Pisces love

When you fall for someone, or even feel a strong bond with them... do you forget easily?

Depends .. if we swim away because we believe you don't care about us .. we may not even remember your name, much less what you looked like. If we swam away for any other reason, besides you not "caring" for us, or, "taking care of" us .. we'll remember you until we die.

I will speak for myself.

Yes. Puh! And never existed.

Two fish swimming in opposite directions has many meanings .. one of them is:

We care about you .. if you care about us
We care not about you .. if you don't care about us


In most instances, the Pisces love comes through "care" for us, with us, about us .. if this "care" isn't present, neither are we. This is relevant in most relationships, to include .. intimate, family, professional, friendships.

A one-time "bond" has very little meaning to us .. if at present time, you don't show us that you care about us.

Of course .. I'm talking from my own views .. everybody is different.

I'm not surprised about that anotherscorp, for to Scorpio's (the ones i know) .. people are forever indebted to them, no matter in which direction, or what kind of effect the changes in life brings to people .. not meaning that in a bad way, just saying that to Scorpio, their service to another MUST never be forgotten AND always be re-paid loyally, with no questions asked. So, for a Pisces to actually change with life and stop desiring to give to the Scorpio .. would seem superficial .. guess that's why these two water people don't really make good combos .. way too different.

Starfish .. I'm in absolute agreement. Once the time has come that appreciation, understanding is gone .. then to continue from that point forward is just taking the other person for granted that they'll still be around. We shut down as you say .. I know, I'm living this right now with my Virgo .. I'm slowly withdrawing all care and concern for him .. eventually, he'll leave.

Oh, sorry 🙂

But, isn't that what love is about? How can a real love be without being loved or respected?

In all honesty .. how long would you stay in a relationship if you weren't being loved, respected?

Love is selfish .. if it wasn't, then we would just be a slave to the other and just give, give, give of ourselves and feel nothing is deserved back.

"Love ME or I'm gone; respect ME or I'll swim away. Don't take ME for granted."


Does this mean, then, that this is a Pisces affliction?
Scorpio's will actually STAY if they aren't loved back?

Love IS selfish .. I can't see any other way.

In fact, every emotion is selfish, isn't it? Because it is felt by "you" .. if a person feels something inside .. it belongs only to them.

Anotherscorp,

The topic was about wether Pisces can "forget" not "forfeit".

Here we go...

OK..But I didn't wrote this because it was meant for me 😉

I called this Scorp fool 20 times and she ran away 😢

Does calling someone fool 20 times mean taking for granted?

"Once the love is there--and it takes quite awhile to get to love--then for the most part it is set in stone and I am loving that person (friend or lover)for the long haul."

And we just don't work that way .. nothing is set in stone, especially our feelings.

"I fully expect to be taken for granted for part of the ride and, I'll probably take my friend/partner for granted for part of the time. Sometimes there will be a lack of respect or being complacent, but then--like everything in life--the respect comes back."

Perhaps, this is the reason why .. for us, the respect doesn't come back. Since it does for Scorpio's, perhaps, they have learned to process being taking for a ride disrespectively as apart of the reality of love, which I'm not saying is bad .. just different from us.

To us .. this means the end of the relationship .. because respect doesn't come back.

Seems like nearly every Scorp/Pisces combo I know has failed .. there are just some principals that can't be comprimised I guess. 🙂

Oh, are you a speed reader? I hide that as soon as I posted it 🙂

Damn .. you're good.

I come from a family that's mostly Scorp's .. I'm just babbling from how I view things.

Here's an example .. this is pulled over from another board, and the name has been removed .. with even just friendships, if ANY care is given to another, then that other person is totally indebted to the Scorpio and isn't allowed to feel any other way, or the stinger comes out ..



"and that is what annoys me because she owes me a confrontation on it before she accepts what someone else told her. when she arrived in spain 2 years ago....i helped her get settled in every way possible, introduced her to people, translated for her because she cant speak spanish and helped get her kids registered at the school and stuff.

now she cant even bring herself to make eye contact.

i just need to shoot her really............i dont want to - but it's the only way i'm going to feel better about this."

However, the person who started this thread is a Taurus, and is probably wondering what all this has to do with the question.

Yeah, I know .. and that particular Scorpio most definitely feels this way because this isn't the first time it has been posted openly.

I just thank my lucky stars that the Scorp's in my life aren't so bad. But, then again, they are all male and the men seem to have a better handle on the emotional side of their stinger .. at least they know where to point it.

PP .. did you get to see your cousin over the weekend? If so, how is she?