Ladies...be honest here:

Ladies...Can one overlook the fact that a guy is shorter, thinner and has a boyish voice? (and everything else about him is almost perfect) Am I superficial? It's just that...I dated a guy who was supernice thinking "it's personality that matters" ignoring the fact that I wasn't very attracted to him. It was really bad!! It was like brother-sister love. I'd be interested to hear responses.

Please...No defensive answers from guys calling us superficial. If this is a reality of our world, let's face it and discuss it.

I say dump them both.

The less problems to deal with, better life will become. Don't create problems for yourself. Dump them both and find out someone else who has both for you.