capricorn girl pisces man

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hi, i am portuguese so, if my writting isn?t as good as yours, i am so sorry... but i need some advice! i dated a pisces man for one year. we were going to move in together, talked about having kids and made a lot of plans together. suddenly, one month before we bought the house (i was buying it alone he was just moving in with me) he started saying he didn?t know if he loved me enough, and wondered if after 15 years we would still be together, if i was the women of his life because we were together everiday but not making fun stuff, just watching television and playing games (cards...). so he just said that meaby this was a big step for him, meaby we were moving too fast, bla bla bla bla... and then he talked to me about his ex-pisces girlfriend who he dated for five years. she called him 2 month ago and he started having doubts... although he didin?t make up his mind he would still call me everiday and wanted to meet. and i was so cared that he would leave that i pushed him into making a decision... he said he misses me, that he was thinking about me all day long, but he didn?t make up his mind about us yet. two days later, as he realised i was a bit indiferent to him and i said, well, this isn?t dating, this isn?t a relationship, i don?t want someone with doubts with me... he got scared and left a marvelous message in my telephone saying he is so sorry for what he did, that he hoped i could forgive him, that he had no doubt, and no doubt at all about me being the wopman of his life. he said he wanted to have kids withe me live with me and that he must have been drunk or bumped his head to have done what he did. i was happy but didn?t run to his arms like crazy... i met him that night and i asked one million questions about why he did what he did, if the ghost of the girlfriend was still there, bla bla bla... he said it was just a ghost that girld and that he could only see some future with me and that without me he would go insane.i think i just scared him away with all my questions because theree days later he stoped calling and then i called him and he broke up saying that it wasn?t wort to deny his heart, that he just told me all those wonderfull things because i wanted to hear them, and that he hoped i would find someone who really loves me and that now he just wanted to be with his friends and in his boat (he likes sailling). he also said i was too possessive and that he needed more space/freedom.
I am 29 and he is 27... now i have a broken heart and i don?t know what should i do!!!! is he just affraid?? he always said he loved me, and with that gril, he could never say that word because she wouldn?t let him... does he need my support and sould i be more "light" and romantic, or should i just walk away— as a capricorn, i realy opened up to this guy and i know he is my one true lifetime love.
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I don't have any advice but here is some information on the two of you that might help you to understand Him and yourself better. Good Luck.


1978 Pisces

A 1978 pisces combines generosity and whimy in a delightful way. This reassuring quality may have drawn many romantic prospect your way. It's quite possible that certain friends have habored crushes on you for years. Your dreamy outlook on life may have prevented your from noticing their admiring glances. Consquently, you do best with a mate who takes a direct approach toward everything in life, including relationship matters. Your ideal relationship is one that infuses your life with energy and optimism. You want a partner who celebrates your creative urges. If there's anything you can't stand , it's a pessimist. Settling down with an adventurous mate will allow you to take advantage of life's many opportunities. An assertive lover who is eager to sweep you into a tide of romance is sure to win your heart. You're thrilled by dashing gestures of chivalry. Challenges to rivals, gallant sacrifices, and passionate public tributes make your pulse pound with pleasure. A male fish born in 1978 is drawn to two distinct types of women. The first is a tender, romantic sort who believes that love is a transcendental experience. The second is a bold daring kind of women who likes to fight injustices. Unltimately they are looking for a partner who is pattionatley invested in life.

A 1976 Capricorn

As a 1976 Capricorn you have the ability to get along with anyone and everyone. You are truly interested in what makes other people tick and especially facinated by people from other cultures. Because you are so sociable and such a good listener you are very much in demand as a date and a lover - and you know it! In love you want it all - passion, intellectual stimulation, and long-term commitment. You need a partner who is comfortable in any setting because you tend to befriend influential people from varied backgrounds. You believe that a relationship is meant to increase people's status in the world. You also believe that partners should be nurturing, yet firm with each other - you want to be told if you are ruining your life or making a big mistake. Honesty is something you put at the top of your list in a relationship. A clever way for a would-be date to win your affection would be to make an observant remark, then another, then another. If you are a female capricorn born in 1976, you are most compatible with a man who is an avid reader and fabulous talker. You love a guy who is well-versed in a myriad of relevant as well as obscure topics. If he has a professional air about him and can be charming on the dance floor and at cocktail parties he will surely steal your heart.

I found this in a book called "Love signs and you"
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hello caridad!
thanks a lot for your interest and for having the effort to look for something about me and the pisces boy.

From what i read, i think my mistake was to be so practical about life and planning ower future and taking care of him that i forgot about the romance part, and obviously he can find that adventurous and romantic partner in that pisces girl... Well, we learn from ower mistakes. romance has to be on the top of the list... Always, in any relationship... I know he is still confused because with mehe has security and he nows trully love him. with her, he has adventure and 4 years in the past together. He says he doesn?t like, that he likes her, but meaby its just a phantom of the past that he needs to resolve. i don?t believe that after one year together all that we had were lies... he is still having doubts, which means meaby there is still a chance... well, thanks a lot once more 🙂