Enchanted by pisces man

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Okay so this is crazy…

But I have this unbelievable push and pull with this pisces guy ✨

Background:

I’ve been dating that sag guy briefly this summer, but I explained to him that I can’t commit right now. Tbh, it was the fact that he has 4 kids…I just can’t :/

Otherwise, he didn’t seem like bad guy at all!

So I’ve met an aries guy who is also great, but too young and too immature for me. Through him, I’ve met his good friend pisces guy and we kinda immediately hit it off. Although it seemed like hate at first sight 😅

We started hanging out, here and there. There is this push and pull between us that no words can explain. He has Venus and Mars in Aries.

We talk a lot. But we are not exclusive by any means. He seems to want to build emotional connection between us first. He always tells me to relax and be myself around him.

But the fact that both Aries and Sag know him (we kinda all know each other - smaller city), well it makes everything a bit awkward and secretive.

What’s the best way to pisces guy’s heart?

I kinda don’t wanna fall for him. I sense danger, but also magic 💕🙈

Maybe we should just be friends…for now.
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Yeah.. i also sensed danger and magic. I stupidly dived to the deepest depth.. to me, personally, they are scary. Perhaps it because they turn to be a shark or even worse kraken to my view.. ooppss, sorry! You be careful over there, okay.

I don't know what kind of fish or other sea creature you find over there.

As in for me, I'm just trying to be an "eagle". Don't ask, I just am hungry.




He makes me very nervous. I am very surprised by this seemingly gentle and sweet pisces man…
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I should preface this post by saying that, from what I've gathered throughout my life, Gem femme, have the easiest time, esnarring Pisces men. Particularly those with Venus in Aries. There is this childlike quality to Gems that appeals to Venus in Aries. Not childish, though... never childish! Youthful and explorative more like it. Venus in Aries tends to be very enthusiastic in love. Highly passionate which I can only guess will be emulsified by his Mars in Aries.

It is said Venus in Aries falls out of love just as fast as it falls into it, and it can be true if one gave it a reason to. Otherwise, it's a surprisingly loyal energy.

I'm not sure how applicable the following will be, but me personally, I love love love verbal sparing! My Venus makes fairly tight aspects to both, my mercury and my Mars, so the said friendly sparing is like an aphrodisiac! And i think gems make a perfect partner in crime for that. And please, whatever you do, do not be surface level. We abhor surface level!

Also, don't be afraid do dive deep into the cravaces of your heart as well as of your psyche... all in due time though. Fair warning, bless your heart Gems, but sometimes you do tend to ramble on, so if he tells you to STFU (lol),whatever you do, plz do NOT take it personally! Pisces mind needs a little a bit of quite too, but mostly, we need to know that you can be just as content existing around us in silence as you are when surrounded by infinate external stimuli.

Now, as far as that pesky Pluto opposite venus aspect goes, *sighs* as always, it depends on several factors as to how it will play out. Personally, I have that aspect in my natal & lemme tell you, it can be intense in that it pierces straight through fluff & bs. No surface level ppl need not apply here! But mostly, him saying for you to be yourself resonates with me for the reason above. When you do, show up your most authentic self! In the wold full of fakeness, your genuine self will outshine the rest. That said, you also don't want to dump all your dirty laundry on him right off of the bat either lol 😆, but I think that goes without saying.

But most notable, Pluto Venus position is marked by power struggles & if even on of the partners lacks emotional intelligence &/or maturity, it can turn very toxic very fast! Self-awareness is a key here. Check in on yourself as well as your "relationship" every now and then!

I hope my stream of thoughts makes some sense. Brain not braining today thanks to lack of sleep 😴 Do keep us posted! I'm curiously invested in your story now 😅

Edit to say, re keeping the whatevership secretive, I'm curious to know in which house his Venus is coz mine is in the 12th & I tend to keep my relationship(s) close to my chest away from prying eyes. There's people in this world who would like nothing more than to see the world burn even if that meant they'd go down with it, so unless you are my dearest & nearest, I am more than happy to keep that what's sacred a "secret". That said, your guys reasoning & circumstances could very well be different in which case disregard what may not apply.
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From my perspective they seem to prefer women who are triple threats: looks, intelligence, confidence. Most importantly, stable and slow to react. They can be moody and want to trust that their partner can hold the fort down and not sweat the small stuff. Someone with options but loyalty regardless (although they dont seem too concerned with faithfulness once they've decided they need someone.) Basically they'd like a rock and a therapist. Straight-edge woman. You seem to fit this (:
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As a Scorpio man myself, I can’t speak for Pisces but I will say always adding an element of mystery always kept my attention. I’m not sure I distance myself from anyone I’m close to but I’m not sure about the Pisces man. Just be careful what you reveal to him. Do it in a sensitive way. I’m sure being a water sign he would respect that you consider his feelings when you converse. That above all garners respect and may help him open up with his true feelings. Just my two cents.
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Update to the story:

We have now “broken up”

Whatever it was, it didn’t work out. Blocked everywhere and obviously didn’t remain even friends 🤷🏼‍♂️

But now I’m back to hanging out with the Aries guy again. He says pisces felt offended by me, lol.

Hh ... Yeah, they're hard.

It's okay, I guess.. are you okay with that, though?

Do you still want to lure him in?

I'm a sag rising, scorpio sun, and cancer moon and even if I had long-standing rs with a pisces man, I still can't quite "get" him.

Come to think of it, the only way to get pisces is through "eating" them but if you wanna be human, you gotta "cook" them first, I guess.. like roasted, grilled, or plain sushi.. sigh.

They seem to enjoy "being eaten" anyways.

Especially as being in an "Eagle mode" rn. Can't wait to get them back.

But! The thing is.. the "fish" I am trying to get now is a large mackerel.. frikkin' same size as my spirit animal "Eagle" so how am I supposed to eat "him" now?

Fishy, isn't it? Salty as well..

Let's not forget "there are plenty of fish" in the sea..
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Part of me still wants to lure him in, the other part is exhausted by dealing with him 🫩

We’ve had constant highs and lows. Constant battles of the ego and will. He is sooooo passive-aggressive.

I miss his sweet and romantic side, but not his passive and mean side (yes, it exists too).

He blocked me everywhere :/

The only way through is his Aries friend, but Aries said I psychologically destroyed the Pisces. Not sure if he’s only kidding or what, but… 🤷🏼‍♂️

It’s kinda complicated.
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Posted by ThatWomanAgain11
Posted by borednbeautiful
Update to the story:

We have now “broken up”

Whatever it was, it didn’t work out. Blocked everywhere and obviously didn’t remain even friends 🤷🏼‍♂️

But now I’m back to hanging out with the Aries guy again. He says pisces felt offended by me, lol.

Hh ... Yeah, they're hard.

It's okay, I guess.. are you okay with that, though?

Do you still want to lure him in?

I'm a sag rising, scorpio sun, and cancer moon and even if I had long-standing rs with a pisces man, I still can't quite "get" him.

Come to think of it, the only way to get pisces is through "eating" them but if you wanna be human, you gotta "cook" them first, I guess.. like roasted, grilled, or plain sushi.. sigh.

They seem to enjoy "being eaten" anyways.

Especially as being in an "Eagle mode" rn. Can't wait to get them back.

But! The thing is.. the "fish" I am trying to get now is a large mackerel.. frikkin' same size as my spirit animal "Eagle" so how am I supposed to eat "him" now?

Fishy, isn't it? Salty as well..

Let's not forget "there are plenty of fish" in the sea..
click to expand



Part of me still wants to lure him in, the other part is exhausted by dealing with him 🫩

We’ve had constant highs and lows. Constant battles of the ego and will. He is sooooo passive-aggressive.

I miss his sweet and romantic side, but not his passive and mean side (yes, it exists too).

He blocked me everywhere :/

The only way through is his Aries friend, but Aries said I psychologically destroyed the Pisces. Not sure if he’s only kidding or what, but… 🤷🏼‍♂️

It’s kinda complicated.
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Posted by ThatWomanAgain11
Posted by borednbeautiful
Update to the story:

We have now “broken up”

Whatever it was, it didn’t work out. Blocked everywhere and obviously didn’t remain even friends 🤷🏼‍♂️

But now I’m back to hanging out with the Aries guy again. He says pisces felt offended by me, lol.


Hh ... Yeah, they're hard.

It's okay, I guess.. are you okay with that, though?

Do you still want to lure him in?

I'm a sag rising, scorpio sun, and cancer moon and even if I had long-standing rs with a pisces man, I still can't quite "get" him.

Come to think of it, the only way to get pisces is through "eating" them but if you wanna be human, you gotta "cook" them first, I guess.. like roasted, grilled, or plain sushi.. sigh.

They seem to enjoy "being eaten" anyways.

Especially as being in an "Eagle mode" rn. Can't wait to get them back.

But! The thing is.. the "fish" I am trying to get now is a large mackerel.. frikkin' same size as my spirit animal "Eagle" so how am I supposed to eat "him" now?

Fishy, isn't it? Salty as well..

Let's not forget "there are plenty of fish" in the sea..
click to expand

Part of me still wants to lure him in, the other part is exhausted by dealing with him 🫩

We’ve had constant highs and lows. Constant battles of the ego and will. He is sooooo passive-aggressive.

I miss his sweet and romantic side, but not his passive and mean side (yes, it exists too).

He blocked me everywhere :/

The only way through is his Aries friend, but Aries said I psychologically destroyed the Pisces. Not sure if he’s only kidding or what, but… 🤷🏼‍♂️

It’s kinda complicated.
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You should not really involve other people in your love life, whether for advice or anything else. The best things are built in silence and privacy.