Not sure is this Cancer man is serious...

Hi! I've been reading a lot on this forum for a while now and finally decided to ahead and post about my Cancer man woes. (this might be a bit winded, but I want to give as much detail as I can)

I'm a Pisces woman who has been pursuing an older Cancer man for a couple of months now. I asked for his number and since then I kind of feel like I'm calling all of the shots and I don't want to. Before we were ever intimate, he had told me that he wanted me to be his "baby". He uses pet names like "babe" and "boo" a lot and me being a gushy Pisces is all into it... I feel kind of special.

We text constantly, talk on the phone a bit and we're intimate like every other week. He's been busy with work, so we haven't gone out on an official date yet. He always says he wants to take me out/ spend time with me outside of what we're doing now. We've made weekend plans where he seems so excited, but he always blows me off saying he's "tired from work" (and I mean I can't be that upset because he works crazy hours.. I let it go).

There was even a time when I ignored him for a while and he came back apologizing for being so busy and saying that he misses me. I told him that I understand and that when he has time I'm here. I'm getting impatient because it's like he tells me one thing and never really acts upon it. I like him and he's admits that he really likes me but I don't know how to ask him the "what are we" question without seeming too aggressive.

Am I being played/used for just sex or is there really something other than that?

Thanks!

Actions. He's made himself unavailable to you and putting in no effort for you. You know how much someone is interested in you by the effort they put into you.

Same girl same. At least now i know for sure its the cancer men not us. Except i have never slept with mine. I made it clear i want more. That might be making you feel self concious.

@secret

Posted by Caliscorpio
Same girl same. At least now i know for sure its the cancer men not us. Except i have never slept with mine. I made it clear i want more. That might be making you feel self concious.

Your post actually inspired me to write this lol! I always fall for Cancer men and it hasn't been successful yet smh.

Posted by Andalusia
@secret

Thanks Lusia.

@popeyes_biscuit, he isn't serious, move on.

If this is a bad advice, Andalusia is responsible.

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by aquarius09
Actions. He's made himself unavailable to you and putting in no effort for you. You know how much someone is interested in you by the effort they put into you.

So pretty ?

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Thank you ? And I find you pretty as well.