I am always sad (Pisces sun, cancer moon)

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Posted by fusciceps

Hey guys

So, I'm always sad, since I have memory. Recently I discovered my natal chart, turns out I have this awful combination: Pisces sun, cancer moon, this could explain my melancholy towards everything, what do you guys think?

Also I have a leo rising, but apparently people don't notice it. Im generally shy, soft and gullible... in other words I'm just really dumb and sad lol.


That cancer moon can sometimes feel like a curse but I promise you, that ''soft'' side of yours - is a gift.

you might not see it yourself but others do/will.
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Heyy come on now. Take a look at my chart lol

I get sad sometimes too, but even then I manage to keep it light and don't dive too deep into emotions. Honestly just don't take things too seriously. I know it's difficult but at the end of the day it doesn't matter. You being worried or sad can't help situation, so why torture yourself. If you are really sad and nothing can cheer you up just lock yourself in a room and have a good cry for 30 minutes or so. You will feel better, I promise. And if you ever want to talk, or feeling alone, find me and I'll be there for you. Hugs
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Posted by but_didyoudie

I would say find yourself another person pisces/cancer to hang out with....

But if you really want to fix this you need to go within and find the source of that sadness... we all have it. You just have to become aware it and it'll feel soooooooooo muuuuuch better.

A hug to u. This is the sadest thing I've read on here today 😢

Thanks for taking the time to respond. Do t you worry, is not that bad, im usted to it. However I think I prefer to be with people that have earth placements, I dont know, I just need someone to punch me in the face everytime I get overwhelmed by sadness lol
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Have you been assessed for clinical depression? I use cannabis cbd and thc, and I have a much better time keeping the blues away. Wellbutrin is a lowkey anti-depressant that worked for me with no side effects. Sometimes I do believe there can be a chemical imbalance. Particularly if there is no real reason for it. Id talk to a therapist about assessment and options.
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Posted by AbbyNormal

Have you been assessed for clinical depression? I use cannabis cbd and thc, and I have a much better time keeping the blues away. Wellbutrin is a lowkey anti-depressant that worked for me with no side effects. Sometimes I do believe there can be a chemical imbalance. Particularly if there is no real reason for it. Id talk to a therapist about assessment and options.


Yes, I do have clinical depression. But you are right, cannabis help a lot. Its just that... I dont know, waves of sadness come and go.
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It can. That was Kurt Cobain's sun/moon combination. Obviously for him it was difficult, but he was also very gifted.

http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_pisces-cancer.pdf

That was extremely accurated, thank you.

Fortunately I have air and fire placements that balance my inherent sadness, or make it worse, it depends lol

Leo rising should help. What is your Mars?
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My Mars is leo :o
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Have you been assessed for clinical depression? I use cannabis cbd and thc, and I have a much better time keeping the blues away. Wellbutrin is a lowkey anti-depressant that worked for me with no side effects. Sometimes I do believe there can be a chemical imbalance. Particularly if there is no real reason for it. Id talk to a therapist about assessment and options.

Yes, I do have clinical depression. But you are right, cannabis help a lot. Its just that... I dont know, waves of sadness come and go.
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It is very natural to have periods of sadness, as it is with every emotion. What is unnatural is the thought that we should be happy all of the time!! That is not rational at all.... It is about trying to keep a balance and ride the waves until happier times come, and they will/do. I am sure part of it is probably age and a general not really knowing what to do with yourself. So my advice is to take time to get to know yourself again. Find out what foods make you feel best, find out what you LOVE doing, find out what makes you tick! Once you have begun working on yourself and feel a bit more confident, turn your focus outwards. Look at how other people live, not just around you but in the world. Gaining some perspective can really help an overactive brain. Finding healthy pasttimes is great for distraction. Distraction only goes so far, so the self evaluation and work should help to lessen the need for it. Most importantly, do not stay stagnant. That is the enemy! The more we resign ourselves to something, the more complacent we become. And who ever grew from a place of complacency? Life forces growth upon us in weird ways. This is just your challenge for life--which hopefully will only make you stronger one day. Being emotional isnt a bad thing, it is about learning how to balance and channel them. If you dont have a sort of spiritual advisor, I would get one.
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It can. That was Kurt Cobain's sun/moon combination. Obviously for him it was difficult, but he was also very gifted.

http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_pisces-cancer.pdf

Kurt Cobain was murdered.

he did not commit suicide.

I think that conspiracy theory is silly.

Occam's Razor

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silly as it seems you have to admit there are aspects about his "suicide" that don't really make any sense.

i really believe Courtney had him murdered
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

It can. That was Kurt Cobain's sun/moon combination. Obviously for him it was difficult, but he was also very gifted.

http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_pisces-cancer.pdf

Kurt Cobain was murdered.

he did not commit suicide.
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I don’t know about that.

I was (well still am) a huge Nirvana fan. Actually they’re my fave band, what am I talking aboutšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

I’ve got a copy of the Kurt Cobain Journals. Although I’m aware the pages/journals were probably carefully selected to portray him in a certain light, but even simple pages like his to do lists... the whole thing just gives out a really depressing vibe.

Don’t get me wrong, I think Courtney was nuts but I do think he committed suicide going off Nirvana’s music and Kurt’s personality.