Virgo moon

How do males with moon virgo behave in love? Personality traits? Is it true virgo lunars like to be needed and like a bit of clinginess from his/her lover?

I would have to say that those are pretty fair characterizations. I really do want to feel a depth and a closeness. Perhaps this is more or less the general desire, but I tend to think I want that more than at least most others.

Is it true that a virgo moon isn't comfortable saying how they feel?

Posted by Geminlove
How do males with moon virgo behave in love? Personality traits? Is it true virgo lunars like to be needed and like a bit of clinginess from his/her lover?

My aqua has a virgo moon. He's not one to reach out affectionately all that often, but he is very, very receptive when I do. Almost like he appreciates that I take the lead in that area. I do notice that he likes to feel appreciated and although complements seem to make him appear a little bashful, the look on his face/eyes says he really likes hearing them. Don't over do it though, then it rings false.

Always be kind and always say thank you for what he does. For example, "he opens the door for you, say "thanks babe". Everyone likes their good deeds to be recognized, but I think it's especially important to a virgo moon.

Posted by truecap

Posted by Geminlove
How do males with moon virgo behave in love? Personality traits? Is it true virgo lunars like to be needed and like a bit of clinginess from his/her lover?

My aqua has a virgo moon. He's not one to reach out affectionately all that often, but he is very, very receptive when I do. Almost like he appreciates that I take the lead in that area. I do notice that he likes to feel appreciated and although complements seem to make him appear a little bashful, the look on his face/eyes says he really likes hearing them. Don't over do it though, then it rings false.

Always be kind and always say thank you for what he does. For example, "he opens the door for you, say "thanks babe". Everyone likes their good deeds to be recognized, but I think it's especially important to a virgo moon.

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All very true. I really do feel unappreciated a lot of the time. I really try hard, work hard, spend time thinking how to make it better for those I care about. Makes me sad when no one bothers to mention that. I find myself telling myself "Why do I bother" more often then is good for me.

I don't think I have much trouble telling people how I feel, I do think I have a lot of trouble finding people who care enough to actually listen to how I feel. I also tend to think I am sounding "whiny!" Just suck it up, and keep it to myself because I don't want to bore others with my problems, you see. After all, "boring" is one of the most awful sins known to mankind.

I kinda meant saying the L-word when I was talking about feelings.

But, really, I think you guys and gals tend to get taken for granted. Your efforts are so normal or so behind the scenes that it's not obvious how you go out of your way to do things for people.

I would have to agree that there is more than a grain of truth in what you are saying here truecap. Doing things for others seems to come very easy and naturally for me, at least for a while. "Gifts," as it were, can be easily overlooked and/or unappreciated.

If I truly care for someone, I have no trouble at telling them that I love them. I do require a good deal of confidence that they feel the same way, though. As I have remarked before, if you look at me you would probably never guess how vulnerable I really am on the inside.

Hey, wasn't there someone someplace around here talking about such a thing being "part of the human condition," hmmmmm...

I have a book that says "virgo moons will appreciate a partner who doesn't demand they say how they feel about them".

Basing it on that.

Im a Virgo sun and moon and find most things said on this thread SO NOT true for me. Especially the last post by truecap

So, what is true for you Shaks? Explain so we can understand.

The book that stated that is called Moon Signs for Lovers. Guess I should throw it in the trash. lol!

I think thats a pretty good idea 😛

Nah, but really..a person's emotional expression is just so much more complex than the moon sign alone.

Posted by truecap
Is it true that a virgo moon isn't comfortable saying how they feel?

+1000 yes! I'm a Virgo moon, and it is so hard for me to express my emotions!

But then again, I have Venus in Scorpio...which makes it even more difficult

If we were to trust the books..Im supposed to be a robot as far as emotional expression, which everyone who knows me would find absolutely laughable and ridiculous.

so virgo moons dont like to be needed? How do they behave when they are in love tho?

I have to disagree with the "don't want to be needed" idea. I really like being needed, or at least appreciated. Maybe I am confusing the two, but being a deep part of that someone else's life really makes me happy.

I also tend to be very focused on that person. I have mentioned before that if that someone did simple things like putting their car keys in a different place, I would notice and wonder about it. I had to be careful not to read to much into such things. Hey, the keys kept falling on the floor, so they needed to be kept someplace else. Of course, I would tend to notice that sort of stuff, also.

I suppose the key thingo here is that I tend "to read too much into things." I really want to understand this person, and I look for answers that maybe aren't there, nor do they need to be.

Posted by truecap
I have a book that says "virgo moons will appreciate a partner who doesn't demand they say how they feel about them".

Basing it on that.

I feel that this is true for me.

I find it annoying having been told, "Tell me you love me".

I will when I feel it damnit!

Then again, I get irritated when anything is demanded of me so...

Posted by LadyOfRebirth

My Virgo is very comfortable with expressing how he feels and tells me he loves me at least once every day if not more. Not in an emotional way of course but he does express himself.

The first few times he would open up I could sense some hesitation but a bit of reassurance goes a long way. As long as they're comfortable with you and know you feel the same they will express themselves.

YES! Very true! Virgo moon here. 🙂

Posted by truecap
Is it true that a virgo moon isn't comfortable saying how they feel?

Taurus sun
Virgo moon.

&& I'm never comfortable with saying how i feel when they ask !! It has to be on my time when I'm ready ...

Guys would ask me all the time how do you feel & I literally wanna just faint on the damn floor lol ugh ... Don't really like questions like that at all nothing ubthink is too emotional or sensitive lol ...

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Posted by truecap
I have a book that says "virgo moons will appreciate a partner who doesn't demand they say how they feel about them".

Basing it on that.

I feel that this is true for me.

I find it annoying having been told, "Tell me you love me".

I will when I feel it damnit!

Then again, I get irritated when anything is demanded of me so...

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I can agree with this as well ! That would only just make me walk around with the bitch face all day

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Posted by truecap
Is it true that a virgo moon isn't comfortable saying how they feel?

Taurus sun
Virgo moon.

&& I'm never comfortable with saying how i feel when they ask !! It has to be on my time when I'm ready ...

Guys would ask me all the time how do you feel & I literally wanna just faint on the damn floor lol ugh ... Don't really like questions like that at all nothing ubthink is too emotional or sensitive lol ...

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LOL that's too funny. I'm a Taurus sun/Virgo moon too. My ex Aries started saying he loved me early on - he would say 'do you love me?' especially in the heat of the moment. EEK, put a gal on the spot why don't you. Call me crazy but I like being sure of my feelings before I blurt them out. And of course his "love" vanished just as abruptly as it started...

Part of this could be that I expect you to see how I feel about you by the way I treat you. Words can be hard to say sometimes, I suppose, but my actions tend to be direct and clear. If I truly care about you, I will be falling all over myself to appreciate and/or pamper you. Apparently it can be a bit maddening. "What, you like that blah, blah, blah in the shop window. Why just let me get that for you!!!!"

Course, that could be my Aries sun talking there to....

=peaceloveandhappiness

OMG a Gemini man did that to me once .. & it really does mess up the groove except he was like tell me you love me & I went into panic mode lol & it was this awkward silence ... I never talked to him again he end up chasing me he asked me a million times did I like it & I ignored him Everytime ! Haha

so i want to reconcile with my aqua with virgo moon.. do i wait for him to pursue me? we broke up 2 weeks ago cause he ignored my emotions and it drove me away. I miss him : ( do i wait? or talk to him?

Posted by TxOgal
so i want to reconcile with my aqua with virgo moon.. do i wait for him to pursue me? we broke up 2 weeks ago cause he ignored my emotions and it drove me away. I miss him : ( do i wait? or talk to him?

I can't speak for your aqua/virgo. I can say I can definitely understand how you feel. I had an emotional outburst once because I felt like my emotions and feelings were ignored and went off on him. He frustrated me because he didn't validate that my feelings had gotten hurt over something. I felt like he didn't care how I felt. But I contacted him the next day and he was very apologetic and forgiving.

So, mine, I think (can't say for sure) would appreciate it if I reached out to him. I think he would want me to make the first move since I was the one that pulled away. Makes sense.

Aquas are very forgiving people and virgo moon hates to hurt someone. I also think they would fear rejection and wouldn't reach out first in a situation like this.

Of course, I can't speak for an aqua sun/virgo moon placement. Just sharing my experience and impression of things.

So, contact him, tell him you miss him, ask to see him, be honest with why you pulled back. Be logical and rational. See what happens. What have you got to lose? Worse case scenario is the scenario you have now, right?

TrueCap makes an interesting observation. After an "outburst" I would find it difficult to re-establish contact. This would depend on the outburst, but it would certainly cast a cloud over me. Having said that, if I had an opening, and really felt you were who I wanted, I would indeed be the very soul of gracious forgiveness.

I am a Virgo moon and for me it's not very easy to articulate my feelings. I don't deal in feelings too much, far too confusing and just tiring so I just try and do things to let them know I care.

Posted by dofacc
Part of this could be that I expect you to see how I feel about you by the way I treat you. Words can be hard to say sometimes, I suppose, but my actions tend to be direct and clear. If I truly care about you, I will be falling all over myself to appreciate and/or pamper you. Apparently it can be a bit maddening. "What, you like that blah, blah, blah in the shop window. Why just let me get that for you!!!!"

Course, that could be my Aries sun talking there to....

Took the words right out of my mouth... or fingers. 😛

I show my love through my actions, not through words. Words are very hard for me for some reason. If I care about somebody all I want to do is BUY EVERYTHING! haha

Also Aries sun-Virgo moon 🙂