cancer male very verbal with me, pisces broken!

I am a 26th feb pisces, with cap rising and moon in virgo. I appear to be more grounded and a workaholic at times, I have been known to work way too long hours, oh dear!! On another note I met a cancer male, leo rising, moon in pisces at christmas last year. Things were going well until....he was verbal! I am quite sensitive and passive in many ways when it comes to being verbal back and I dont like confrontation, however he use to always want to win an arguement with me and make me feel bad afterwards. I would then cry.

He would then be kicked out my flat, and he would apologise and be in tears saying he was sorry and on it goes. 8 months later this type of behaviour continues and I am upset everytime this happens, because of his comments, his ego, me feeling deflated.

Last week, I threw him out for good, he suffers from diverticultis and he needs an operation soon to clear this, he has had many flare ups and at 37 for him its stress related as he is a doctor.

Sorry for the long winded email, but today, I feel quite low, its like there was this amazing emotional connection but horrendous verbal side. I am not sure if its Leo rising combined pisces moon that was so awful to me? any help?

I feel I did the right thing but at the same time, we are both seeking to be with someone else and to move on.

I always find with cancer and pisces its so sad, emotional and quite distressing, like our relationship was always so intense, loving yes but lots of jealousy, he always thought I would leave him, or see someone else, or was flirting so he was start firing almost everyday 500 questions at me to the point where I was emotionally drained.

He suffered from depression too and at times I can see why because of his moods and how he wasnt able to handle things correctly, which was distressing at times to see.

Anyone else been with a cancer like this, leo rising, pisces moon (heavy and intense and very moody?) should be a good match but unfortunately I felt like he didnt respect me in the end....

v sad, but hopeful to be happy again
xx

He also asked for forgiveness too which I said yes to but said I dont regret throwing him out he deserved that!

Hi yes we are in Britain, my goodness you remember my cancer back in 2006, no i was single a long while after him, this is another one. This one still lived at home, with his parents, rented when he was studying but unfortunately didnt even rent on his own which made it hard for me to stay at his or his parents, little awkward. So no establishment of his own....37 years old.

he didnt move in with me as such we just spent more time together at mine then gradually he started to settle in more which was good I may add until a few months back...

He has had this illness for a few years now, and in October he has been told if it still persists as it was horrendous the 4th month we were together that he would need an operation. His condition was horrendous back in 2011, then it settled so it looks like whenever he gets stressed it gets worse too, but we were going through a good patch when it started back a few months. He also is prone to being run down, his job is v stressful as you can imagine.

So i felt he couldnt stand on his own two feet and every weekend he needed to rest, so it was quite intense in the end and not making me feel happy..but sad to say I did love him....

thank you for responding

The best thing to do is move on, if you haven't done it already. I don't think that being verbal to you has anything to do with the fact that he is a cancer, or a leo, or a taurus (random examples) or anything. This man obviously has some serious issues, regardless his sign!

Issues... you can not handle!

From what you described I sense that he is emotionally unstable and "abusive" towards you in his on way!!

And I strongly recommend that you do not engage yourself in confrontations which might bring the worst out of you (sadness, confusion, maybe aggressiveness...)!!
So... as I see it, you have a choice to stay away from people like that! No one is forcing you to be with them. Choose wisely!


You also said you are sensitive. If you truly are then there is no reason for you to be passive!

In my (humble) opinion sensitivity in a pisces is his/her strength. Not a weakness. By being sensitive, people open up to you and you are able to "see" things, to others, no one else can. And by seeing things you can make the right decisions (whether that person deserves your time or not)!!
Therefore you cannot be passive once you have a decision!

Hope I made sense!! 🙂

Aww thank you guys, really lovely words from both of you. Virgo moon lol yes you hit the nail on the head, we wont tolerate anything like that but I think its more related to the fact that it was making me feel down, drained and also very unhappy so warning signs were there from a few months before and felt if he doesnt change I have to get him out.

He has many issues, more emotional related and its been going on for some time now. However whenever I see people like this, I do tend to steer clear and know whats next, yes its a good thing but can be annoying too.

You both made perfect sense thank you 🙂

Most likely this is all bullshit ..... there's all kinds of "horrendous" exaggerations in here, so who knows what's actually the truth

P-Angel, such a kind soul you are I see, looking at your other posts I can see what you are like with all your responses.....keep up the positive work!!!