@mystiquelibra93
12 Years
Did I scare this Virgo moon guy off ?
Yup, we can be tricky. I am betting that in his head he is going "OMG, She Noticed Me!!!!! Now What Do I Do——"
Keep it coming, and see if you can't get passed the "deer in the headlights" beginning.
My aqua has moon in virgo. I hardly ever know what he's thinking. Lol!
He isn't one to verbalize his feelings and isn't much for putting himself out there. This combination is afraid of rejection because they fear humiliation. In my opinion, they would rather you put yourself out on a limb, but they dont want to be chased either. In the beginning of our relationship, there were so many times I felt like I crossed the line. Yet, he stuck around. Now, I know I didn't but some better feedback at the time would have been nice.
You're going to need a lot of patience. But its worth it, I promise.
From Virgos nation in Twitter:
"Two reasons a virgo may not talk to you. They really, really like you or they really, really don't." 🙂
Posted by dofacc
Yup, we can be tricky. I am betting that in his head he is going "OMG, She Noticed Me!!!!! Now What Do I Do——"Keep it coming, and see if you can't get passed the "deer in the headlights" beginning.
lol I hope that's what he's saying in his head , but he gave me his cell number not to long ago , and I texted him a few times , but no text back , but I texted him the other like 2 weeks ago and we texted for a lil , and I asked him why I don't see him , and he says he's been working so much blah blah. But I texted him too days ago no text. Maybe I'm chasing him too much
Posted by truecap
My aqua has moon in virgo. I hardly ever know what he's thinking. Lol!
He isn't one to verbalize his feelings and isn't much for putting himself out there. This combination is afraid of rejection because they fear humiliation. In my opinion, they would rather you put yourself out on a limb, but they dont want to be chased either. In the beginning of our relationship, there were so many times I felt like I crossed the line. Yet, he stuck around. Now, I know I didn't but some better feedback at the time would have been nice.
There so tricky , it's like he seems shy or nervous, but mixes signals. One minute it seems like he's into me then he's not . But he seems like a loyal guy and worth it
Posted by mystiquelibra93
He's a aqua sun, but I feel like I scared him off , before I really was paying attention to this guy , he use to show signs that showed that he was interested in me. But ever since I started to be interested in him and kind of throwing hints , he's been distant I never see him, he doesn't talk to me but he stares alot acts nervous. It's just so awkward now cause before we use to just flow. I'm a libra sun libra moon btw
ugghhh, he sounds scared to death poor thing!! even though you did nothing wrong. But idk, always walking around, second guessing yourself, wondering if you did too much, too little, walking on eggshells around this guy sounds frustrating !! The hot cold thing......you show interest, he runs, you back off, he chases smh lol Sounds like you think he is worth it which is cool but i would be doing some serious retail therapy during this little dance to get through it lol !
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Posted by mystiquelibra93
He's a aqua sun, but I feel like I scared him off , before I really was paying attention to this guy , he use to show signs that showed that he was interested in me. But ever since I started to be interested in him and kind of throwing hints , he's been distant I never see him, he doesn't talk to me but he stares alot acts nervous. It's just so awkward now cause before we use to just flow. I'm a libra sun libra moon btw
ugghhh, he sounds scared to death poor thing!! even though you did nothing wrong. But idk, always walking around, second guessing yourself, wondering if you did too much, too little, walking on eggshells around this guy sounds frustrating !! The hot cold thing......you show interest, he runs, you back off, he chases smh lol Sounds like you think he is worth it which is cool but i would be doing some serious retail therapy during this little dance to get through it lol !
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yes seriously !!! And haha yes retail therapy is how I release my frustration at least I can look stylish while going threw the hot and cold mess lol
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Posted by mystiquelibra93
He's a aqua sun, but I feel like I scared him off , before I really was paying attention to this guy , he use to show signs that showed that he was interested in me. But ever since I started to be interested in him and kind of throwing hints , he's been distant I never see him, he doesn't talk to me but he stares alot acts nervous. It's just so awkward now cause before we use to just flow. I'm a libra sun libra moon btw
ugghhh, he sounds scared to death poor thing!! even though you did nothing wrong. But idk, always walking around, second guessing yourself, wondering if you did too much, too little, walking on eggshells around this guy sounds frustrating !! The hot cold thing......you show interest, he runs, you back off, he chases smh lol Sounds like you think he is worth it which is cool but i would be doing some serious retail therapy during this little dance to get through it lol !
yes seriously !!! And haha yes retail therapy is how I release my frustration at least I can look stylish while going threw the hot and cold mess lolclick to expand
Mystique, tell him to put on his big boy pants and call you in the morning !! lol 😉
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by mystiquelibra93
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Posted by mystiquelibra93
He's a aqua sun, but I feel like I scared him off , before I really was paying attention to this guy , he use to show signs that showed that he was interested in me. But ever since I started to be interested in him and kind of throwing hints , he's been distant I never see him, he doesn't talk to me but he stares alot acts nervous. It's just so awkward now cause before we use to just flow. I'm a libra sun libra moon btw
ugghhh, he sounds scared to death poor thing!! even though you did nothing wrong. But idk, always walking around, second guessing yourself, wondering if you did too much, too little, walking on eggshells around this guy sounds frustrating !! The hot cold thing......you show interest, he runs, you back off, he chases smh lol Sounds like you think he is worth it which is cool but i would be doing some serious retail therapy during this little dance to get through it lol !
yes seriously !!! And haha yes retail therapy is how I release my frustration at least I can look stylish while going threw the hot and cold mess lol
Mystique, tell him to put on his big boy pants and call you in the morning !! lol 😉
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lmao I really want too
Posted by Stares
From Virgos nation in Twitter:"Two reasons a virgo may not talk to you. They really, really like you or they really, really don't." 🙂
Damn it sucks , cause I wish I knew which one but then he shows signs that he is , then he doesn't
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I know nothing about aqua men, but my bf has a Virgo moon. You do have to be patient, and make it clear you like him. Don't overdo it though or he might doubt your sincerity.
I'm not trying to overdo it , but I think I am , but then it's like I don't do enough , so what can I do ?
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I know nothing about aqua men, but my bf has a Virgo moon. You do have to be patient, and make it clear you like him. Don't overdo it though or he might doubt your sincerity.
+1
Also, if he does sweet things for you or is a complete gentleman and chivalrous around you, that would be a clear sign he's into you.
And if he ever does anything nice for you, make dern sure you let him know you appreciate it and it made you happy. Don't over do that, but the virgo moon needs to feel appreciated. Doing nice things for people makes them happy and they need to know it made you happy too.
from always astrology.com
Virgo Moon
Virgo Moon looks to the little things in life for their happiness and security. They may deny it, but they actually enjoy activities like running errands, taking care of details, and so on. They may complain about it, but as long as they feel appreciated they will do their best to not only take care of themselves, they'll take care of you, too. They will usually be the first to volunteer to help someone else.
They may be a bit low in self-esteem, but many are very happy to have a normal, pedestrian life. Simplicity is their mantra and they feel most at home when they can go through life without a lot of public attention. Because of this, they may be accused of being an underachiever or not setting their sights high enough. In reality, they are easily stressed, and they are much happier when they stay within their comfort level.
Virgo Moon Sign loves routine. They are very unhappy without one, or at least feeling they have a job that is necessary. They may appear fussy or be labeled as a complainer, but they really can't function well without their routine. They do best at jobs that require a lot of detail or micromanaging.
They will show how much they care in small, practical ways like putting away your laundry. Open affection may cause them to pull back a bit, and they are often shy when meeting new people. Once they are comfortable, however they are happy to be themselves. They are trustworthy and reliable and are good sources of advice or help in just about any situation. Their practicality makes them very useful to keep around. They make excellent counselors, as they are very talented at comforting others and making them feel better.
In a relationship, Moon in Virgo can be shy and possibly intimidated. They are very aware of themselves, and when combined with low self-esteem, it can really interfere with forming a normal, healthy relationship. They can end up being too critical of themselves. Once they gain self-confidence, they can be a wonderful partner with a lot to contribute. They tend to keep their own feelings bottled up, which can cause health issues in the long run. Others may see Virgo Moon as cold or unaffectionate, which in most cases is not true. Moon in Virgo is a born skeptic. When faced with blind faith, they can't help but pick at it. They can be frustrating because they insist on finding the practical application to everything. Virgo Moon is full of curiosity, yet seems apathetic
at the same time. This can confuse some people. While they can dish out the criticism, they are extremely sensitive to receiving it themselves.
Virgo Moon likes to stay busy, and they are happy as long as their life feels under their control. They may put up invisible barriers to others, whether they realize it or not. They hope that others will put forth the extra effort to get to know them anyway.
Posted by truecap
at the same time. This can confuse some people. While they can dish out the criticism, they are extremely sensitive to receiving it themselves.Virgo Moon likes to stay busy, and they are happy as long as their life feels under their control. They may put up invisible barriers to others, whether they realize it or not. They hope that others will put forth the extra effort to get to know them anyway.
one day we went to sixflags with a whole bunch of mutual friends and he didn't say hi to me but he was just staring me the whole time . Then when me and one of my girls departed from the group a lil at six flags and came back he asked me "where the hell were you" . (Just pointed me out and not my friend). So after that he just kept staring at me . But that night he told me goodbye and hugged me around my waist tight (the first time we huged. Then I asked him for a ride to the train station and he was kind of "hesitant" about it but he still brought me ,he asked me why i needed to go to the train station whats there. But since that he doesn't say hi to me .well once he did but I didn't get no hug. But he asks so nervous around me it's like he's waiting for me to make a move or so idk.
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He's a aqua sun, but I feel like I scared him off , before I really was paying attention to this guy , he use to show signs that showed that he was interested in me. But ever since I started to be interested in him and kind of throwing hints , he's been distant I never see him, he doesn't talk to me but he stares alot acts nervous. It's just so awkward now cause before we use to just flow. I'm a libra sun libra moon btw