@Mishmorecookie
10 Years
He's cold when I'm hot and then hot when I'm cold
Understanding Emotional Hot and Cold Behavior in Relationships
This behavior may relate to astrological influences like Pisces traits or general attachment styles. It often reflects emotional fluctuations and needs for space. Recognizing the pattern can help you respond thoughtfully and set healthy boundaries, improving communication and connection.
Maybe he didn't like something you did, maybe he is mad/upset and now he is not sure if he wants to discuss it? Pisces are loving and caring. They don't do things just like that, out of the blue and with no reason.
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.
Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
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The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
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I wont take it personally then?
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
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Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
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Ok. What does that really mean? That they do on/off lots, or are just looking for FWB or what?
Don't waste your time on him. Leo-Pisces is not a recommended match in the long run.
For the sensitive Pisces, Leo can turn out to be pretty straight forward/harsh with their words.
Posted by lilgemfish
@MishmorecookieDon't waste your time on him. Leo-Pisces is not a recommended match in the long run.
For the sensitive Pisces, Leo can turn out to be pretty straight forward/harsh with their words.
LILGEMFISH, uh, they are both Pisces.
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
Ok. What does that really mean? That they do on/off lots, or are just looking for FWB or what?
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AMARA,
Again, the "first" "That they do on/off a lot" (sorry, I changed your lots to a lot).
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
Ok. What does that really mean? That they do on/off lots, or are just looking for FWB or what?
AMARA,
Again, the "first" "That they do on/off a lot" (sorry, I changed your lots to a lot).
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God am new to this astro thing. I didnt believe until I came here a couple of weeks ago and saw loads of similar stories.
What is it with the on/off lots? Why would they do that?
Posted by YellowSubmarine
a lot of guys do on/off.. go to any board, you'll hear the same crap in a different pilebottom line, if you've communicated what you want, and nothing is changing.. walk away.
Just what Yellow said :-)
Why do they do this? Sweetie, because they are men and they THINK they are entitled to do that to us. Until we put a STOP to it (like I did w/the Leo; he slapped my ass 10 times; on EACH cheek! read my previous post from yesterday); then they will continue to treat us unkindly (EVEN the opposite sex; your Pisces man). Always remember that just because he's Piscean doesn't mean he's your clone. Feb/Mar Pisceans are VERY different. Also, the dates of the month have allot to do w/their personality, how they were raised, having both parents, divorced parents, raised by grandparents, education, etc.
Think of this as God closing a door; he'll blow one WIDE open for you, I promise! :-x
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
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It is as if you are describing him in his entirety haha. In fact, all Pisces I know I like this, including my female cousin, and my gay best friend. They will disappear for weeks on end for whatever reason and then reappear when they miss you. According to their own convenience.
Posted by EvatheDiva
You're Leo (a fire sign); he's putting out your fire and knows it! Gotta tell ya about male Pisceans. They are hard to get a hold of; like the saying goes, "They slip from your fingers" and he knows it! Pisces men know they got it all (looks, flirtatious tenancies, etc.). If it's good they will come back for more; if not, then they are just adding another notch to their headboard. Pisceans HATE to be ignored; so that's why he communicates with you after he hasn't heard from you.Take it with a grain of salt. If he comes back......
Are they always hard to get a hold of, or just with those who they dont like that much?
The first. "They are always hard to get a hold of."
I wont take it personally then?
Not at the moment. Time will tell. Pisceans "pull back" and then come around whenever they are horny or are thinking about you; same diff 😉
It is as if you are describing him in his entirety haha. In fact, all Pisces I know I like this, including my female cousin, and my gay best friend. They will disappear for weeks on end for whatever reason and then reappear when they miss you. According to their own convenience.
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Why do they do this though?
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When it's going great, he pulls back. And then when I ignore him, get busy with work, he comes back looking for me. Is this a pisces thing or just him? And how on earth am I supposed to handle this?