Lost interest/attraction

Have any of you fellow pisces ever lost interest or attraction in a partner and never regained it? Some people are able to get the "spark" back but for me, once its gone, its gone for good.

What are your placements?

I don't think that anyone who lost attraction has ever regained it! If they do, they will be exception.

I have a Pisces Venus and my Sun and Mercury conjunct Neptune.

I don't think I've ever been attracted that strongly to a person again once whatever we had with each other was finished. I don't think that's necessarily a Pisces trait though, at least I've read that Pisces are prone to being sentimental and going back to someone

Posted by themilkyway36
I have a Pisces Venus and my Sun and Mercury conjunct Neptune.

I don't think I've ever been attracted that strongly to a person again once whatever we had with each other was finished. I don't think that's necessarily a Pisces trait though, at least I've read that Pisces are prone to being sentimental and going back to someone

Thats why I ask in this forum, we are known to go back for typical piscean presumed traits but it seems quite untrue. I did know a few people who got the spark back, so to speak, but it must be a rare thing or maybe it never truly left? No matter what I do, I simply cant force emotion that I do not have for another.

Posted by Undine
I don't think that anyone who lost attraction has ever regained it! If they do, they will be exception.

I have seen it before although it is quite rare. Maybe the spark never actually left? haha

Posted by Raakac
Everyone can gain attraction back, you have to work for it and know how to do it tho. 😄

You think? I gueas I doubt its impossible but maybe with the right partner, it could happen. Unfortunately once its gone, for me, its gone for good lol

Posted by Viper7717

Posted by themilkyway36
I have a Pisces Venus and my Sun and Mercury conjunct Neptune.

I don't think I've ever been attracted that strongly to a person again once whatever we had with each other was finished. I don't think that's necessarily a Pisces trait though, at least I've read that Pisces are prone to being sentimental and going back to someone

Thats why I ask in this forum, we are known to go back for typical piscean presumed traits but it seems quite untrue. I did know a few people who got the spark back, so to speak, but it must be a rare thing or maybe it never truly left? No matter what I do, I simply cant force emotion that I do not have for another.

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I think we would only go back if there was a strong emotional attachment or connection in the first place

Posted by Viper7717
Have any of you fellow pisces ever lost interest or attraction in a partner and never regained it? Some people are able to get the "spark" back but for me, once its gone, its gone for good.

What are your placements?

yes. is the answer.

and placements don't matter in this particular case.

its just how we're wired...

if we forget what tv show we're watching until it comes back on, because the commercials were too long...what makes you think anything of importance can hold our interest?

lol...and yes, usually...once it's gone, it's gone...and the chances of us even remembering whatever "it" was is slim to none...i'm telling you, we have the attention of, well a goldfish....

UNLESS, our feelings were hurt in the process of said incident...then we'll never forget...EVER. and will probably take you all the way down to the bottom of the ocean with us so we can drown together...or at least fantasize about it until it becomes unhealthy 😉

-Jack

Posted by themilkyway36

Posted by Viper7717

Posted by themilkyway36
I have a Pisces Venus and my Sun and Mercury conjunct Neptune.

I don't think I've ever been attracted that strongly to a person again once whatever we had with each other was finished. I don't think that's necessarily a Pisces trait though, at least I've read that Pisces are prone to being sentimental and going back to someone

Thats why I ask in this forum, we are known to go back for typical piscean presumed traits but it seems quite untrue. I did know a few people who got the spark back, so to speak, but it must be a rare thing or maybe it never truly left? No matter what I do, I simply cant force emotion that I do not have for another.

I think we would only go back if there was a strong emotional attachment or connection in the first place

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I agree ☝️

Posted by Viper7717
Have any of you fellow pisces ever lost interest or attraction in a partner and never regained it? Some people are able to get the "spark" back but for me, once its gone, its gone for good.

What are your placements?

Yes. Most of the time if I got bored that was it. I moved on. Never used to stay to see if the spark would happen again.

But once I got back to a boyfriend after some time apart.