how to treat your pisces (in case you didnt know)

How to treat your PISCES

February 19 - March 20

for Pisces Sun, Moon or Rising people or...strong Neptune or 12th House


The Pisces gives love constantly. The moment you withhold love from your Pisces, or treat your Pisces even a little bit harshly, you've opened the door to great sadness . Pisceans don't understand cruelty - even if it comes unwittingly from them. And the sensitive nature of Pisces makes him susceptible to great hurt. If you want to keep him around, be aware of your words and actions, and your Pisces' reaction to them. If he slinks off and hides, you know there's some serious heartache going on!

The Pisces needs compassion, water, creative or spiritual surroundings, an atmosphere of peace and calm, and ample opportunities to show off her many talents and ideas. Pisces loves to learn, and needs to be provided with information and ideas to help keep the creative juices flowing.

So be sure to provide your Pisces with imaginative, uplifting and beautiful entertainment. Don't overwhelm her with frightening images such as one might see in a violent movie. Pisces would rather not dwell on such things, and is much healthier when exposed to natural, peaceful or spiritual imagery.

Feed your Pisces with love and kindness, a sincere interest in his many dreams and ideals, respect for her creations, quiet, secluded outings, romantic conversation and your own spiritual idealism.

Wake your sleepy, dreamy night-fish up in the morning, help your Pisces find the way in crowded places, guide him through confusing times and hold her hand while crossing the street. You will be rewarded with a sweet, gentle and unconditional love.

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The WATER signs, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces, are emotional & imaginative, they strive for meaningful connections ..............water is our reactions, the way we flow into each others hearts and merge energy

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Mutable signs are flexible and mobile - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces

http://www.mooncatsastrology.com/astro/kittypisces.htm

So sad, I love horror and my pisces likes comedy. We can never go to the movies together...if we do, I compromise.

Im seeing it with or without him.

I havent missed a Saw movie yet in theaters...my fave 🙂

Its a great concept and most gore films never have plots...its refreshing. Although the sequels need to step their game up.

"We can never go to the movies together...if we do, I compromise."


Hey now ... wtf?

He has a different taste in films.

That's NOT the point .. comprimises should be 50/50

Do you get to pick restaurants, then?

We go anywhere I like.


When it comes to films I have a 'must see' list and 'do not pay for' list. I'll pretty much watch any movie..but pay for is another thing. He usually likes to watch the 'do not pay for' movies. I try to be nice to him since he says im mean...so we watch what he likes.

P-Angel dont try and turn this into something its not.

It's your life, M .. it's up to you to accept whatever your role is.
I just asked if you get to choose restaurants, then.


pp, the movie that scard me was "The Entity", with Barbara Hershey and Ron Silver.

What? Are you serious?

Put up a shield, pp .. now, quick .....

Envision .. envision .. a bubble, a big bubble all around

Pure energy ...


Are you still there?

i love horror movies lol providing they are more towards the psychological thriller realm...i do like the saw movies (i went to see saw 3 with my mother when she was visiting...we liked the second one best)...anyways im not much for creature violence or stupid slashers...lol im mostly for comedy (it helps with the moods lol but i'm usually down for a good horror movie...

OMG, Starfish, you're in Chicago, too ... is it close?

Put up an energy based protective barrier around your house, or work, whereever you are.

compromises should be 50/50 but im so mutable im usually happy to go anywhere...

"psychological thriller realm...i do like the saw movies (i went to see saw 3 with my mother when she was visiting...we liked the second one best)"

psychological thrillers are cool ..

We watched not long ago a movie called, The Messengers, it was better than I thought it would be .. it was about ghosts.

Now that you said the 3rd Saw wasn't better than the second, we probably will wait .. thanks, Jack. If a movie doesn't get a good review, we won't waste our money .. we're frugal as hell and usually only see a movie that somebody raves about.

dont get me wrong, it was fun to watch (esp when they did the brain surgery) lol if you liked the first two, then i would recommend seeing it....just know that the plot wasn't as strong as it was in the second one...but it was a pretty twisted movie...

but out of the three movies, i liked them in this order: saw 2, saw 3 and then saw 1...

saw 3 DOES have the same characters as saw 2 did (the jigsaw killer [tobin bell] and amanda [shawnee smith

Wow, I thought the first was really good, so if you put that in the last position, then maybe we will go see the third. This is so ironic because my husband was asking me just last night if there was anything at the theatre I wanted to see .. thanks !!

shawnee smith - from the saw movies

she is one cancer i would NOT mind keeping 😉

-jack

saw 2 was pretty in your face...and i loved that...keep in mind that the third saw movie is considerably gorier than the first two movies (im serious lol)...if you could handle the first two, then you should be good...just expect some more cringing than normal haha

-jack

She's much prettier as a blonde, than a brunette .. damn, she is hot, isn't she?

The gore part is hard to watch .. I'll probably close my eyes, lol
Actually, you know how it is .. you have to watch eventhough you know it's going to be gross !!!

pp, I'm glad you're ok. You scard the shit out of me 😢

I couldve sworn she's a red head. I liked her in Becker.

she is very hot...and a cancer...what more could i want 😉 lol

you'll never make it through the brain surgery or the twisty thing at the end...better go to the bathroom or get some popcorn haha i cant wait for you to tell me how you liked the movie now =)

-jack

Saw 3 had too much dialog and too predictable.

That was a great description of how to treat your pisces. It's so true. 🙂

I like scary (and unpredictable) movies but not gory movies.
Though, I am a screamer and don't like to watch them alone.

I actually luv scary/horror movies although after watching The Texas Chain Saw Massacre (2003) I was f'd up for months, I'll never watch it again. Nothing chessy though. I hate overdone or underdone scary movies it has to be in the middle. A good Vampire flick is my favorite.

lol i'm glad you all found this information useful/interesting...and yes i do love a gorey movie, providing there is a reason for the gore lol (and no super-wicked, freakish looking retard-like character =)

-jack

kris, i'm glad you mentioned that...because i have invested a great deal of thought into that concept myself...i often tell people that i do not hate [anything] because it goes against my compassionate nature...and i believe that...but i DO understand cruelty (because i am capable of grasping just about every idea if i really try)...i do not, however...understand why anyone would choose to be cruel..solely for the sake of being cruel...

"i think they can be the most cruel of all signs"

I would have to agree with you, kris ..

People are best at what they fight against, and they fight against it because they know it so damn well because it's the main flaw they have within themselves.

For example, the Lion, with all their pride they fight against people who don't know how to TRUST. And since trust is their big thing, they will actually be the ones to "mistrust" other people. The Virgo detest being critisized in any form, and in so doing, they inadvertantly display extreme critism onto other people.

And because Pisces loathe cruelty in all it's forms so severly .. they are actually the ones who are the most cruel by adamately IGNORING all those in opposition of them in all forms for fear of cruelty being inflicted upon them. In essence, if we completely ignore the feelings of others, to nurture our own .. then that is supreme cruelty for physical injuries will heal, where a fractured pyche is a life-long condition of suffering.

And we do just that .. we completely ignore feelings of other people if we sense that there is any hint of cruelty within the other person. And because this is something that is so close to home with us, that 99% of the time, the other person was just being honest and not meaning to inflict pain. We don't even give them a smidgeon of chance .. we're out, regardless of their feelings.

ignoring cruelty is different than being cruel...i think...or maybe i am just misinterpreting what you are saying...? i'm really trying to gain insight...maybe i'm not all 'here' today...it's been a long and draining week...i need to recharge my emotional batteries, i think...or consume a large amount of vodka...geez lol

-jack

vodka?

Ewwww .. I just happen to have a glass of OJ sitting here, a shot in it would fix me proper. 🙂

What I meant by that is ...

A lot of times, people will come in here and say, their Pisces proclaimed their feelings for them and suddenly swam away, which left this other person in tremendous torment, suffering from shattered feelings. Ok, so, this isn't unusual for somebody to do if they believe the relationship isn't working .. the person is going to get hurt.

However, the majority of the time, when we do this .. it's because we percieved an anticipated act of cruelty that the other person was going to do to our feelings, and we bailed. Where in reality, it wasn't intended to be cruel.

Such as, just that other post, the woman was saying that she was trying to be honest and help her Fish to be able to handle his emotions better. So, from the Pisces point of view .. we don't need to be told how to handle our feelings, we know full well and don't want to be told. We swim, no contact, no explaining .. leaving the person in pain because in reality they weren't trying to be mean, yet, that is how we percieved it because we have such an adverse reaction to any kind of cruelty, even the ones that only take place in the notion that it might happen.

So, though this is a protection mechanism on our part, and we feel perfectly justified in abandoning somebody we think is hurting us, or not understanding us .. it is indeed very cruel, because they fell in love and their feelings have been shattered.

When people come in here and talk about their Fish swimming .. in the majority of those cases, the Pisces just left .. no communication .. nothing, just swam and never to be heard of again.

That's mean .... those people loved us, we will totally disregard their hurt feelings if we believe that we would have been injured, even if the injury never took place, we just suspected it would.

Perhaps, it's unfair to say every Pisces, because not every person is the same .. but, in most instances, other people have confirmed that this is common practice of our kind.

And it's cruel to their feelings ...

my god lol we could discuss that issue for the rest of the night and still not figure anything out lol...i am not sure i've even been following that particular thread, so i don't know the circumstances...sounds like a miscommunication, though...

i do not, however, feel that "abandoning" someone is an act of cruelty...it's part of our character, instinctive almost...if someone has the audacity to try and change something that makes up the core of someones being (emotions), then they deserve to be abandoned...

example: a while back, this cancerian girl (whom i totally adore)...told me i should not be so sensitive after i got my feelings hurt by something a friend of hers said to me...i was hurt because of the remark AND by the fact that she chose her friends side over mine...

not be so sensitive...? i asked her if she even KNEW i was a pisces (sun AND moon, by the way)...and asked how was i supposed to change something like that...it's almost like me telling her to not be so moody (yeah, right) lol so the end result was the fish went to the clouds and the crab went into the shell...it was harsh, but it wasn't cruel...

so anyways, ready for that shot...? i sure in the hell am...oh look, i just happen to have some right here...! haha...

-jack

enough with all the talk about emotions already.

whatever...! lol this is good stuff =) lol

-jack

"i do not, however, feel that "abandoning" someone is an act of cruelty...it's part of our character, instinctive almost...if someone has the audacity to try and change something that makes up the core of someones being (emotions), then they deserve to be abandoned..."


I agree .. a person deserves it if it's an act of trying to change something that is inherent in us, and feel perfectly justified in abandoning a person. However, from the other person's perspective, this is registered as being cruel to them.

And, we don't see it as such .. just like the Lion doesn't see that it's not other people who doesn't KNOW how to trust them, it's their fear that the other person MIGHT not know how to trust them and so, Leo is the one who actually mistrusts the other person first, before this pain could happen.

Because it seems so instinctive in us (to abandon before we get hurt), to protect ourselves, I believe this is why we have this mechanism in us to be able to just "turn it off" .. certainly, we still actually feel the residue of emotions that we experienced during the union, and may so for a long time, but, we have the capability to just completely shut down our emotional connection with the other person and no longer "feel" their pain that we caused them. When we do swim away under these circumstances, we are feeling our own injuries, and not theirs. For, from our perspective, they deserved this injury for attempting to harm us in some way, even if it never took place, except in what we percieved was the course the relationship was going.

I don't know about you .. but, I have the capability of just walking away, completely disregarding the other person's feelings, no matter how much they cry or feel personal suffering, if I believe that their intentions are to control me, or change me, or bring harm to me because I view that as a form of cruelty.

"this cancerian girl...told me i should not be so sensitive"

"and asked how was i supposed to change something like that"


I know what you mean .. when someone tells me not to be sensitive to something that has effected me, I shut down the emotional connection I have with that person almost immediately .. and swim, with no thoughts or feelings whatsoever of how I used to feel so in love just the minute before the words were said.

Simply won't change how I feel, if that's how I feel. That doesn't mean I can't see something from another perspective of my own accord because it was a choice to look the situation from another angle, but, I won't do it if someone tells me that I'm being too sensitive, or tells me how I'm supposed to feel .. I'm a Pisces, I know full well how I'm supposed to feel, for my feelings are mine and nobody elses.

Just automatic severing of the cord .. then, I no longer even care what they think, so, there's no effect on me as whether they think I'm being too sensitive, or not.

In reality, we're pretty centered and protective of owning our own feelings, aren't we? We just refuse to allow another person dictate to us how we are suppose to handle our emotions.

question about the slinking off... What do you do when they do run off? Haven't hurt my Pisces....well maybe i did but only b/c i was made to move to another base. We tried the long distance thing and it worked for about a month then she just ended it and stopped answering my calls or texts. I've decided that once i get out of the military i am moving back to be with her...even if she has moved on by then i have to try.

manaimcgoo .. for the Pisces to feel safe in love .. she has a need to be inside of you so she can talk to your soul, and she's not feeling this with you so far away. I'm sure it has nothing to do with anything except for just the distance thing .. Pisces struggle in long-distance relationships because we HAVE to feel our partners, we need constant love vibes and this isn't possible being so far away.

Keep texting her and reassuring her with "words" that you love the way she makes you "feel" .. because we feel everything, describe to her on the phone or text this feeling she gives you so she can envision, which is necessary .. Pisces have to put images to feelings.

In other words .. give her something to grasp of how she makes you feel inside by drawing a picture with words .. she'll likely wait for you then because she'll know that your hearts talk to each other.

That is IF she makes you feel that way .. if not, then let her swim.

Moro19200,
I don't think so. Once you've scared a Piscean off, things will never be the same. Once I get mis-treated or nipped, then little by little I'll simply slip away quietly without saying a word. Sure, I'll let you know that everything is okay, but there will be a difference in how I am with you. I'd just simply be a little bit distant from you out of fear that you'll mis-treat me again. With a Pisces, you always have to be careful in what you do and in what you say.

🙂

😛

You deserve so much better, Garfield. Are you going to college next year? Maybe you'll meet the man of your dreams, who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. It seems that most people find the love of their life at Uni ........ he might even be a she, lol, you never know 😉