pisces and capricorn

hello fellow pisces.

is there pisces here had experience with capricorn?

There are a few, more info?
What's the story?

my story? we broke up because she has some attachment and trust issues due to her past bad experience with her ex, and accuse me of being clingy and overly attached which is not actually. its already 1 month we're not together. i keep my distance like the others told me, but last week she told me that she missed talking to me.

i just wanna know if there are pisces had experience getting back with a cap..and how? im not tired of the waiting game but maybe there are some other way.

In my experience Cap men and women are pretty different.

She sounds like she's playing a bit of a game though. You're too clingy when you are around her, but once you keep your distance, she misses you. What is one to do with that?

Until she is clear on what she actually wants from you in a consistent manner, you're going to be a yo-yo.... 😢

Posted by 88NPISCES
Oh boy. yes I dated one.

He had trust issues for what the scorpion cheater ex-wife did to him. Every single woman who crosses his path will suffer along with this man. hey, I waited and tried to be understanding for nothing. He needs to grow up and heal on his own. He stayed behind and I am moving forward. He acted distant, and he also said he missed me to bring me closer, and then acted weird with an old hermit attitude. we would have been perfect together but when there is a negative person it just makes everything negative, slowly killing what the other person feels inside for him/her.

If you meet someone with their head all screwed up due to having trust issues and are not smart enough to separate their past from the present, leave her behind and look for a better and more positive woman who is willing to make you happy.
Dont waste your precious time. 🙂

i like what you've said "not smart enough to separate their past from present".. u have point. thanks.
i dont know, like what you said i feel the same way that the two of us would have been perfect together, thats why im still hoping that shell give our relationship a second chance. im happy now but deep inside i cant accept that it ends like that just because of her past her issues.

thats why i want to know if there are other ways to get a cap back.. or if there are pisces had succede in getting there caps 😄

Posted by deezie
In my experience Cap men and women are pretty different.

She sounds like she's playing a bit of a game though. You're too clingy when you are around her, but once you keep your distance, she misses you. What is one to do with that?

Until she is clear on what she actually wants from you in a consistent manner, you're going to be a yo-yo.... 😢

my cap was a typical cap girl. :/
what your experience with a cap in a relationship btw?

My bestie of 15 years was a Cap girl. Still love that girl to death but she could not let go of her past. Every woe she ever had was carried forward and played out in her relationships.

She was very giving and loving... but it was conditional. "I'll do for you but you must calm my fears by making emends for my past lover's wrongs." In the end, no man could satisfy her because her list kept getting longer and longer. Even as a friend she kept a tally and forgiveness did not come cheap.

She was with a Fish for 10 years. She helped him so much. She was his rock and built him up and really provided structure to his life. But in the end, she wanted dues paid.. her way.. and became increasingly demanding. He ended up cheating on her. She took him back.. under the condition he give her what she had always wanted. Marriage.

The marriage lasted about a year but she did get a visa out of it.

Posted by 88NPISCES


Yes I got back with him a few times, and every time he was more distant.
Unfortunately we werent on the same page and no matter how much I wanted it to work, it was just not working and i gave up on the hope and everything. I just wish him the best and that he finds a woman who can love him and understand him and can put up with his negativity. Because I just couldnt take it. 😢

In your case it is different, because you are the man and if you do the chasing then it does look good and since she is a cap she likes to be chased. I on the other hand if I did the chasing altho cap men like to be chased a little , it still didnt look good, and I ended up feeling disatisfied and not happy for being me who had to initiate things at times. it is just not right now some cap men work..

yes she likes to be chased. but im hesistant to chase her this time coz she accused me of being clingy and overly attached which made her scared that history will repeat itself. weve already talked about the clingy issues, told her that im not being clingy etc., and i know that word is not enough thats why right now im hesistant to chase her. O_O


but in your case before, when the two of you got back..who iniate it?

Posted by 88NPISCES
Oh, and I don't care if anyone gets mad at me but I am going to hide the post above once the OP reads it. it is just for him to read and then I will hide it. I choose to share or not to share my personal info whenever I want to & if I dont wish for it to appear there anylonger I have the right to hide it. 🙂

thanks for sharing. maybe right now, ill wait but after 3 months (3month rule), if nothing happens then i guess i need to move forward and wont waste my time like what you said. 🙂

Posted by FishyPisces
I dated a capricorn too once, but he was very immature. Used to openly flirt with other girls all the time, and when I called him out on it he wouldnt even bother explaining himself. He used to chase me all the time since I would constantly break off all contact.. He still does even though we broke up nearly a year ago and he knows I have moved on. But then again young capricorn men are known to be players aren't they.
I know some capricorn girls, and the ones I know are very cautious when it comes to love. They do carry their past with them and I don't think they will ever get over it. Caps are somewhat nostalgic people, atleast the ones I know are.

my cap is a young cap 21 yrs old 😄 but i trust her, others accuse her that shes a flirt 🙂) but i know shes just being friendly.
yes you're right! my cap always talks about her bad experience on her ex when we're still dating.

what if ill try like what u did break of all contact.. is it possible my cap would chase me? 😄
coz what im doing right now, if she text me, i reply. 😐 and nothing happen, just receive a text from her last week that she missed talking to me. 🙂

Posted by FishyPisces


It depends, do you want to get back with her? If so, tell her upfront that you refuse to be compared to her ex. And if she said you're being clingy, then respect that and back off a bit but don't ignore her. There needs to be compromise from both of you.

right now? YES! i want to. thanks for the advice. last time...we've already talked about it.. her issues, the problem.. but no one mentioned if the two of us wants to get back together. even me.. what i did is just clear the things out, didnt mention anything about getting back together. now i have a hard time mentioning anything about it. coz im afraid ill come too strong, or accused again being overlyattached to her..

but right now im trying to prove to her im not by not contacting or texting her first.

Posted by 88NPISCES
@ piscesisme,

I think it is very disrespectful when someone talks about their past to a loved one or someone who she/he is dating. past should be past & we need to learn how to handle what we felt for someone in the past internally. not pass on all that b.s to someone new who has nothing to do with it. I say you are better off without her, I know you like her a lot and miss her, caps and pisces are a really good match, but not because you are a good, & understanding guy it means she can take advantage of you and treat you like that. she is used to be treating bad & maybe that is all she knows. you cant change that in her, she is the only one who can change herself. It will take her many months & years for her to realize she had a good man who loved her infront of her. she is still young and has long ways to go. 🙂

you sound like a really good guy and deserve better. 🙂, dont waste any more of your time.
If you want to give her a few months of distance, that is fine but if she goes back to her old self then, cut her loose.

thank you for that! 🙂 i guess ill give her few months... but if nothing happens i will move forward. i hope this december and christmas will be good for us PISCES 🙂. Advance merry Christmas!

Speak of the devil...

I haven't talked to my Cap friend in about a year. We've been on the outs for about 3 years cause I cut her off when she tried to bring drama into my life for the bagillionth time. oh man.. did I ever go off on her. I did apologize, thanked her for her friendship and said it was obvious that we are in different places in our lives and it's best we go our separate ways.

She accused me of all the things her past "boyfriends" did to her and acted liked I owed her friendship.. since we'd been tight for so long. (her Cancer moon) She could treat me anyway she wanted but still demanded my loyalty. She wrote me 3 angry emails (which I ignored) telling me how much I fail. I held that girls hand thru her mother's death, 2 marriages and 2 abortions. Took her traveling all over the world with me, too. Obviously didn't mean much to her...

Anyway.. she hits me up on facebook the other day. A year after I left her a belated bday message.. and writes me something really bitchy. Actually all she wanted to do was draw my attention to her fb page that is loaded with pics of her and her 3rd husband. Wow.. talk about holding on to some bullshit.

She just confirmed my decision to cut out a superficial, self absorbed person who obviously still harbors resentment and attempts to gloat with a passive aggressive attitude. really? you're going to wait a year and try to cut me? I know I can have that lingering effect but, come on. Let it go already...

*rant over*

do cap really like to accused someone? ^^ haha

Posted by piscesisme
do cap really like to accused someone? ^^ haha

wut?

Posted by shellshocker


Speak of the devil...

An appropriate term to use on Capricorns. It's their tarot card symbol.

Posted by EusiveSoulll

Posted by deezie

Posted by piscesisme
do cap really like to accused someone? ^^ haha

wut?

Lmao...

If I'm not mistaken, what piscesisme was trying to say is "do caps really like to shift the blame on others?" ....

That's what I got from it anyway

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hahahah
you are masterful at interpreting my dear! I never would have come close to that