@sharon183
8 Years
It seems to me she was giving you a chance when she asked you back. You didn’t really take it. She will keep moving on.
If you really love her make you mind up and go for it and keep showing her that you really do.
yeah I am trying to do that but don't know when it is too much or not....Also she doesn't 'believe me' that I am still so much in love with her since I did not take on her proposal directly when she asked me. She thinks I am doing this now because I am losing her which is not the case.
I am showing her but she is just mad at me when we speak about us. Does that mean she still cares and I still have a chance?
She's your Plan A but you're her Plan B. Who you are to each other don't match anymore. Either you downgrade her to a Plan B and/or work out another Plan A.
I am hoping giving her some space over the next couple of days will change things. It was a misunderstanding and she thought I did not want to commit to her. I ran out of any other idea to try, I been honest.
However I do not think I am her plan B and even if I was I do not work that way that I should put her as plan b. Will be a regret for me if we end up on losing each other like this after we found each other but I think I almost tried anything I can try.
how Long should I hope that things will change? 😢
How about propose to her. Put a ring on her and keep drugging engagement into retirement!
Nobody said you HAVE to marry her!
And hurry up before she found out that dude is better in bed!
Yes but how can I show her anything? All I can do is say it in words right now and continue tell her that I want to be with her and I want the same thing she wants. But is that enough?
Anything you can suggest for a person with this sign?
Nobody likes putting on hold, especially us- Pisces. Was the "space" time defined? Say a week or 2?
No specific time and the reason is that she is going through some bad times in the family and I don’t want to put any pressure also we are currently in a different country cause of her family 😢
I asked her to visit but she told me it’s not a good time...so won’t go do a surprise either
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Long story short, we had been together for 4/5years and then she broke up with me this March.
After she started dating someone else after 2months she wanted me back.
She was going through a rough patch sick and I stayed by her side helping her. But I never told her literally yes to get back to her. What I told her was that i am still in love with her and that I still dream of doing a life with her but needed to get over what was hurting me after our breakup.
This was 2/3cweeks ago. I asked her for space to get over my problems as I really wanted to be with her again. She was telling that it was killing her the in-between of having me and not and truly it was the same for me. I didn’t go out with anyone else since we got back in contact...
What happened though that she met someone and decided to start dating this person. I am confused as I thought that we are working on getting back together and that we are in love and that we will wait for each other to make things right.
Her response is only that I am taking things too slow and also since it was 4 years previously before together she expected that I act on things quickly.
I begged her to reconsider as I truly do love her and she just says that I only want her when she leaves..i may have done mistakes in the past but this time I was happy as hell that we can get a go at our love story 😢
She wants to be in contact but for me if she is decided on pursuing her new person I can’t be in contact wit her. At the same time it breaks me to not have her in my life as getting back in contact was what made me the happiest person ever in the last 3 months.
What do I do? Please help