
Shaniajam
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Posted by CG04I hate it when I think I'm being open enough- only to have the person I'm letting in tell me how closed I am.
Yeah us Scoprio moons take out sweet time, and then go back and forth a bit, and sometimes we applaud ourselves for opening up until someone comes and tell us "you're not really opening up...saying my day was good is not really opening up."

Posted by ladylibra21I love the Cancer moon, too!! My ex is also a Scorpio moon, two Scorpio moons together is SOOO hard. We both struggled open up to each other completely. If we had, things would have been so lovely b/c we both would have felt safe.
UGH Scorp moon is so beautiful

Posted by CG04Ah I See patience is virtue I see ❤❤
Yeah us Scoprio moons take out sweet time, and then go back and forth a bit, and sometimes we applaud ourselves for opening up until someone comes and tell us "you're not really opening up...saying my day was good is not really opening up."

Posted by AjnaReHmm thanks for that. Starting to realize if I sit back and just relax that he'll do things in due time now.
I tend to share more if I feel you are okay with what is known presently about me.
This person, just like my world, is already dear to me but It depends on them.
I look at everything about them too and who they really
are inside. If you come from center and I am comfortable
with who you are then you will be that much closer..
more sacred and in my world, the place where
I wanted you soooo badly all along.

Posted by ladylibra21Totally agree I thought cancer were deep,, but scorps moons are something special I think.
UGH Scorp moon is so beautiful

Posted by AjnaReI love thisPosted by ShaniajamYeah it's kind like them (us) feelig you outPosted by AjnaReHmm thanks for that. Starting to realize if I sit back and just relax that he'll do things in due time now.
I tend to share more if I feel you are okay with what is known presently about me.
This person, just like my world, is already dear to me but It depends on them.
I look at everything about them too and who they really
are inside. If you come from center and I am comfortable
with who you are then you will be that much closer..
more sacred and in my world, the place where
I wanted you soooo badly all along.
And I think it's okay if you ask for more too (it lets us see you really dont mind what we are about)its just ...
being ok and patient with what is already known --shown-- is nice and
helps. We aren't going anywhere if you don't want us to :]click to expand

Posted by blackphaseLmaoooo... Do tell anyway
I have the Scorp Moon & Cancer Venus, But not Leo Sun.. and No penis.. Soooo, LOL

Posted by DonnaElvira77When I ask he cuts the convo short... But I think he's starting to realize I hate that about him. Like he reads me... WeirdPosted by ShaniajamNever known them to be secretive. They tend to be braver in telling you stuff straight up about themselves. Frank.
Ok so I know this moon tends to be secretive. So I don't push him to tell me anything... Lately though I noticed that he's showing me his surroundings more. When he speaks to people he doesn't say let me call you back he lets me hear and see. Then of course hell close up again and repeat. Is be worried of how I'll view him? I like it cause I rather see than be told and I don't need to ask I just observe and I think he likes it that way. He'll also say things that I wasn't aware of and I won't respond but he does look at my expression which I normally give a blank one cause I know he's trying to search my soul (like the typical Scorpio moon does). So....
How long do y'all take to open up? Or is this how you open up? The confusion may be due to his Aquarius Mars too with not wanting me to know him too much too soon?click to expand
Posted by PandalaHaha! This is me all the time! And then when someone says we are not trying hard enough, we get frustrated and angry but let it brew inside us until all hell releases!Posted by CG04I hate it when I think I'm being open enough- only to have the person I'm letting in tell me how closed I am.
Yeah us Scoprio moons take out sweet time, and then go back and forth a bit, and sometimes we applaud ourselves for opening up until someone comes and tell us "you're not really opening up...saying my day was good is not really opening up."
Surprises me every time. Guess we can be a little dense about how "stern" we seem to be.click to expand

Posted by CG04Lol, shitty no?Posted by PandalaHaha! This is me all the time! And then when someone says we are not trying hard enough, we get frustrated and angry but let it brew inside us until all hell releases!Posted by CG04I hate it when I think I'm being open enough- only to have the person I'm letting in tell me how closed I am.
Yeah us Scoprio moons take out sweet time, and then go back and forth a bit, and sometimes we applaud ourselves for opening up until someone comes and tell us "you're not really opening up...saying my day was good is not really opening up."
Surprises me every time. Guess we can be a little dense about how "stern" we seem to be.click to expand


Posted by DonnaElvira77I tend to confuse people. Im jolly so it may seem like im opening up, but I dont really. That takes time and intimacy. It also takes pressure.Posted by ShaniajamNever known them to be secretive. They tend to be braver in telling you stuff straight up about themselves. Frank.
Ok so I know this moon tends to be secretive. So I don't push him to tell me anything... Lately though I noticed that he's showing me his surroundings more. When he speaks to people he doesn't say let me call you back he lets me hear and see. Then of course hell close up again and repeat. Is be worried of how I'll view him? I like it cause I rather see than be told and I don't need to ask I just observe and I think he likes it that way. He'll also say things that I wasn't aware of and I won't respond but he does look at my expression which I normally give a blank one cause I know he's trying to search my soul (like the typical Scorpio moon does). So....
How long do y'all take to open up? Or is this how you open up? The confusion may be due to his Aquarius Mars too with not wanting me to know him too much too soon?click to expand
Posted by Soulgood advice on the Scorpio moon with extra water.
Well it's a bit hard to judge from my own perspective, because I don't know the guy and Cancer Venus can be tricky. I can only make assumptions especially because I don't have much info on you or him.
I'm assuming you're dating, which is good. Cancer Venus tend to be completely different depending on their past. You could get a motherly type of man with lots of compassion, love, loyalty, and stability, or you could get a CiV who has been heart broken many times and is the complete opposite. The water moon and water Venus will always be extremely hard for a fire sun. Expecally since the moon is Scorpio. This makes me assume he's had a rough past, which will deeply affect the CiV and add even more insecurity, though they will be well hidden by the Leo sun and Scorpio moon. Both sighs that are well at hiding true emotions and secrets when they work together.
Lets just say he will never fully open up, which isn't always a bad thing. 2p years from now he wi still be revealing bits of information you had no idea about. This just comes with his type of psyche. You will have to do some extra work however, because the fixed sun an moo, calls for a stubborn person. I would spent less time tying to adjust him to you and focus on adjusting yourself to him. He may have moments where he seems diferent as in angry, depressed, detached, or like he's hiding himself from the world. Just stay calm and ride the waves, then before you know it he will return to his normal self.
Idk if I answered your question, or gave you any insight whatsoever, so if I missed something, went off topic, or didn't quite answer you question feel free to ask
🙂
Posted by DonnaElvira77Posted by ShaniajamYou are not comfortable around this guy.
Ok so I know this moon tends to be secretive. So I don't push him to tell me anything... Lately though I noticed that he's showing me his surroundings more. When he speaks to people he doesn't say let me call you back he lets me hear and see. Then of course hell close up again and repeat. Is be worried of how I'll view him? I like it cause I rather see than be told and I don't need to ask I just observe and I think he likes it that way. He'll also say things that I wasn't aware of and I won't respond but he does look at my expression which I normally give a blank one cause I know he's trying to search my soul (like the typical Scorpio moon does). So....
How long do y'all take to open up? Or is this how you open up? The confusion may be due to his Aquarius Mars too with not wanting me to know him too much too soon?
Posted by DonnaElvira77i was thinking that too, that she was overanalyzing and picking apart the person. which is not good.
Why do you feel the need to analyze everything?click to expand



Posted by lisabethur8I'm used to being possessive and gain after the man and they like it. But I end up wearing the pants. He does not want this and it's intriguing. I'm not used to it and so I need the advice on how to just chill/ what's wrong with that
i guess it's hard for people to just let it go, and let things unfold and just relax.
edit: but she's full of anxiety and fear...
it's probably normal for her if she really really likes someone and doesnt understand why he's not reciprocating.
that's horrible.

Posted by DMVYou are right.
Organic is always best


Posted by DMVYes lol. Soon as I asked him why he was punishing me he came back full force. I notice when he's hurt or I do something not ok he passive aggressive about it. Or he'll say what it is and then cut something to make me realize talking was not enough!?! If that makes sense. But i now know how to handle that. Its why I come here to help with an issue AS IT ARISES
Where u the same poster wanting sex from your scorp moon but he was holding back?



Posted by Shaniajamthats good. However everything is related to everything for a scorp moon.
Though this post is not an issue just a question and we are in a good place now


Posted by DMVHmm. See that's why I need this board.... Do elaborate?Posted by Shaniajamthats good. However everything is related to everything for a scorp moon.
Though this post is not an issue just a question and we are in a good place now
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Posted by DMVYou hit the nail on the head and I won't argue with that lol. Yes very closed off... So could this be why when he comes back full force he asks me questions passive aggressively see how i feel or where I'm at with him? The only reason I don't is because I've been forthcoming in other resltionships and they "used me" I want to tell him or good he makes me feel but I don't want him running away. So yes I hold back at times until I realize he needs it. But should I tell him this constantly instead of waiting?
Taurus moon can be just as closed off as a scorp moon. If I remember, he sometimes thinks your full of it. You brush over things. All that is related.
Its all on your tab.

Posted by ShaniajamConfidence is key for both of you. It has to be equal. Scorp moon and taurus moon reward 10 fold. They both also withdraw just as quickly.Posted by DMVYou hit the nail on the head and I won't argue with that lol. Yes very closed off... So could this be why when he comes back full force he asks me questions passive aggressively see how i feel or where I'm at with him? The only reason I don't is because I've been forthcoming in other resltionships and they "used me" I want to tell him or good he makes me feel but I don't want him running away. So yes I hold back at times until I realize he needs it. But should I tell him this constantly instead of waiting?
Taurus moon can be just as closed off as a scorp moon. If I remember, he sometimes thinks your full of it. You brush over things. All that is related.
Its all on your tab.click to expand

Posted by DMVYes I test and he test back and we know we know we do. Smh. However I get tired and back off... Then he'll come back for me after awhile. This last time... We had a big fall out that he did not come this week as he planned and I was livid and he said "I don't do drama" but then made a spectacle in front of his friends when I was on the phone cause I was mad. I backed off for two days... He came back feeling me out a little then came on extra strong. He never said sorry but his actions showed he was sorry. It's intense. Sometimes I feel too intense like I can't but that's when he'll ease up and come back better. Does this make sense?Posted by ShaniajamConfidence is key for both of you. It has to be equal. Scorp moon and taurus moon reward 10 fold. They both also withdraw just as quickly.Posted by DMVYou hit the nail on the head and I won't argue with that lol. Yes very closed off... So could this be why when he comes back full force he asks me questions passive aggressively see how i feel or where I'm at with him? The only reason I don't is because I've been forthcoming in other resltionships and they "used me" I want to tell him or good he makes me feel but I don't want him running away. So yes I hold back at times until I realize he needs it. But should I tell him this constantly instead of waiting?
Taurus moon can be just as closed off as a scorp moon. If I remember, he sometimes thinks your full of it. You brush over things. All that is related.
Its all on your tab.
you guys obviously test each other and know youre being tested. Respond in truth. Do you respond in truth or punishment?click to expand

Posted by TaureyeHail Venus in Aries here too lol
I observe with patience, if i'm made comfortable and i can trust you genuinely. Then i'm an open book, but that may also have to do with my venus aries. Good balance.


Posted by DMVNo "commitment" per say. However we have spoken about being monogamous. We have agreed not to date other people. He also forced the long distance issue and I was against it but I finally gave in. I don't question him about being skeptical about other women but when I feel the need to bring it up I do... He never says he's not seeing anyone else or he is but what does he do to ease me? He come a little harder with the calls and contacts until he thinks I'm ok (I notice the pattern). And vice versa I give reassurance when he ask (he pretends he's not jealous but let me go to an event and he wants to know every detail if he sees a pic surface with a man and I do the same but try not to act to possessive). HES MINE! Lol in my head that's what I say. But yeah that's us.
Are you guys in a committed relationship?



Posted by DMVLol... I really do like him. Never had someone look at me so intensely. Yes verrrry slow lol....I guess we're both just cautious.
I can tell u both like each other. This will be a slow process.

Posted by DMVI'm nervous argh!!!!! Lol. I have no problem waiting... I'll Waite little longer... And thanks so much for the insight I really needed it.
Also ask him about committing.
Posted by Shaniajamwhy are you changing who you are? if thats not how you are naturally?Posted by lisabethur8I'm used to being possessive and gain after the man and they like it. But I end up wearing the pants. He does not want this and it's intriguing. I'm not used to it and so I need the advice on how to just chill/ what's wrong with that
i guess it's hard for people to just let it go, and let things unfold and just relax.
edit: but she's full of anxiety and fear...
it's probably normal for her if she really really likes someone and doesnt understand why he's not reciprocating.
that's horrible.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Aries Venus and Scorpio Mars lol.... However I don't want to wear the pants anymore and this is what I get when I chase so I am trying a different approach. I also not trying to seem desperate cause I am not trust... But I'm really feeling him and I need to find balance.Posted by Shaniajamwhy are you changing who you are? if thats not how you are naturally?Posted by lisabethur8I'm used to being possessive and gain after the man and they like it. But I end up wearing the pants. He does not want this and it's intriguing. I'm not used to it and so I need the advice on how to just chill/ what's wrong with that
i guess it's hard for people to just let it go, and let things unfold and just relax.
edit: but she's full of anxiety and fear...
it's probably normal for her if she really really likes someone and doesnt understand why he's not reciprocating.
that's horrible.
what is your venus and mars? if you have a water venus and/or water venus it would help his Scorpio moon.
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Posted by ShaniajamWhy waste anymore time. See where you stand.Posted by DMVI'm nervous argh!!!!! Lol. I have no problem waiting... I'll Waite little longer... And thanks so much for the insight I really needed it.
Also ask him about committing.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Him Leo sun
or water mars, i mean. it would help. i see you are very earthy. does he have earth himself?? if he does you both can get eachother.
if he's not reciprocating it's probably very black and white.

Posted by DMVSomething is changing. Before he would play games... To see how I feel. I could see the grin on his face though he try's hard to be serious. He likes the fact that I feel the way I feel about him. He had yet to say I love you though. I need to hear that before I spill my feelings. I've said I miss him, he has said he loves my conversations and he's even talked about future plans with me, I don't get my hopes up now because he missed coming to see me and in still a little dissapointed and hesitant because of it. It feels like we're going into the next phase... Cause he's more engaging. He showed me something I never saw before too... I just think maybe a month or so more should do.Posted by ShaniajamWhy waste anymore time. See where you stand.Posted by DMVI'm nervous argh!!!!! Lol. I have no problem waiting... I'll Waite little longer... And thanks so much for the insight I really needed it.
Also ask him about committing.
Tell him how u feel about him. Tell him what you want from him.
Get on the same page.click to expand
Posted by ShaniajamPosted by lisabethur8Aries Venus and Scorpio Mars lol.... However I don't want to wear the pants anymore and this is what I get when I chase so I am trying a different approach. I also not trying to seem desperate cause I am not trust... But I'm really feeling him and I need to find balance.Posted by Shaniajamwhy are you changing who you are? if thats not how you are naturally?Posted by lisabethur8I'm used to being possessive and gain after the man and they like it. But I end up wearing the pants. He does not want this and it's intriguing. I'm not used to it and so I need the advice on how to just chill/ what's wrong with that
i guess it's hard for people to just let it go, and let things unfold and just relax.
edit: but she's full of anxiety and fear...
it's probably normal for her if she really really likes someone and doesnt understand why he's not reciprocating.
that's horrible.
what is your venus and mars? if you have a water venus and/or water venus it would help his Scorpio moon.
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Posted by ShaniajamPosted by lisabethur8Him Leo sun
or water mars, i mean. it would help. i see you are very earthy. does he have earth himself?? if he does you both can get eachother.
if he's not reciprocating it's probably very black and white.
Scorp moon
Cancer Venus
Aquarius Mars
Me Taurus sun
Taurus moon
Aries venus
Scorpio Mars
He is reciprocating. We are doing just fine right now. We test each other though and the pace a little slow... I know why I'm going slow and it's Becuase I've been hurt and Taurus likes forever so if it won't be forever I don't want to hurt myself cause it takes for ever to heal. But I still don't know why he is slow too. Probably the same reason. I'm starting to get him and understand a little. He shows me just enough to get me thinking but never speaks about it and I never ask cause I realize when I ask he shuts down. But.... I had a concern one morning (6am) and he called me to pacify that (at that time of morning and he was asleep). He also spent more time calling me that day and we spoke a lot. I was so shocked that everything I could have asked went out the window. Then he pulled away again and then comes back. That seems to be the pattern. I also let him pull away and give space Becuase of he wants to go... Then I'm not chasing but if he comes back I'm me and I engage. Obviously he likes it if he keeps coming back no?click to expand
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How long do y'all take to open up? Or is this how you open up? The confusion may be due to his Aquarius Mars too with not wanting me to know him too much too soon?