Break ups..

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Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!
So, what you are saying is, for your own ego, you want to manipulate her into dumping you, so that you won't be categorized as one of "them".

Got it.
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Posted by AntiSocial
& also she is kinda in a rough patch right now..she has no job staying with me & I do everything I can to support her mentally and financially .. and don't want to contribute more negative ish in her life sooo it's cool I guess to just let it be till she becomes stable
Thaat's kind of you and even mindful but still it's like excuse from being honest plus slim chances she's gonna dump you from what I've read. What if it's not gonna get better anytime soon. Both of you won't be happy and the resentment can grow... I mean, just my suggestion, let her know your feelings are changing maybe just that, don't do break up at once. See how it goes from there.

Maybe she needs to be on her own to become stable/better? It's tough but you know

Good luck, however you choose 🙂
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Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!
what is your sign make up?



I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.
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Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!
what is your sign make up?



I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.

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Hey yeah how do you figure out your placements ? Thank you!

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Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!
what is your sign make up?



I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.



Hey yeah how do you figure out your placements ? Thank you!

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Go here

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

and plug in your birth time info