Is she just stringing me along for attention? Should I just stop being friends.

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Posted by Emhendo

I'm telling you now..

You don't want a woman with very recent boyfriends and a current boyfriend.

Stay away from straight and bisexual women.. They do this for attention and an ego boost. You are just an ego booster.. She is never going to take you seriously.

Drop her. Move on. Plenty of ways to meet REAL lesbians.. You should try it. Seriously.


I met her at a gay sex camp for christ sake.

It's just my luck.

only the bi curious women flirt with me and the ones that look like dudes which i'm not into.

don't know why i can't find a femme gay who is emotionally available and into me.
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Posted by Palerio

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You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?
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hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.

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Posted by Palerio

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Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.

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Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?
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i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.

----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?


i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.



----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.

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lol. Well the only thing left to do is make sure you jump on that thang when she is single. You see what hesitating got you. She's obviously a hot commodity! 😆 Good luck.

Hopefully your friendship isn't ruined if things go sideways and the sex is all that you imagine it to be.
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?


i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.



----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.




lol. Well the only thing left to do is make sure you jump on that thang when she is single. You see what hesitating got you. She's obviously a hot commodity! 😆 Good luck.

Hopefully your friendship isn't ruined if things go sideways and the sex is all that you imagine it to be.
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how could the friendship be ruined?

that's basically why she told me she friend zoned me.

like if we clearly communicate and manage expectations

fwb is not possible? even also if it's just one encounter?
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?


i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.



----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.




lol. Well the only thing left to do is make sure you jump on that thang when she is single. You see what hesitating got you. She's obviously a hot commodity! 😆 Good luck.

Hopefully your friendship isn't ruined if things go sideways and the sex is all that you imagine it to be.


how could the friendship be ruined?

that's basically why she told me she friend zoned me.

like if we clearly communicate and manage expectations

fwb is not possible? even also if it's just one encounter?
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Whats her sign? It just depends on how she manages fwb and if someone catches more feelings
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?


i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.



----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.




lol. Well the only thing left to do is make sure you jump on that thang when she is single. You see what hesitating got you. She's obviously a hot commodity! 😆 Good luck.

Hopefully your friendship isn't ruined if things go sideways and the sex is all that you imagine it to be.


how could the friendship be ruined?

that's basically why she told me she friend zoned me.

like if we clearly communicate and manage expectations

fwb is not possible? even also if it's just one encounter?


Whats her sign? It just depends on how she manages fwb and if someone catches more feelings
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pisces sun

aries moon

cap mars

taurus venus.

we have the same chart except my moon is in Libra.

have you ever read that you and a potential partner would have amazing sex due to your natal chart compatibility ...and it wasn't true?

all of these astro websites say that the sex would be fire!
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Palerio

You should drop her already. As clearly you want more intimacy than that she's willing to offer you.


Thanks my Italian friend

so should I block her number?

or just not respond to her texts anymore?


What about you tell her face to face, best for you is to have her out of your life?


hard to do

especially because i'm so attracted to her.

put yourself in my shoes for a moment......

you have never been sexually attracted to anyone your whole life

then you meet someone who finally makes you understand how other people normally feel.

you get friend zoned because you didn't express interest soon enough ...others beat you to it

after getting to know her you understand how you wouldn't be a great match if you did have the chance to be with this person but again ....it doesn't matter because she is the ONLY person you have ever wanted to have sex with.

i'd honestly be happy with just one night of passion ....even as a friend.

i just want to experience life....what others experience

and so far she is the only person i've met that i could do that with.....

and believe me i've been looking before her...and after i met her.

she's still the only one.

do i just cut that out of my life?

i'm 30 and i really want to have sex with someone i'm sexually attracted to before i die.

is that so pathetic? i don't think it is.

i hear it's great.




Is she willing to have sex with you? Are you willing to have sex with her while she's messing with multiple people at the same time?

Do you just want her because she's all the sudden taken? What happened when she was single?


i knew i wanted to have sex with her about 24 hours after we met..before anyone else was in the picture

the problem was...someone did come into the picture about 3 days after we met

and

i think it's possible sometime in the future

if she becomes single

she's hooked up ( at least made out with other friends of hers...whom she told me she wasn't attracted to)

this was after mind you she was basically telling me she was attracted to me though

if i would have made a move that i night i'm 97 percent sure she would have reciprocated

i didn't because i had garlic for dinner and i found out she had just started dating a guy seriously that very same night

---------

so to answer your question i wouldn't have sex with her or do anything including make out with her unless she was single.

i had the chance to do so several times in the past but didn't because she was with someone and also messing around with other people.

if things didn't workout however between her and her current partner ( i hope it does ..sincerely)

and the opportunity happened to arise while she was single

i wouldn't hesitate

not even for a heartbeat.

i don't think i could resist her.



----

i'm down / trying to be optimistic there is at least one other girl out there somewhere that can me feel the same tingling sensation lol

but so far it's just been her.

i may not know what love is...but i do know what lust is.........because of her.

i want the cookie so bad.




lol. Well the only thing left to do is make sure you jump on that thang when she is single. You see what hesitating got you. She's obviously a hot commodity! 😆 Good luck.

Hopefully your friendship isn't ruined if things go sideways and the sex is all that you imagine it to be.


how could the friendship be ruined?

that's basically why she told me she friend zoned me.

like if we clearly communicate and manage expectations

fwb is not possible? even also if it's just one encounter?


Whats her sign? It just depends on how she manages fwb and if someone catches more feelings


pisces sun

aries moon

cap mars

taurus venus.

we have the same chart except my moon is in Libra.

have you ever read that you and a potential partner would have amazing sex due to your natal chart compatibility ...and it wasn't true?

all of these astro websites say that the sex would be fire!
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No I haven't lol You can just feel it! It's always been true for me 😄 I love this type of connection. It's the only relationship I would be in.
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Posted by tiziani

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was she lying when she told me that I was the most amazing person she'd ever met and that she loved me?


That doesn't mean someone lied it just means only so much can be attached to words in the moment.


i don't understand


She could have been telling you exactly what she felt at that moment. Then time goes on and things change.
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true

but i just think it's quite the admission after only knowing someone a couple of months no?

like we barely knew each other

other people also before told me that she is quite fond of me

so idk