Aquarius guy kinda lost, not sure how pisces work.

Hello,
I got to know this attractive pisces women from a videoDJ site, somehow i fell for her and get a little closer as we will chat privately after the session ended,usually in skype as she hates texting,i realize it is a bad thing as she have a boyfriend for 8 years and but seems to have some discontent for the relationship but nothing very bad i guess.

I was planning to cut ties with her to sort out my feelings and maybe to avoid getting in a complicated relationship, but she knew about it and came looking for me asking me what happen.I told her maybe its the best if i leave her alone,staying away to prevent future possible damages, cuz i think i fell quite hard for her and im worried this will lead to even more dramas in the future.She told me not to worry and think too much,she dont want me to leave.

and as days goes by,somehow i took the role of a manager helping her to manage jobs and stuff,she seldom reply text massages, wasnt keen on letting me have her phone number as she doesnt want me to see her whatsapp status or something(probably related to the bf/ no idea).usually we just talk via skype.I think there is something going on btwn us ,but im not sure if its my own delusions or shes just being sympathetic with a guy that likes her lol.she doesnt really come looking for me,but i understand she have a bf.and shes very bad at reading situations and she admitted it when i told her about it.thus i understand im just grieving it over by myself lol.im not sure what am i getting into anymore lol.

She's deeply moved by your feelings and honesty. She probably wants you as a best friend...something most guys don't want in your predicament.She's not stringing you along again I think she's just bad at communicating. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings but she wants you in her life because she probably feels a closeness with you that she doesn't feel with her boyfriend. It doesn't mean she's going to leave her current boyfriend just that she wants her cake and to eat it too.

Be careful.

so i guess im being caught in a friendzone or something huh? and she doesnt like me at all and its all my mind playing tricks on me.

Unfortunately I think this may very well indeed be the case. To your credit we Pisceans are often confused about our feelings and often do things that convey that confusion and are unknowingly not aware how that may confuse or hurt other people. So I don't think you completely imagined all of the things that led you to believe that there was a real chance for something romantic to develop.

I'm sorry I'm currently going through a similar situation with another Pisces so I know exactly how it feels . I definitely felt though like she lead me to believe that there was a possible chance of something of a serious romantic nature developing in the future to only find out she was just confused . She literally told me that the guy she was seeing meant nothing only to say a week later that she's committed to him and wants to be friends for example.

Pisces girls are the best and the worst.

Thanks for the advises earlier but not i got into some trouble again i think lol,

Well,i went and tried to get a confirmation and intended to end the whole thing, what am i to her and did i imagine the whole thing cause im blinded or something.she told me and confirmed there is a connection between us.which is i am not sure wether i should be happy about ir or did i just get myself into deeper trouble lol.

She explained it isnt that she purposely ignore my messages but there is a problem with her with replying messages or call.She told me even with her family members, she tend to ignore their calls and messages or will reply few days later.When she saw the messages she will be like ok,then forget to reply the next second.(not sure why... i think several friends of mine got this problem too,is it a pisces thing? lol ).even the bf only get one short calls a day max without texting, she will find her close friends in a week or two,and ask me to imagine how she is to those not so close ones. i think she made an extra effort on me or something probably, probably i should be happy about her being honest but then,theres still a problem left unsolved lol.

With most women it's just not smart to show your feelings.
It feels as a relief at first, but the more you're showing the more you're ruining it for yourself.

I don't know why but women like to chase, and showing interest takes away the "does he like me or not" doubting thing. That's why they like assholes, too. This may be a bit less with Pisces than with eg. Geminis though.

Since you mentioned the 'friendzone', try not to be there for her all the time / seek her approval. That will confuse her a bit and make her curious, but don't go too far. When you notice she's giving up, make a move yourself.

And, most important, stand your own ground. Don't be her little puppy dog.

Yea i get what you mean,Aquas like me tend to work things out in a logical manner,and most of my relationship is fine with me carrying myself that way.There is only few special cases where i fall for someone too hard and get myself overwhelm by emotions and keep messing things up lol.Im not very good in handling too much emotions i guess, that explains y i am afraid of falling hard for someone. Guess i better try to get back into the normal Aqua's way,detach and move like the wind lol.Shit happens when i start taking things seriously.

Yeah really same thing here !
I think the key is consciousness, and not loving her more than yourself. Easier said than done ofcourse.. 😉
But luckily you know that of yourself, maybe just try not to be too serious about it.

I still think she's stringing you along. The first pisces girl told me that I was her soulmate and often told me that her boyfriend at the time didn't compare to me. I never ultimately never pictured us together though I had strong feelings for her at the time. We are now best friends.
The other pisces told me that her husband meant nothing and that if I would have purposed to her she would have said yes. Then a week later told me that she was committed to her husband and wanted to stay friends. Don't use the feelings she expresses as an indicator of you having a real shot. Piscean feelings change like the wind. The cellphone thing is true though we do not like to be attached to our phones. Sometimes we are really bad at responding.
I also agree on the detached approach to a certain extent. It's a fine balance. If you're too aloof she'll resent you and see through your tactics. But if you are obvious about why you don't call and why you after willing to walk away ..she'll chase after you.