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Crush has Sun:Pisces Moon:Gemini Venus in Aries
Run-!!
Posted by EmotionalAriesI'll do a slow jog THANK YOU lol
Run-!!
But seriously writing this, I think it's pretty obvious I need to back off I guess
Posted by DreamyboyThanks for the honesty, I really appreciate it instead of sitting here wondering. I'll leave him alone and work on moving on. It really does make sense but too bad I didn't lose interest as well lol
I have Pisces sun Gemini Moon and Aries Venus. He's losing interest I think tbh. Sorry to say. If he's not actively chasing you hard, there's a reason. It's either you (not saying anything is wrong with you at all, but his typewise) or there's another woman in the picture. Aries Venus, or me in particular, will give the woman I'm interested in alot of attention and would def ask out on dates.
Posted by tizianiYea we mostly do just communicate because he loves an hour 1/2 away. He used to live here and we met at work so I knew the chemistry was there. I guess for him now it's gone...
Depends what you both do besides talking. If conversation is all you have, it gets old. But I'm assuming there is more to it than that between you both.
He may be getting u to chase him but my Venus in Aries makes me chase the guy
Posted by EmotionalAries
Run-!!
No
seriously first thing came to mind!!
my mom has these placements....worst Pisces combo ever..
i met another several months ago.....which confirms this.
The most fickle
The shadiest
The most selfish.
Don't do it!!!
The shadiest
The most selfish.
Don't do it!!!
Posted by BrittnieI don't know everything about the situation but I would just not push anything... anything that feels forced is usually bc it's not right.
I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
I'm kinda going through something very similar now. I'd say just focus on hobbies and other interests you might have and try to create good times with yourself. I find the fixed/mutable connection is always difficult to get off the ground although Aquarius/Pisces usually works.
Maybe he will come around, but don't hold your breath.
Posted by Happy_AquaI think it was a good sign too! No, we don't see each other a lot because he lives a hour and 1/2 away now. He used to live here where I do but he moved and we met each other at work. He is working a lot, I know that but he only seems to message me at work LOL and sometimes before. He didn't make an effort to see me before when he didn't know my feelings but now that'd I've said how I feel I could see him initiating more but the conversations are still short. I may leave him be for a while. We are going to see each other soon and maybe that'll help IF he still somewhat into it by then and there's not another girl involved. BUT I honestly can't see him putting in the effort with anyone else either lmaoPosted by BrittnieSo you have been seeing each other for about 9 months now? And in that time have you been seeing each other a lot, or not?
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
I think the fact that you told him how you felt about him and him initiating conversations more, is a good sign. Have you asked him why your conversations are cut short? Is he bored, do you two know everything about each other and is there nothing to talk about?
Could be he's trying less hard because he knows he "has"you, but...it's hard to give you advice with so little background information.click to expand
So much has changed since this post LOL I had a long time crush of 15 years come back into my life (also Pisces) and instead of talking here and there, he's been talking to me a lot and I thought whoa, where did this come from?? Fast forward to two straight weeks of talking and he texts me everyday!!!! I think I know exactly how Pisces number 1 felt lol I like the guy but I feel like instead of easing his way in, he jumped in! I don't hate the constant texting but I'm also like why text so much when you have nothing to say?? Also there is another man involved so dreamguy was right. It's not that I'm not interested or interested but somewhere in the middle I guess? I'm more confused but it also makes more sense lol
Venus in Aries guy I know loves to chase .. he sounds disinterested , ugh
Posted by BrittnieI have the same placements ..but if i initiate then it's i'm really interrested..I don't type too much because i don't which subject to talk about sometimes..what do you mean by cut short?..he dosen't talk anymore?
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
Posted by LoveSeekerYea his sentences are shorter and he just leaves the conversation. I have another Pisces friend who sends me really short messages as well. I am not boring by any means, I can talk about all kinds of stuff! But I realize it's hard for him with him working so much. Last time I talked to him he wasn't working and he was super short like one message. I think he may like someone else as well maybe? Or I just got into the habit of texting him a bunch and he got bored which I can understand my messages got shorter cuz I was kinda irritatedPosted by BrittnieI have the same placements ..but if i initiate then it's i'm really interrested..I don't type too much because i don't which subject to talk about sometimes..what do you mean by cut short?..he dosen't talk anymore?
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
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PAAARRRRRRTTTYYYYYY. LOL
Posted by BrittniePosted by LoveSeekerYea his sentences are shorter and he just leaves the conversation. I have another Pisces friend who sends me really short messages as well. I am not boring by any means, I can talk about all kinds of stuff! But I realize it's hard for him with him working so much. Last time I talked to him he wasn't working and he was super short like one message. I think he may like someone else as well maybe? Or I just got into the habit of texting him a bunch and he got bored which I can understand my messages got shorter cuz I was kinda irritatedPosted by BrittnieI have the same placements ..but if i initiate then it's i'm really interrested..I don't type too much because i don't which subject to talk about sometimes..what do you mean by cut short?..he dosen't talk anymore?
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
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They initiate that's really good lol i also don't do long texts either.. ...i just can't do long texts i prefer meeting the person but dosen't mean that you are borring but sometimes we enjoy listening more than talking .
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Posted by LoveSeekerI do, I have mostly water in my chart. Venus is in Pisces. 2nd is fire. My friends are all water, fire and air.Posted by Brittnie
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You attract a lot of piscesclick to expand
Posted by BrittnieI'm not a Pisces Sun, but I DO have a Gemini Moon and Aries Venus.
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
Aries is about "action"...or the interest will dwindle. October 2016 to the present is a long time. Your post asserted "conversations"...I didn't read anything about 'doing anything adventurous,' 'having fun' or 'going out.' If the two of you were just chatting for 8 months, good luck with that. Aries are proned to get bored quick, and the luster....gone! Aries play to win, but it's not fun when you're playing alone.
Gemini Moon is about "intrigue" and '"intelligent" conversations....but remember, it's a Moon placement, not a Sun Placement. It's unpredictable and prejudicial. He will not navigate through his emotions or try to 'feel' them, instead he will rationlize them and begin to sum up all your flaws. Flaws he didn't see in the beginning. The worst thing to give a Gemini Moon is too much space. This works for the Gem Suns, not the Moons. Once the emotions begin fleeting, and you're not consistent or determined with who you are and what you want, POOF! the emotions are gone, and the Gem Moon will never get it back.
I hate to say this....but you took too long.
Posted by BrittniePosted by LoveSeekerI do, I have mostly water in my chart. Venus is in Pisces. 2nd is fire. My friends are all water, fire and air.Posted by Brittnie
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You attract a lot of piscesclick to expand
Yeah it's hard to be talkative when you are a shy person lol ..they are all pisces?
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by BrittnieI'm not a Pisces Sun, but I DO have a Gemini Moon and Aries Venus.
So we started talking a while back (Last October) and our conversations were great! I'm gonna keep this REAL short cuz I don't think you need to know all the other shit, I don't know why but our amazing conversations are cut short by him now, I finally told him how I felt and he actually started to initiate conversations more but still giving me like one sentence answers. As an Aquarius, I know all about needing space but the question is do I give it to him now or do I push harder? I'm honestly kinda tired of all the effort I put in but I'm still into him even THOOOO he ain't putting as much in as he was... Did I wait to long to tell him how I feel or what?
Thanks
Confused
Aries is about "action"...or the interest will dwindle. October 2016 to the present is a long time. Your post asserted "conversations"...I didn't read anything about 'doing anything adventurous,' 'having fun' or 'going out.' If the two of you were just chatting for 8 months, good luck with that. Aries are proned to get bored quick, and the luster....gone! Aries play to win, but it's not fun when you're playing alone.
Gemini Moon is about "intrigue" and '"intelligent" conversations....but remember, it's a Moon placement, not a Sun Placement. It's unpredictable and prejudicial. He will not navigate through his emotions or try to 'feel' them, instead he will rationlize them and begin to sum up all your flaws. Flaws he didn't see in the beginning. The worst thing to give a Gemini Moon is too much space. This works for the Gem Suns, not the Moons. Once the emotions begin fleeting, and you're not consistent or determined with who you are and what you want, POOF! the emotions are gone, and the Gem Moon will never get it back.
I hate to say this....but you took too long.
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Well that does make a lot of sense. I tried really hard to do those things but maybe he didn't know my intentions so he didn't make the effort. I dunno
Posted by LoveSeekerMy friends? They are Libra, Aries, 2 scorpios and 2 Pisces and several Leo'sPosted by BrittniePosted by LoveSeekerI do, I have mostly water in my chart. Venus is in Pisces. 2nd is fire. My friends are all water, fire and air.Posted by Brittnie
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You attract a lot of pisces
Yeah it's hard to be talkative when you are a shy person lol ..they are all pisces?
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How did you try hard to do those things....
With a venus in Aries... this is how it works....
"I was thinking we should do something fun and interesting. "
"Here's what we're going to do, you're getting dressed, and we're about to have some fun... and I'm coming to get you in an hour."
With a venus in Aries... this is how it works....
"I was thinking we should do something fun and interesting. "
"Here's what we're going to do, you're getting dressed, and we're about to have some fun... and I'm coming to get you in an hour."
It's not talking about 'doing something'....
It's actually 'doing something.'
It's actually 'doing something.'
Posted by TaurusBull1977Gotcha
It's not talking about 'doing something'....
It's actually 'doing something.'
He liked my Instagram pic from a week ago last night.. does that mean he was creepy on my page? He follows lots of people surely it didn't pop up on his
Posted by BrittnieHe knew it would get your attention. You should call him.
He liked my Instagram pic from a week ago last night.. does that mean he was creepy on my page? He follows lots of people surely it didn't pop up on his
Posted by TaurusBull1977
How did you try hard to do those things....
With a venus in Aries... this is how it works....
"I was thinking we should do something fun and interesting. "
"Here's what we're going to do, you're getting dressed, and we're about to have some fun... and I'm coming to get you in an hour."
Ok what if my earthy venus just wanna chill and cuddle and not always have to put up with something exciting and new? Are aries venus ever into that? They don't sound like they are and that's like really exhausting and unrealistic. You guys aren't good for long term commitments like marriage huh
Ok what if my earthy venus just wanna chill and cuddle and not always have to put up with something exciting and new? Are aries venus ever into that? They don't sound like they are and that's like really exhausting and unrealistic. You guys aren't good for long term commitments like marriage huh
The Pisces I am involved with has an aries venus and she loves to chill at home and do nothing over going out all the time but she also does love going out. It's a mix of both. I find she has a good balance.
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