virgomax
@virgomax
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Need help from all pretty fishes please (Pisceans). Virgo man fallen for Piscean girl !
Hello Vixen2
The things she will not give out her dob so I cant find hers . hmm I guess she likes to guard her secrets 🙂. Anyway respect her decision.
Below are mine
Moon Capricorn
Venus Leo
Mars Scorpio
The things she will not give out her dob so I cant find hers . hmm I guess she likes to guard her secrets 🙂. Anyway respect her decision.
Below are mine
Moon Capricorn
Venus Leo
Mars Scorpio
@vixen2 Just met once . We been exchanging messages for a week but then all down the hill. I am trying very hard to make a decent conversation but the response as I said is just one liner as if she just wants to reply for the sake of not being rude.
@starwars :”‘)
compliments were not overdone for sure . Only given when really meant . probably two times in the last 15 -20 times we chat
I think i will try initiate the chat one for time and if doesnt work well will just move on. I do not want to sound pushy ...
Surprise her somehow.
To say someone that her dress is very elegant and she looks very nice in the picture . I dont see anything wrong here . I just said because I genuinely felt it .. Anyway doesnt matter . There are some women who would really appreciate it whilst some who just take it negatively.
oh yes she did . Thank you all wonderfull ladies . Have a good evening chat soon
lol why do you put this on yourself virgo?
Posted by Vixen2Pisces woman here, LTR with Virgo man -Posted by virgomaxIf all was fine and she was flirty and into when you met for a week after and then suddenly she went distant...it's can only be a few things
@vixen2 Just met once . We been exchanging messages for a week but then all down the hill. I am trying very hard to make a decent conversation but the response as I said is just one liner as if she just wants to reply for the sake of not being rude.
Ӣ you said something critical to her (we despise that...who doesnt, except Virgo or Cap) or made her feel self concious or hurt her feelings...you said you hadn't so it can't be this right?
Ӣshe got bored with the back and forth...makes us second guess ourselves, you have to balance compliments (which we adore) with some mystery or distance. Make her wonder what you are doing and thinking, but not go overboard!
Ӣthink heat...some of us like nuclear passion, intensity...not the nice guy all the time: balance
Ӣ or she met someone else or has decided you just are not the one for her. If that's the case, you can see the above two scenarios and try an all out hail mary to get her attention back...but don't hold your breath.
Have you tried getting her to go out with you again?
Telling her in great sexy detail where you would like to take her (nice restuarant) and what you would like to do for her...might make her take notice of you again.click to expand
*she got bored with the back and forth... Can attest that doing the back and forth over text gets... well, boring. Ask her out, dude! I mean, for the first little bit it's fine but then move to the phone so she can hear you and get to know you, and ask her out! We get impatient. And bored. And when we're bored, we're nice, but then dismissive.
*think heat - again, fully agree. I want to know if we are physically compatible.
My Virgo is a surprisingly funny guy, really smart, obsessed with his job and money, very responsible. I guess I would say I was the personality in the relationship. But the passion was intense. So you have to do something to engage her, and then bring on the heat!
Posted by Vixen2I said what now?! HahaPosted by virgomaxdon't give up already...like Lady Neptune said, it's only been a week...
To say someone that her dress is very elegant and she looks very nice in the picture . I dont see anything wrong here . I just said because I genuinely felt it .. Anyway doesnt matter . There are some women who would really appreciate it whilst some who just take it negatively.
how much do you want this girl anyway? Intensity...show her!click to expand
I agree though, all about the intensity. Don't let her swim away. Chase after her upstream.
Posted by Vixen2Lolz, not to worry. You can misquote me any day of the week, I don't mindPosted by LadyNeptunecrikey...I'm freaking losing it, who said Pisces can multi task...cuz I obviously cant...Posted by Vixen2I said what now?! HahaPosted by virgomaxdon't give up already...like Lady Neptune said, it's only been a week...
To say someone that her dress is very elegant and she looks very nice in the picture . I dont see anything wrong here . I just said because I genuinely felt it .. Anyway doesnt matter . There are some women who would really appreciate it whilst some who just take it negatively.
how much do you want this girl anyway? Intensity...show her!
I agree though, all about the intensity. Don't let her swim away. Chase after her upstream.
LadyOfRebirth
sorry LadyNeptune!
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Posted by LadyOfRebirthHaha right!? I wonder if we have any other placements in common?Posted by Vixen2LolPosted by LadyNeptunecrikey...I'm freaking losing it, who said Pisces can multi task...cuz I obviously cant...Posted by Vixen2I said what now?! HahaPosted by virgomaxdon't give up already...like Lady Neptune said, it's only been a week...
To say someone that her dress is very elegant and she looks very nice in the picture . I dont see anything wrong here . I just said because I genuinely felt it .. Anyway doesnt matter . There are some women who would really appreciate it whilst some who just take it negatively.
how much do you want this girl anyway? Intensity...show her!
I agree though, all about the intensity. Don't let her swim away. Chase after her upstream.
LadyOfRebirth
sorry LadyNeptune!
Still find it awesome that we share the same sun/moon combo and have similar names😄click to expand
I have a Leo asc. and a Venus in Taurus. The rest is Capricorn.
Posted by YellowSubmarineNot giving up its just I don't like to sound so pushy . But yes its only a week I will give her a shout over New Years.
just ask her out again, and see how it goes.. it's only been a week man, what kinda Virgo are you giving up so quick?
ok everyone so I have been suggested by mostly everyone about being assertive which I have been actually. The intensity part, I think I need to work on it.
I probably think she is well stressed because of her long work hours she was complaining . I will talk her through it . 🙂
I probably think she is well stressed because of her long work hours she was complaining . I will talk her through it . 🙂
@yellowsubmarine Ok Mermaid 🙂
Like most of your kind ... you are incapable of recognizing emotional nuances in other people. Case in point, from what you described, this girl isn't particularly interested in you .. but, you're clueless to that. You think that just because you have certain feelings, then you automatically assume she has those same feelings from you.
Several Fish in here have also noticed this and has made comments to suggest it. You just deny it, or ignore it to continue on talking about how YOU feel making the assumption that she feels the same way.
there's no helping you because you are incapable of recognizing this truth. however, you can work on yourself for the future, so that you won't encounter this kind of emotional mind-blindness again.
here's the cause of your mind-blindness in the event you choose to help yourself ..... Virgos refuse to deal with feelings. They believe emotions to be messy and chaotic, and so they choose to ignore the emotions in other people. Well, people learn what they live. And if you refuse to live it, then you will never learn it. And here it is in you right now as proof. It's obvious from what you said that she's not really interested in you and is only still dealing with you because she doesn't want to be rude with you ..... and you are completely blind to it.
So, if you want to change this in you ... then you have to step out of your comfort zone, and participate in the emotions of people around you.
She got bored... ‚ try to be more mysterious , unpredictable .. give her the silent treatment .. be strong. . Good luck
Posted by 2thinkalikeIf you give me the silent treatment I'll assume your not into it and I'll keep swimming.
She got bored... ‚ try to be more mysterious , unpredictable .. give her the silent treatment .. be strong. . Good luck
What @Vixen2 said.
I meant just a little bit. So she can miss him.. and his attention. It works for me .. we pisces women ..oh, we arw very complicated creatures. Sometimes we are taking for granted a good guy.. we like to chase back too..
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The Issue:
I have fallen for a Piscean woman as you know opposite attracts.. she is ultra feminine nice eyes etc etc . Everything was going so well. I made her laugh when we chat and we continued having very amicable chat over text messages and whatsapp for a week. We clicked instantly ! Then suddenly she went into her bubble and started dropping one liners like ok, I am good, nice, good , you etc .. As a Virgo at beginning I got so uncomfortable and felt I should walk away until I found out Pisces have the ability to do so . I would say she even flirted with me but only once when she commented on my picture, but that was only once.
I compliment her beauty, dresses she wears and all nice things which I genuinely feel deep within my heart. I have never said her anything wrong or criticized her for anything. Its becoming very difficult because I am trying to walk away but then here amazing eyes are like ‘ you are not going anywhere ‘ . I am seriously stuck between how a virgo is programmed ( i.e just walk away kind of feeling) and the re-programmed virgo ( hey you know what don’t walk away don’t be that stupid virgo)
Hence I have stopped thinking like a virgo because I know if I will be that pushy or walk away kind I will probably lose her forever.
Hence all the mysterious pisceans and my possible saviuors need help !