Interested or not?

How would a person know if a Pisces man is no longer interested in them? The guy I am dating seems to go hot and cold often, then goes MIA and comes back, it's really hard to understand.

ok well at first he asked me out often and now he doesn't, he still texts me etc.. but he's not full throttle like he was. I've never dated a Pisces so am not sure of their behavior. there are times I think he likes me and then others where I don't. Its just really confusing, is there anything specific I could pin point that will let me know if he does or he doesn't?

I do that because I'm not amused but I feel a sense of security to a specific person. We're hard to handle and always unsettled. If you can keep things real interesting, you'll keep him, if not eventually he'll drift off.

that is what he says but I'm not sure. It's been about a week. Last weekend he text me really late after hunting and I told him I didnt like getting texted that late at night and he apologized and said that he just wanted to say hi, and asked if I didn't like him anymore and then apologized the following day as well, so that is what made me feel like he cared, but I read that Pisces are just nice, so now I am confused. He did have lasik this week so I understand that etc.. I just feel like I'm having to make all the effort. I told him that if he needed anything to let me know and he just said he appreciated it and that I have a good memory since I text him to tell him I hope everything goes well. Right now I am just going with how I feel and I like him so I act like I like him, I'm not forcing anything, but when he acts like this it just makes me think he isnt interested anymore and I want to pull back. I just cant get a good read on where I stand with him and its wayyy to early to for us to have that conversation, but I dont like this limbo feeling

psychosis_with_scales what do you mean by: I'm not amused but I feel a sense of security to a specific person? I mean how do I keep it interesting when we arent hanging out? I'm not going to chase him, I feel like I'm doing my part..

Posted by Wonderwoman88
psychosis_with_scales what do you mean by: I'm not amused but I feel a sense of security to a specific person? I mean how do I keep it interesting when we arent hanging out? I'm not going to chase him, I feel like I'm doing my part..

All Pisces are different but hold same innocent traits, but what I'm saying is that you may not be interesting even if you try and he'll be around because of some sense of security because you like him. Hey I could be wrong.

Posted by 88akka

Posted by Wonderwoman88
that is what he says but I'm not sure. It's been about a week. Last weekend he text me really late after hunting and I told him I didnt like getting texted that late at night and he apologized and said that he just wanted to say hi, and asked if I didn't like him anymore and then apologized the following day as well, so that is what made me feel like he cared, but I read that Pisces are just nice, so now I am confused. He did have lasik this week so I understand that etc.. I just feel like I'm having to make all the effort. I told him that if he needed anything to let me know and he just said he appreciated it and that I have a good memory since I text him to tell him I hope everything goes well. Right now I am just going with how I feel and I like him so I act like I like him, I'm not forcing anything, but when he acts like this it just makes me think he isnt interested anymore and I want to pull back. I just cant get a good read on where I stand with him and its wayyy to early to for us to have that conversation, but I dont like this limbo feeling

I know what you mean about the late texts.............but maybe since he was all hyper and awake after his hunting trip, you were then on his thoughts and sends you an innocent text. And you since you don't like text late at night you are still to respond to tell him you don't like texting late at night? , embarrassing the man for his action of just sending a text.

The sure thing to make a man pull away and not send you messages again is rejecting him when he is trying. You did not have to tell him that you did not like texting late at night... All you had to do is not respond when he texts you late at night and then respond the next morning or when is convenient for you. And he will get the point clear enough to know when you are accepting texts. If he asked why you don't respond during those hours or when you are close enough you can tell him that you prefer texts earlier in the day..

Now do not complain why he is no longer communicating as much... He may get told again YOU don't like being texted early in the morning either or in the middle of the day....... Get the point?

It is not what you told him, is how you told him. ---- embarrassed and perhaps he got the feeling of rejection.... Pisces swimming away - I would.

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I never thought of it like that, so THANK YOU for the insight!