Lesser of evils...

Choosing the Lesser of Two Evils for Sexual Fulfillment

Deciding between calling your ex or a previous casual partner depends on your comfort level and emotional boundaries. Consider if reconnecting may impact your well-being or current situation. Prioritize your health and emotional safety while addressing your needs responsibly. Consulting a trusted friend or counselor can also help navigate this decision.

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cancerlady
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Okay...Let's just say I am horny & pregnant

I have ruled the father out of my life as far as a relationship BUT

I am SOOOOOO Horny. Which do you think is the lesser of the evils?


1. Call my ex and beg for some booty

OR

2. Call an ex-booty call for some booty (probably the Scorp I got that great oral sex from before or a Leo I had great sex with but no relationship chemistry)

Advice please! SOON as I am feeling weak...I'm trying to hold out on calling Mr. Pisces...
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Well I talked to the Leo last night...I didn't invite him over or anything. I just hate talking to him because he is SUCH a sweetheart...hardworking and very stable but has fun too. I REALLY REALLY screwed that up!

He doesn't know I am pregnant yet...we were talking about his ex-girfriend (I always like to ask men about their former relationships to know what went wrong so I can avoid that) ANYWAY...he was like, I wanted you to be my woman...I was like Yeah, I really screwed that up.

It's terrible b/c I wish I had realized what a good thing that wa STARING me in my face and I was chasing after a dream...a fantasy that I thought would come true. I swear sometimes I can be so STUPID at choosing men! But I can't blame anyone but myself.

FreeBird, I think I am going to try your suggestion first. I really want to get with the Leo but I don't want to try to force him into the role of father figure of my children in such a complicated time. It would be different if they were older, but I can't do that to him, so I would rather stay away.

LOL funny thing is, the Scorp with his intuitive ass, figured out that I was pregnant. He said he didn't care, but I still have my doubts. I just want to do what's best...I'll try the toy first, I don't generally like that sort of thing (I would rather have a warm body) but desperate times call for desperate measures.

Any advice on the Leo or Scorp...feel free to dish. Thanks guys for the advice!

CL/CM2
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Guys I was weak and backsliding...http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSYYYYYYYYUS' target='_blank'>

I texted Mr. Pisces last night...

Me: I'm very horny, can I get some booty? Please?
(No Answer 15 min later)
Me: So that's a no huh? Oh well I tried...I guess I really should move on with my life and leave you to yours. Sorry to bother you.
Him: No I'm just not around have photo shoot 2moro evening and 5:30am meeting tues. b there then please wait I miss u

So I GUESS I will be seeing him tomorrow. I love him so much, I just can't let him go easily...besides I have alot of questions I need to ask him. Let's hope all's well that ends well...Either that or the booty is good! I am such a WUSSY!

CL/CM2