Hello All, I'm a long time reader of this dxp and have learned a great deal reading other people stories, but now I have one of my own that I'm struggling on what to do. I hope I can receive some sound advice on my situation so, here goes. Last Sunday my boyfriend of 8 months was caught red handed with another woman at his place. A little background story. During the hurricane, we both were without power so, we stayed at my place until his power was restored and went there were I stayed for about a week. On the day of the storm, his mother was taken to the hospital. Also during this time his job responsibilities picked up which caused him to work longer hours so, when he realized ( longer hours) was going to go on for about a 2-3 weeks, he asked for my support and understanding. I said, sure, no problem. In the midst of the week, we had some minor bickering over how things were being said to each other, blah, blah, blah...nothing that I thought was that serious. I thought I was being understanding and supportive when I cleaned his place, prepared his plate when he arrived home, and tried not to talk too much (I'm a talker and need clarity on a lot in which he dislike). Anyway, last Tuesday, his mom had test done to gather some results on her illness and also Tuesday night my power was back on, but he wanted me to stay at this place with him so, I didnt go home. That night was weird tho. I arrived at his place around 8:30 and when I got there in was in the bed already. By the time I finished eating dinner and making my way back to the bedroom the TV was off (9:30pm). I'm thinking WTF? I asked him, if truning the TV on would bother him because I wanted to watch the election, he said, "no" so I did. I must've fallen asleep because I was woken up by him yelling to turn the TV off around 12am. I guess he was woken up by the hoopla surrounding Obama's victory. I was taken aback by why was he yelling as if I was up and heard the TV and ignored the volume. The next morning, I asked him why were you yelling and he said, I guess I can add to the list that I'm a controlling bully too. I thought, "huh" and just left it alone. Didn't have the energy to entertain. Wednesday, we spoke very little throughout the day which it has been since work has picked up. So that afternoon I texted him and asked, " Hey Babe, how's it going? How's your mom doing?" around 4:00 not response. So around 6pm he calls but never address the text, but said he was going ot the hospital to see
