myself. But for me passion is the name of the game. Basically my love interest will be #1 on my radar.


Posted by anna1Whatever people are saying about Scorpio moon intensity...i think its all in their head and largely a preconceived idea of "intensity" = Scorpio. Everyone can be intense..and it rather depends on the person at receiving end and his definition of it rather than making up something sensational in his head.. This is isn't directed at you!! But I speak in general.. : DPosted by RumiLI agree that that the definition vary from person to person but I hear everyone talking about scorpio intensity. So I would love to here from you people what is it actually. Whats that intensity that you give and want in a relationship
As a Scorpio moon.. I say it's bullshit β
Maybe definition of intensity differs from person to person..? βΊclick to expand

Posted by TaureyeπPosted by RumiLIn my barn it is π’Posted by TaureyeBullshit is a curse? π πPosted by RumiLRumi you curse?!?
As a Scorpio moon.. I say it's bullshit β
Maybe definition of intensity differs from person to person..? βΊ
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But i agree intensity differs from person to person.click to expand


Posted by TaureyeAgreed!Posted by busyeyes88I have like 0 temper. Takes a lot for me to get mad show emotions sometimes.
They are intense but it is ugly when they are angry! They have a ferocious temper! I have a Leo moon and the lyrics of the song 'Shut Up' by the Blackeyed Peas sums up my ex scorp moon with my Leo moons arguments....click to expand

Posted by TaureyeSo we both slow down...(moon)Posted by RumiLI thrive in emotional situations, things slow down and i can logically dissect everything better. Lol when i get angry i tell myself stop wasting your energy. My anger is really bad if i get angry but only lasts like 5 seconds lolPosted by TaureyeAgreed!Posted by busyeyes88I have like 0 temper. Takes a lot for me to get mad show emotions sometimes.
They are intense but it is ugly when they are angry! They have a ferocious temper! I have a Leo moon and the lyrics of the song 'Shut Up' by the Blackeyed Peas sums up my ex scorp moon with my Leo moons arguments....
I have zero temper issues. And for me anger has been those 3-4 times in my life when I gave icy silent treatment to my parents and they feel tortured just because of that :p
And yeahh.... I freeze and go blank when I'm confronted with emotional situations some times(so many times) π
Slow slow...time stops ΒΆ
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Posted by TaureyeHmm..sounds nice, I'm kinda jealous ΒΆ Where's your mercury??Posted by RumiLYup! I like it, it's where i work best lol in stressful emotional situations. Whats your mars?Posted by TaureyeSo we both slow down...(moon)Posted by RumiLI thrive in emotional situations, things slow down and i can logically dissect everything better. Lol when i get angry i tell myself stop wasting your energy. My anger is really bad if i get angry but only lasts like 5 seconds lolPosted by TaureyeAgreed!Posted by busyeyes88I have like 0 temper. Takes a lot for me to get mad show emotions sometimes.
They are intense but it is ugly when they are angry! They have a ferocious temper! I have a Leo moon and the lyrics of the song 'Shut Up' by the Blackeyed Peas sums up my ex scorp moon with my Leo moons arguments....
I have zero temper issues. And for me anger has been those 3-4 times in my life when I gave icy silent treatment to my parents and they feel tortured just because of that :p
And yeahh.... I freeze and go blank when I'm confronted with emotional situations some times(so many times) π
Slow slow...time stops ΒΆ
Our mars makes all the difference!
Being an air mars you rationalise the situation! πclick to expand


Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xDclick to expand

Posted by TaureyeLol.. Are you hyperactive like gem mars is said to be?Posted by RumiLSeems you have it well under control and i bet when you channel it, it's late focus. My energy is so scattered LOL i'm like that dog from up! Squirrel!!!Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD
Internalize zaroor hota hai but... I can always channel it too. But yeah.. Some days I just feel low although I am carrying on, doing this, that.. Part of life...chalta hai.. :p ..but as I'm growing up I'm dealing better with emotions.. Like how you said.. I always step back and think "kya milega..by getting so worked up" .. If nothing can be done about an issue..just leave it..
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Posted by asc_scorp1991Yesssss. He's apna brown! πPosted by RumiLTaureye knows hindi?Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD
Internalize zaroor hota hai but... I can always channel it too. But yeah.. Some days I just feel low although I am carrying on, doing this, that.. Part of life...chalta hai.. :p ..but as I'm growing up I'm dealing better with emotions.. Like how you said.. I always step back and think "kya milega..by getting so worked up" .. If nothing can be done about an issue..just leave it..
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Posted by SingASong41Hes right. When im in a funk, i dont need to be coddled or babied. No need to make jokes. No need for you to even talk.which for air ppl is impossible.
I'm adding a question to this forum. I hope you don't mind.
When you Lunar Scorps are in a mood, how do you wish to be treated? How is someone supposed to "be there" for you?
On the outside, it's really difficult. (Dating a lunar scorp). He is practically silent, very cold in speech, and will make a ton of sarcastic remarks. He refuses to talk about what is bothering him, but wants me to just "be there" even though he is giving the impression that he just wants to be left alone. I'll ask him, and he'll say, "It's up to you."
I'll try talking about other things, cracking jokes to take his mind off of it. He doesn't budge. I'll talk a bit about my day, but not for long, because I don't want to give the impression that I don't care about his feelings. So in the end we just sit there in silence and he's all "I have nothing to say. I can't participate in conversation." and I'll be like "It's okay" because I'm the same way when I get upset, but for me, I'll leave to be by myself as I deal with it.
Eventually, I ask him "Do you want me to go?" and he gets frustrated and says "Yes." only to send me a message later:
"I need someone there for me. Not someone who is afraid of me or treats me like a kid who needs sympathy. I just need someone there and it's irritating when I have to explain it or ask for it."
HOW am I supposed to be there? It feels like he won't even let me. I'm so confused. Can someone please give me insight?

Posted by asc_scorp1991Lol I agree with you they never express anything thats why I wonder what their Intensity is all about.
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience

Posted by TaureyeThat's what I love about you peoplePosted by DMVI say this from time to time lolPosted by Taureyeagreed. i eat breathe and sleep you. i like passion, grand displays of emotion, undivided attention, specialized attention. I want to feel special from anyone else.
Once i'm in i'm all in. I love hard, but i don't like to be dramatic either. Like i'll do everything possible to make sure i'm delivering on my end of the relationship sometimes doing more than i should. I have a propensity to be always observing the relationship and evaluating, and making sure that if the ship hits some waves i can at least steer it in the right direction. Again taking too much on myself. But for me passion is the name of the game. Basically my love interest will be #1 on my radar.
if you treat me like gold, i shall treat you like platinum.click to expand

Posted by DMVThanks DMV π
Something my cancer moon would do was give me undivided attention. Made me feel s o special so loved.
He took my emotions so seriously. Treated them with the utmost care. Never called me crazy...shit never gave me a reason to be crazy.
Unwavering love.

Posted by Taureyelol ye to mujh se poocho I am with water and earth dominant person and paani means you internalize EVERYTHING.Posted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xDclick to expand

Posted by RumiLMe too πPosted by asc_scorp1991Yesssss. He's apna brown! πPosted by RumiLTaureye knows hindi?Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD
Internalize zaroor hota hai but... I can always channel it too. But yeah.. Some days I just feel low although I am carrying on, doing this, that.. Part of life...chalta hai.. :p ..but as I'm growing up I'm dealing better with emotions.. Like how you said.. I always step back and think "kya milega..by getting so worked up" .. If nothing can be done about an issue..just leave it..
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Posted by anna1Its like a book full of memories *grandmother dancing with grandfather at Christmas* that periodically appear many times in a day *grandmother gets illl* And you never know when the memory will appear *grandmother tells me she loves me and not to worry* Or what the memory will be *family members kiss the dead corpse goodbye* But they will come *grandmother bakes Christmas cookies only when it snows so she can watch it fall* And they will haunt you *grandmother's dead skeletal remains 20 years later*Posted by asc_scorp1991Lol I agree with you they never express anything thats why I wonder what their Intensity is all about.
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experienceclick to expand

Posted by anna1π *waves*Posted by RumiLMe too πPosted by asc_scorp1991Yesssss. He's apna brown! πPosted by RumiLTaureye knows hindi?Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD
Internalize zaroor hota hai but... I can always channel it too. But yeah.. Some days I just feel low although I am carrying on, doing this, that.. Part of life...chalta hai.. :p ..but as I'm growing up I'm dealing better with emotions.. Like how you said.. I always step back and think "kya milega..by getting so worked up" .. If nothing can be done about an issue..just leave it..
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Posted by RumiL*waves back*Posted by anna1π *waves*Posted by RumiLMe too πPosted by asc_scorp1991Yesssss. He's apna brown! πPosted by RumiLTaureye knows hindi?Posted by TaureyeGem mars..scattered energy πPosted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD
Internalize zaroor hota hai but... I can always channel it too. But yeah.. Some days I just feel low although I am carrying on, doing this, that.. Part of life...chalta hai.. :p ..but as I'm growing up I'm dealing better with emotions.. Like how you said.. I always step back and think "kya milega..by getting so worked up" .. If nothing can be done about an issue..just leave it..
My best friend is Aries w Capricorn moon too! CAp-Scorpio make goof buddies πclick to expand

Posted by SoulIts complicatedPosted by anna1Its like a book full of memories *grandmother dancing with grandfather at Christmas* that periodically appear many times in a day *grandmother gets illl* And you never know when the memory will appear *grandmother tells me she loves me and not to worry* Or what the memory will be *family members kiss the dead corpse goodbye* But they will come *grandmother bakes Christmas cookies only when it snows so she can watch it fall* And they will haunt you *grandmother's dead skeletal remains 20 years later*Posted by asc_scorp1991Lol I agree with you they never express anything thats why I wonder what their Intensity is all about.
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experienceclick to expand

Posted by TaureyeLol I believe scorp moons do have radars on both sides of their heads πPosted by anna1Posted by Taureyelol ye to mujh se poocho I am with water and earth dominant person and paani means you internalize EVERYTHING.Posted by RumiLsara kuch mil milakay lol i love my balance but yaar i sometimes get sidetracked so easily. Paani means you internalize a lot right?
@taureye -- wow .. I love Taurus mercuryyyyyyy!
Pisces mars...it's a strange placement lol.
I have no air in my chart! ZERO. I'm underwater ramette. you are very much a terrestrial bull...thoda sa paani, thoda si aag, thoda si hawa....... xD![]()
I'm finding desis left and right. My momma did say I was a radar.click to expand

Posted by blackphaseThat's true about my lunar scorp as well. He never shows anything more than he wants to..Posted by anna1I express a lot. Guess I can thank my Gemini Sun & Mercury for that one πPosted by asc_scorp1991Lol I agree with you they never express anything thats why I wonder what their Intensity is all about.
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience
My intensity is very hard to hide. But I am also very skilled at choosing what I show and whom I show it to. I only show precisely what I mean to.click to expand

Posted by asc_scorp1991Love this!
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience

Posted by blackphaseyour s/o must have made you that comfortable to share such things. Alas I couldn't make my scorp comfortable lol my aries temper is so bad π’Posted by anna1Some of us are very good at this. However, my s/o is the one I choose to show most things too. He gets to see what I hide from everyone else.Posted by blackphaseThat's true about my lunar scorp as well. He never shows anything more than he wants to..Posted by anna1I express a lot. Guess I can thank my Gemini Sun & Mercury for that one πPosted by asc_scorp1991Lol I agree with you they never express anything thats why I wonder what their Intensity is all about.
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience
My intensity is very hard to hide. But I am also very skilled at choosing what I show and whom I show it to. I only show precisely what I mean to.click to expand


Posted by TaureyeIf someone doesn't have a strong foundation to bounce those emotions off of, that moon definitely can wreak havoc. It is per person though - each situation is different. Other placements matter as well - I seem to encounter air signs with Scorpio moons lol. By havoc I mean manipulative, it's a pet peeve of mine so I may be biased...Posted by sweetmaree88You've had some weak people i wouldn't say that's all because of their scorp moon. I'm very go with the flow and let the woman set the speed she wants to take it. So i don't think the moon here is all that much to blame.Posted by asc_scorp1991Love this!
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience
My experience with Scorpio moons is they tend to selfish and pushy. Since that is the emotional center a variety of things contribute to how they 'control' themselves.... By pushy I mean they demand you to yield emotionally to them... The men I've had experience with, all expressed their feelings as well, but me expressing mine - has been on their terms (or that's what they wanted lol) They want you to be all about them but in turn, they don't seem to understand that they need to reciprocate. That's where the selfishness falls into play - They don't know what self-sacrifice is it seems. I've dated 2 Gemini suns/Scorp Moons... Both were pushy. "Where is this going, blah blah blah" The one my age was far more mature but he still wanted instantaneous commitment. The older man I dated was a fucking hot mess of emotional nastiness. He was always very 'nice' to me but he had the maturity of a turd. Up down... emotionally manipulative - I got to see that after we split up fortunately. I know a Libra man with a Scorpio moon. He's a cheater, cheated on his wife many a time - Likes the idea of a woman waiting on him. Meh.click to expand



Posted by anna1As someone who has her's in the 8th house... it's INTENSE. It's double the depth and triple the brood. We love fiercely... but only when we know it's true from your end. We can tell when you're faking it with us the moment we see you, no words are necessary. We pick up on your "vibes" and can tell what kind they are (negative based on hidden motives, negative based off fear, feeling horny, etc...).
I have posted question in scorpio forum as well here it is especially for moons. We always hear about Scorpio's intensity in relationships, but how will you explain that what is that intensity to you? please give examples if possible

Posted by sweetmaree88Air is needy... make anything water needy look like a walk in the park. Air will make someone needy for some bizarre reason if they have a lot of water in their chart.Posted by asc_scorp1991Love this!
Ok i will tell you what. Their definition of intensity is
1.The boundaries YOU can push, to be with them
2. How passionate YOU are about them
3. What sacrifices can YOU make for them (infact he will find out what your boundaries are and ask you to push)
And in return, the so called passion they talk about from their side, is all in their head i am assuming because they NEVER express it (except maybe when you are on the verge of leavinv them.
Source : personal experience
My experience with Scorpio moons is they tend to selfish and pushy. Since that is the emotional center a variety of things contribute to how they 'control' themselves.... By pushy I mean they demand you to yield emotionally to them... The men I've had experience with, all expressed their feelings as well, but me expressing mine - has been on their terms (or that's what they wanted lol) They want you to be all about them but in turn, they don't seem to understand that they need to reciprocate. That's where the selfishness falls into play - They don't know what self-sacrifice is it seems. I've dated 2 Gemini suns/Scorp Moons... Both were pushy. "Where is this going, blah blah blah" The one my age was far more mature but he still wanted instantaneous commitment. The older man I dated was a fucking hot mess of emotional nastiness. He was always very 'nice' to me but he had the maturity of a turd. Up down... emotionally manipulative - I got to see that after we split up fortunately. I know a Libra man with a Scorpio moon. He's a cheater, cheated on his wife many a time - Likes the idea of a woman waiting on him. Meh.click to expand

Posted by Kjk62I've never had an issue of being jealous, i actually hate jealousy for a scorpio moon... then again I've got pisces venus/rising. So I'm all about having freedom in love and space like a Pisces does as well.
An "enlightened" scorpio moon knows nothing but love. Sure there is still a burning passion in our hearts, but through our childhoods we learn to control and balance the depth of our emotions.
Beware of the sophomoric lunar scorps bc jealousy and control with dominate their life.
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