She never asks me questions?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by PancakeFace on Saturday, February 4, 2017 and has 20 replies.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Okay guys. I met this really awesome Pisces lady about a week ago. She's incredibly sweet, not the slightest bit egotistical. She's very humble. I know that she likes spending time with me as she makes that very apparent. She even goes out of her way to put me first sometimes and she's always very respectful. The only thing is she never asks me questions. This doesn't spoil our ability to converse as she's very easy to talk to but she never asks anything really. I'm use to Aquarius women and in my opinion those are Scorpios are masters at conversation and asking questions. I use to have a Pisces best friend who was also was an excellent conversationalists but she was born on the cups of Aqua. Every other Pisces female I've met hasn't really asked questions. They are super caring and they show it in other ways I suppose. I was just wondering anyone could shed any light on this.

Other than ... she's self absorbed. Because I don't belibe that or she's not interested. Again I don't really believe that either because she makes her interest apparent in other ways.

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

I think you're right to be wary.

That was one of things that really baffled me

about the ex 'hubs' -- hadn't thought about that

in a long time.

I remember (as I was facilitating his exit) telling

him You know nothing about me!

You never even ask!

Now I know that he lacked a soul, but hindsight.

:/

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by Montgomery
I think you're right to be wary.

That was one of things that really baffled me

about the ex 'hubs' -- hadn't thought about that

in a long time.

I remember (as I was facilitating his exit) telling

him You know nothing about me!

You never even ask!

Now I know that he lacked a soul, but hindsight.

:/

I see you're a pisces moon, so do you ask a lot of questions?

Basically I just want to get to know her, she seems interested in getting to know me in her actions just not her words. I just find it strange that someone wouldn't want to know your likes or dislikes, even the basic conversation making stuff.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

She may not feel comfortable asking you certain things. She might not want to come off as a inquisition.

Or she may not care to know said answers because she doesn't care about you.

It's difficult to say without observing first hand your interactions with one another.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

She may be used to and prefer that the man lead the conversation.

She may have been involved with someone in the past who was annoyed/turned off by her asking questions.

The possibilities are endless here

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Ask her a question...then after she answers playfully say..."now it's your turn to ask me".

That's a good idea. I guess the problem is if she isn't interested then I dont wanna make her feel obligated to ask about me lol. It's just kinda baffling because she's very interested in other ways and makes it VERY obvious. We've even spoke about our interest in each other, so I know she is. She just never ever asks anything.

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@lexci
10 Years

She sounds like me lol. I am a pisces sun too, and I don't really ask any questions because I'm usually bored with the whole dating thing. At some point you've heard it all. Sometimes its good to just be in good company and let what will happen, happen. I've been told I'm a bit detached. (might be my aqua venus) When she wants to know more, she will ask.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by lexci
She sounds like me lol. I am a pisces sun too, and I don't really ask any questions because I'm usually bored with the whole dating thing. At some point you've heard it all. Sometimes its good to just be in good company and let what will happen, happen. I've been told I'm a bit detached. (might be my aqua venus) When she wants to know more, she will ask.

Interesting, I guess I never thought about those things before. Thank you for your perspective. But can I ask why are you bored with it?

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by LadyNeptune
Ask her a question...then after she answers playfully say..."now it's your turn to ask me".

That's a good idea. I guess the problem is if she isn't interested then I dont wanna make her feel obligated to ask about me lol. It's just kinda baffling because she's very interested in other ways and makes it VERY obvious. We've even spoke about our interest in each other, so I know she is. She just never ever asks anything.

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That's the risk you take with anything new. Does she like me? Does she like me as much as I like her?

Don't let doubt sour the potential here. Focus on getting to know her. And most importantly express to her that it's important to you that she asks you questions. You are an open book for her to read.

Don't write her off because she can't read your mind. Tell her what you want and need.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Capri-sun
Pisces allows you to unfold naturally imo. They don't need to ask questions. It's more learning as you interact & converse.

I rarely pry into people's lives or ask pointed questions. I listen and let them express what they will. I find I get more info this way. Pisces Mercury.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Capri-sun
Pisces allows you to unfold naturally imo. They don't need to ask questions. It's more learning as you interact & converse.

I rarely pry into people's lives or ask pointed questions. I listen and let them express what they will. I find I get more info this way. Pisces Mercury.

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That's very interesting, thanks. I will remember that.

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@lexci
10 Years

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by lexci
She sounds like me lol. I am a pisces sun too, and I don't really ask any questions because I'm usually bored with the whole dating thing. At some point you've heard it all. Sometimes its good to just be in good company and let what will happen, happen. I've been told I'm a bit detached. (might be my aqua venus) When she wants to know more, she will ask.

Interesting, I guess I never thought about those things before. Thank you for your perspective. But can I ask why are you bored with it?

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Well I'm married now, but when I did date there was never anything "new." You go see a movie, go to a park, talk about likes/dislikes, etc. etc. After doing that repeatedly you get bored. My husband is also a pisces, and he doesn't talk much either. What kept me in the relationship was learning different things about him as time went on instead of just asking and finding out things. So instead of asking him his favorite meal, I would pay attention to what he always ordered when we went out. I found that to be funner. It kept me guessing.

But we're weird lol. So what worked for us, may not for someone else. If you like her, keep pursuing her.

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@piscespoppy
11 Years500+ Posts

I agree, also you obviously like chatting away to her, so you've probably covered everything she needed to know anyway, try to romance her now, hope it all works out hun x

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Y'all were right damn guys. You're good lmao. She just wanted the D.

I mean that sounds a little too brief. She's more than that. But I mean in a nutshell. She seems more about bonding and communicating on almost a telepathic level. I take it back Leo's are the best lovers lol. It's Pisces.