Any Pisces Women dated an Aries Guy?

I met this Aries guy on a dating site. He seemed very laid back and career oriented. He asked me for my number and we've been texting every other day for a week now. He's usually the one who initiates the conversation by saying "just thought of you and wanted to see how you were" and always says that he's been busy. I haven't initiated contact with him for fear that he'll lose interest after reading all of these forum postings and blogs on Aries men.

My question is: Should I start initiating contact with him since he has a more laid back moon sign? Also, is he genuinely too busy that I only hear from him every other day or is he just bored? What's a good way to turn things around and get him to text more and finally even call(I've never heard his voice btw).

I'm Pisces Sun with Aries Moon, Venus in Aries, and Gemini ascendant

He's Aries Sun with Capricorn Moon and Venus and Cancer ascendant.

I've posted this question in another section but I would love to get a Pisces woman's experience and approach as well. Please and thanks. 🙂

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Posted by Dapadon
I met this Aries guy on a dating site. He seemed very laid back and career oriented. He asked me for my number and we've been texting every other day for a week now. He's usually the one who initiates the conversation by saying "just thought of you and wanted to see how you were" and always says that he's been busy. I haven't initiated contact with him for fear that he'll lose interest after reading all of these forum postings and blogs on Aries men.

My question is: Should I start initiating contact with him since he has a more laid back moon sign? Also, is he genuinely too busy that I only hear from him every other day or is he just bored? What's a good way to turn things around and get him to text more and finally even call(I've never heard his voice btw).

I'm Pisces Sun with Aries Moon, Venus in Aries, and Gemini ascendant

He's Aries Sun with Capricorn Moon and Venus and Cancer ascendant.

I've posted this question in another section but I would love to get a Pisces woman's experience and approach as well. Please and thanks. 🙂

Pisces women and Aries men are no match............

These Aries with cap moons are usually very busy, and if they want something or someone they will come get you.
The moon means nothing that he is laid back......

I can assure you, if you act needy or slutty with this combo,, he will get turned off quickly... Let him come to you.

I have a brother who is Aries with Cap moon.........when he wants something or someone, there is nothing that can stop him... he does pay very much attention to women who are tramps, slutty or needy... He wants to be the man....... do not try to take his place in initiating and trying to chase this one.. If you do he will chase you away pretty quick.

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Thanks..Exactly what I needed to know...thanks

A lot of aries men have shown some interest in me in the past. It's mostly because I'm playful and don't try. I don't try because I'm not interested in them.lol
They love the chase. When I was a young an aries had a crush on me. I developed a crush back and then I was accused of being clingy ( basically because I showed some slight interest back) . Ever since then I've realized Pisceans and Ariens have fundamentally different definitions and expectations for courtships as a general rule. I'm sure there are exceptions like maybe in the case talked about above but from my experience if you want an aries to like you treat them like crap and ignore them. They will interpret it as you being self sufficient independent and mysterious...maybe even aloof.

The same is true for friendships too. As a matter of fact this will work on all fire and air signs with the exception of Leos.
Leos are super clingy and need a lot of attention from the get go . All fire signs though after they are in a relationship tend be super clingy , more so than their water counterparts. Libras and Geminis are the same way as well. Aquarians are the only ones who are truly detached and value their independence before during and after a relationship.

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Posted by Dapadon
I met this Aries guy on a dating site. He seemed very laid back and career oriented. He asked me for my number and we've been texting every other day for a week now. He's usually the one who initiates the conversation by saying "just thought of you and wanted to see how you were" and always says that he's been busy. I haven't initiated contact with him for fear that he'll lose interest after reading all of these forum postings and blogs on Aries men.

My question is: Should I start initiating contact with him since he has a more laid back moon sign? Also, is he genuinely too busy that I only hear from him every other day or is he just bored? What's a good way to turn things around and get him to text more and finally even call(I've never heard his voice btw).

I'm Pisces Sun with Aries Moon, Venus in Aries, and Gemini ascendant

He's Aries Sun with Capricorn Moon and Venus and Cancer ascendant.

I've posted this question in another section but I would love to get a Pisces woman's experience and approach as well. Please and thanks. 🙂

Hi astro twin! 🙂

In regards to Aries men, I really think with this pairing it depends on other placements. Being an Aries moon and Venus I've gotten along swimmingly with Aries men, for the most part.. Assholes aside obviously.

Him having a cap moon will make him more grounded, which is a good thing. Aries men in general ime do like to "chase" so to speak.

I'm surprised you're able to just back off though. Personally when I want something, it's really hard for me NOT to go for it😛

But I'd recommend you to just be yourself to be honest.

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We are astrotwins! I've never met anyone else with most of my placements. How cool. 🙂

And Lol...trust me...I'm really TRYING to not "go for it"..I usually like to initiate but thank goodness I did some research on his sign first.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
A lot of aries men have shown some interest in me in the past. It's mostly because I'm playful and don't try. I don't try because I'm not interested in them.lol
They love the chase. When I was a young an aries had a crush on me. I developed a crush back and then I was accused of being clingy ( basically because I showed some slight interest back) . Ever since then I've realized Pisceans and Ariens have fundamentally different definitions and expectations for courtships as a general rule. I'm sure there are exceptions like maybe in the case talked about above but from my experience if you want an aries to like you treat them like crap and ignore them. They will interpret it as you being self sufficient independent and mysterious...maybe even aloof.

The same is true for friendships too. As a matter of fact this will work on all fire and air signs with the exception of Leos.
Leos are super clingy and need a lot of attention from the get go . All fire signs though after they are in a relationship tend be super clingy , more so than their water counterparts. Libras and Geminis are the same way as well. Aquarians are the only ones who are truly detached and value their independence before during and after a relationship.

There must be truth in the fact that if you treat most air and fire signs like you're not interested they'll come running after you. I knew some Aquarius, Gemini, and Saggitarius men who couldn't get enough of me when I wasn't interested and never understood why. If and when this guy does come back I'm going to have a lot of fun treating him like crap haha...although I'd need to be cautious with my impulsiveness to contact him first. It'll be very interesting.

Posted by Huldra
Yeah I have dated an April 7 Aries. Not going there again.

Why? What were some problems you faced with him?

Dated three of them, but only shortly. I found their intensity off-putting. I prefer intensity in rare, but perfectly administered doses, which I usually get from airy men with Aries Moon/Venus.