Letting go... The Impossible Dream....

I am sure that Pisces isn't the only sign that has issues letting go, but I know we are probably the worst. I am trying to to let someone go. Not that anything bad is happening. Just need to give this person space to work on some things and I need to do the same. How do you just walk away for someone that you care about?? I find myself thinking of this person often. I
have my fears and insecurities about it.. but at the same time, I've got to let go. How do you deal when you go thru this?

Thanks.

Also, if you let them go, did they return? And if so, what happened when they did? XOXO

Walking away is very easy... it's stopping myself from ricocheting back that's the problem😄

I find ways to distract myself or bury myself in work - you know, replace one addiction with another. Cause if I don't I'll run right back to them knocking their door down through sheer desperation to see them lol.

Shortii,
You're kidding, right? For a Pisces, walking away is not hard, at all. Maybe for some of the un-evolved type fishes, they'll stay and take all of the undeserved punishment, but not me. If I feel that it ain't worth it, then it ain't worth it.

Tony

This is when you've gotta pull out the old hefty "Love quotes" books!

The books that remind you that:

*If it's meant to be, it'll happen.

*If you tell yourself you can, you will. But if you tell yourself that you can't do something, you're right.

*Everything that happens, happens for a reason.

*When 1 door closes, it's b/c 2 more are about to open. Instead of focusing on the already closed door, turn your energy & attention to the 2 doors that are about to open...It almost always happens that the newer doors have something better to offer you anyways =)

*When you're truly focused on yourself & "doing you," you'll be so BUSY that you won't even have time in your schedule to harp on someone else!

*Never be mad at the Ahole who let you go. If anything, THANK him & be grateful that he just led you 2 steps closer to finding/being with the guy who is TRULY meant for you =)

How do you let go? You just do. You make an effort to let go just like you made the effort in the beginning to latch on. It's a mental thing. Again, if you tell yourself that you can't, you won't. But if you tell yourself that you will, you will =)

Hope that helped!

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Posted by BUTCH666
Walking away is very easy... it's stopping myself from ricocheting back that's the problem😄.

Exactly^^ 🙂

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I agree 100% on this as well.

Posted by krysrenee7
This is when you've gotta pull out the old hefty "Love quotes" books!

The books that remind you that:

*If it's meant to be, it'll happen.

*If you tell yourself you can, you will. But if you tell yourself that you can't do something, you're right.

*Everything that happens, happens for a reason.

*When 1 door closes, it's b/c 2 more are about to open. Instead of focusing on the already closed door, turn your energy & attention to the 2 doors that are about to open...It almost always happens that the newer doors have something better to offer you anyways =)

*When you're truly focused on yourself & "doing you," you'll be so BUSY that you won't even have time in your schedule to harp on someone else!

*Never be mad at the Ahole who let you go. If anything, THANK him & be grateful that he just led you 2 steps closer to finding/being with the guy who is TRULY meant for you =)

How do you let go? You just do. You make an effort to let go just like you made the effort in the beginning to latch on. It's a mental thing. Again, if you tell yourself that you can't, you won't. But if you tell yourself that you will, you will =)

Hope that helped!

Thanks, Krys. It did help a LOT. XOXOX Put things into perspective.

Posted by Nights22

Posted by Starfish225
I think once I figure out that a person does not care for me he's out!!! I have a certain way I want to be treated and if that dont happen thats all I need to walk.

Except put a s in front of he's. lolz

I think Shortii just needs to come into reality land.

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Hush.. LOL

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Posted by Nights22

Posted by Starfish225
I think once I figure out that a person does not care for me he's out!!! I have a certain way I want to be treated and if that dont happen thats all I need to walk.

Except put a s in front of he's. lolz

I think Shortii just needs to come into reality land.

Hush.. LOL

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I went to reality land and brought my t-shirt back to show for it.

Posted by Starfish225
"Also, if you let them go, did they return? And if so, what happened when they did? XOXO"

I have never had a man that did not return to me rather he broke it off or rather I broke it off. What mattered though is what place I was in when he returned. Usually not in the place I was initially in..So in saying that he got nothing..With the exception if one maybe two guys..

You brought up a very good point. What place i was in when he returned. I have to really focus on that. Thanks Star. :-)

Posted by Nights22
Pics or it didnt happen..

Pics ON the roller coaster- MOUTH open and Tonsils showing.. Wait.. that sounded all KINDS of wrong.. LOLOL

A lot has changed since we spoke last to be honest, I'm okay with it.. just want to see what other's perspectives are. 😉

Posted by Nights22
if you say so. Just checkin.

I say so. Reality was a cool place to visit and I actually want to live there. :-)

Posted by TheOhSoStellarOne
Shortii,
You're kidding, right? For a Pisces, walking away is not hard, at all. Maybe for some of the un-evolved type fishes, they'll stay and take all of the undeserved punishment, but not me. If I feel that it ain't worth it, then it ain't worth it.

Tony

U r correct, Tony. Im not being punished at all. I think it's more so of is it worth the effort. I dont want to make any rash decisions especially if it's unfounded. :-)