livictori
@livictori
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I've been a bad BAD gurl
Posted by BinotaThat was my goal.
Joking side: I though this is a lyrics that you just wrote
Criminal by Fiona Apple.
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Serious side: Just pull away from social and take yourself a time to heal it.
lol this thread is jjust about your feels right?
you don't really care about that virgo ex right?
you don't really care about that virgo ex right?
Posted by dixieWait wait wait
For fucks sake she didn't go out of her way to fucking hurt anyone.....she didn't know what his true feelings were until it was too late...
I'm done with your disillusion
This is the first man who literally broke my heart. We were together 6 months without so much as an argument and he picked a day and walked away from me. He literally just fell off of the face of the earth. While this was in 2013, he apologized and I forgave him. We've hung out as recent as this year with nothing being said about romance. THIS is why I was surprised.
Posted by hydorahI feel guilt because I didn't know his. I wouldn't deliberately hurt someone
lol this thread is jjust about your feels right?
you don't really care about that virgo ex right?
Posted by dixieI come here to vomit my feelings and get perspective. I don't want to go out with friends. I literally want to wallow
If you don't stay here then you will search and search and devour every man that looks your way in an attempt to drown out your feelings for scorpio.
Posted by dixieLiterally we went to the movies in May or June and then went home separately. No touching, kissing, planning to see each other. The movie passes were free.Posted by livictoriRight...so you even tough you had hung out recently you still didn't knowPosted by dixieWait wait wait
For fucks sake she didn't go out of her way to fucking hurt anyone.....she didn't know what his true feelings were until it was too late...
I'm done with your disillusion
This is the first man who literally broke my heart. We were together 6 months without so much as an argument and he picked a day and walked away from me. He literally just fell off of the face of the earth. While this was in 2013, he apologized and I forgave him. We've hung out as recent as this year with nothing being said about romance. THIS is why I was surprised.click to expand
Posted by dixieWhen I NEEDED to separate from my first Scorpio {tem}, it took about 3 years to even want a relationship. I became celibate and fat. I got so depressed. We have 2 children together and I literally moved down south. We talk on the phone for hours now. At least once a month. He knows about my current Scorpio {teb}. His joke is invite me to the wedding.
It's going to take a long time...a very long time for you to gain perspective, after a broken relationship with scorpio.
But it is possible
Once my relationships end AND I'm over it emotionally, I stop the fantasy of happily ever after. But yes, my connection with Scorpios are very different than others.
The title of this thread is way too nonchalant and playful considering what you're doing, lady. Youre hurting people just to accommodate your own hurt feelings.
You wanna know what you probably hate the most about the scorp? Is how similarly you two act. He used you and now you're using the virgo. Get a grip on this.
You wanna know what you probably hate the most about the scorp? Is how similarly you two act. He used you and now you're using the virgo. Get a grip on this.
Posted by RiflessivoAgh perspective.Posted by KaptainKhaosSpot on!
The title of this thread is way too nonchalant and playful considering what you're doing, lady. Youre hurting people just to accommodate your own hurt feelings.
You wanna know what you probably hate the most about the scorp? Is how similarly you two act. He used you and now you're using the virgo. Get a grip on this.click to expand
Here you may be right but I definetly won't continue. But trust me when I dialed him, I was calling a friend. I don't know what prompted his admission. He might be going through something himself but I wasn't trying to stir up anything. Given how he broke up with me and the last couple years, I didn't see this coming. I don't know virgos to be so expressive.
Posted by livictoriMeanwhile, in another topic...
But trust me when I dialed him.
Posted by livictori...lol.
I literally did this to my virgo ex over the weekend....
I NEVER go back to an ex BUT when the relationship I'm currently in starts falling apart. I call the one I think I see the similarities in. While I don't tell them what's going on, I look for patterns. Either in my behavior or in the men I'm picking. I try to pick their brains and then I disappear again.click to expand
You didn't call him as a friend, you called him as an ex. As far as patterns? Come on, it's done for reassurance.
*"But trust me when I dialed him, I was calling a friend."
Posted by DamnataPick his brain and lead him on are two very different things. I can ask questions looking for answers but feeding off of people's feekibgs, I've never done. I know who I am.Posted by livictoriMeanwhile, in another topic...
But trust me when I dialed him.
Posted by livictori...lol.
I literally did this to my virgo ex over the weekend....
I NEVER go back to an ex BUT when the relationship I'm currently in starts falling apart. I call the one I think I see the similarities in. While I don't tell them what's going on, I look for patterns. Either in my behavior or in the men I'm picking. I try to pick their brains and then I disappear again.
You didn't call him as a friend, you called him as an ex. As far as patterns? Come on, it's done for reassurance.
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Posted by dixieTotally, but my victims are usually people who deserve it and enjoy games. I don't feel bad for those guys. The ones who texted me or hounded me only to act like they didn't know me a few weeks later...that's who I keep in my phone in moments like these. When I feel like bloodletting, I do it to them...mercilessly. Innocent men do not get that from me. There's a Pisces who I dated that repeatedly can't forget me and literally begs me to just talk to him or see him. I apologize and keep my distance. He is an innocent. I would NEVER do him like this. But that fuck ass Cap who I've been back and forth with for 5 years and this idiot Taurus who told me not to fall in love with him after our first sexual encounter....them dudes....they can get it and I keep them around JUST for this type of sport.
Shocked a pisces would do this? What world are you living in?
Posted by livictoriOk...see...I feel what she's saying right here. I agree that she shouldn't hurt people while she's hurting, but given that it seems like he would have been the last person to emo vomit or carry on emotionally, I can see how she thought it would be safe to play on these grounds. Hey....crucify me, but I do the same thing. When I'm hurt, I don't necessarily seek someone else to hurt as much as I'll reach out to someone who I know or feel won't be hurt if our communication goes awry or if I end up becoming bitchy in the middle of the convo and do something fucked up like abruptly end the communication.Posted by RiflessivoAgh perspective.Posted by KaptainKhaosSpot on!
The title of this thread is way too nonchalant and playful considering what you're doing, lady. Youre hurting people just to accommodate your own hurt feelings.
You wanna know what you probably hate the most about the scorp? Is how similarly you two act. He used you and now you're using the virgo. Get a grip on this.
Here you may be right but I definetly won't continue. But trust me when I dialed him, I was calling a friend. I don't know what prompted his admission. He might be going through something himself but I wasn't trying to stir up anything. Given how he broke up with me and the last couple years, I didn't see this coming. I don't know virgos to be so expressive.click to expand
Posted by RiflessivoFor arguments sake, let's say I called someone to feel better. I think that's what friends usually do. When your down, you call someone. What I didn't do was play on thoughts or feelings. We've hung out, we've talked on the phone. We haven't been together for a couple of years. I think it's fair to believe the person is as over the relationship THEY ENDED.
Victims? The only victim is the guy who isn't getting the apology!!
I don't take what others have done to me and inflict on people. That's messed up thinking.
Just because you got hurt does not give you the right to hurt others because of it. That truly is self absorbed and self righteous.
Posted by MsFiskWhom is this directed to?
God damn. Why does every situation you try to discuss about Pisces ALWAYS revolves around you?? You do realize the measure of "piscesness" is not what YOU would do right— Every person who was born between late February and Mid March are their own mind and person. I have yet to see a post from you where youre not rambling about yourself. FUCK.
I don't really see where the issue is, here. She called a friend for emotional support. Even if she didn't have completely pure intentions in calling that particular person (which I believe may be the case), it doesn't sound like she did anything to intentionally hurt him. It sounds like they had been friends for a while and also like the virgo had not expressed such thoughts before. If you don't speak, no one will fully understand what you think. Therefore, I don't think she's lying in saying that she didn't know how he felt. It also doesn't seem like their hang outs or talks were all that frequent, making it easier for the virgo to conceal how he feels. Did the call hurt the virgo? Well, I'm not sure. But it sounds like it was a positive thing, to me. He used this as an opportunity to express himself. I could understand people ganging up on the OP if she then acted on this new information, but it doesn't sound like she has. So, I really don't see what the big issue is, here. No one was harmed outside of an average degree and now the OP has learned something that will help her sit down and think about everything, including her next steps.
As for advice for the OP, like other users have said, try to take more time for yourself. Don't throw yourself into anything until you're sure your past won't make you intentionally or unintentionally hurt someone.
As for advice for the OP, like other users have said, try to take more time for yourself. Don't throw yourself into anything until you're sure your past won't make you intentionally or unintentionally hurt someone.
Posted by MsFisk100000% truth
You seem to be drawn to emotionally unavailable type of men.
I was with a Taurus whom I let out of the friend zone. One of the reasons I had a hard time is because he was very emotive. You never looked at it this way
you need to be punished
Posted by MsFiskmsfisk is being very frisky
Girl, listen. We are not puppies. You can't chase them around and when finally given treat, everything feels right again. Until you have to chase them down again.
That momentary emotional affirmation will never give you the satisfaction and understanding you're seeking.
Posted by RiflessivoThat's fair. Do you think it would be malicious to call someone and tell them you don't want to be with the or wait until it comes up again?Posted by livictoriWhy would you turn to an ex though and not your friends?Posted by RiflessivoFor arguments sake, let's say I called someone to feel better. I think that's what friends usually do. When your down, you call someone. What I didn't do was play on thoughts or feelings. We've hung out, we've talked on the phone. We haven't been together for a couple of years. I think it's fair to believe the person is as over the relationship THEY ENDED.
Victims? The only victim is the guy who isn't getting the apology!!
I don't take what others have done to me and inflict on people. That's messed up thinking.
Just because you got hurt does not give you the right to hurt others because of it. That truly is self absorbed and self righteous.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Something was not working for one or both of you. That is after all why it ended. Most often someone still has feelings. So is it fair to believe or an assumption?.I'm going with the latter.
Perhaps now you have your closure you can afford Mr Virgo his with an appology?click to expand
Posted by RiflessivoI asked what's the least painful way to do it. I never said I want to lead anyone on. What's wrong with my trying to do it the most gentle way?Posted by livictoriNobody can win with you. You wanted closure. He has given that to you. Many people in this world are not afforded that by people.Posted by RiflessivoThat's fair. Do you think it would be malicious to call someone and tell them you don't want to be with the or wait until it comes up again?Posted by livictoriWhy would you turn to an ex though and not your friends?Posted by RiflessivoFor arguments sake, let's say I called someone to feel better. I think that's what friends usually do. When your down, you call someone. What I didn't do was play on thoughts or feelings. We've hung out, we've talked on the phone. We haven't been together for a couple of years. I think it's fair to believe the person is as over the relationship THEY ENDED.
Victims? The only victim is the guy who isn't getting the apology!!
I don't take what others have done to me and inflict on people. That's messed up thinking.
Just because you got hurt does not give you the right to hurt others because of it. That truly is self absorbed and self righteous.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Something was not working for one or both of you. That is after all why it ended. Most often someone still has feelings. So is it fair to believe or an assumption?.I'm going with the latter.
Perhaps now you have your closure you can afford Mr Virgo his with an appology?
If you see it as a bad thing even more reason to ensure he no longer is a part of your life.
My question is do you value honesty? If yes, he was honest with you rather than you always wondering. If no. Never ask a question again because you're concerned with the persons intent.click to expand
Posted by livictorii fail to see where you've done anything wrong, honestly...
I've been careless with a delicate man
And it's a sad sad world
When a girl will break a boy just because she can
I'm an emotional mess. Rejected and trying to heal from a Scorpio, I call my Virgo ex. Surprised by my call he spirals into a pleading apologetic speech. Why do I feel bad? Because I didn't know how he felt and I didn't fully know how to react.
I need to sit my ass down in a corner. I'll just keep listening to Fiona Apple until all these feelings go away
--Jack
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I'm an emotional mess. Rejected and trying to heal from a Scorpio, I call my Virgo ex. Surprised by my call he spirals into a pleading apologetic speech. Why do I feel bad? Because I didn't know how he felt and I didn't fully know how to react.
I need to sit my ass down in a corner. I'll just keep listening to Fiona Apple until all these feelings go away