Pisces Colleague

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allyouneedisloveandwine
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Hi, guys! Just wanted to ask a question as I'm a little unsure if my colleague is really interested or not. I've had signs that he is interested, but I never really assumed anything until this weekend. He invited me to drink out thinking that we were a lot, then when I got there it was just the two of us and we drank til late. I met some of his friends at the end of the night. He teases me a lot at work and even cooked a dish for me one time. I just feel like he is just friendly like that. However, one of his mates told me that he is interested but he's just very professional at work that is why he's not doing anything. On the other hand, he doesn't even send me text messages... AT ALL. So is he really interested? I'm leaving work soon though so hopefully things change by then, but I just wanted to know if Pisces are sometimes just really friendly and it comes off as flirting.

*I'm a cancer by the way
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allyouneedisloveandwine
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Posted by allyouneedisloveandwine
Hi, guys! Just wanted to ask a question as I'm a little unsure if my colleague is really interested or not. I've had signs that he is interested, but I never really assumed anything until this weekend. He invited me to drink out thinking that we were a lot, then when I got there it was just the two of us and we drank til late. I met some of his friends at the end of the night. He teases me a lot at work and even cooked a dish for me one time. I just feel like he is just friendly like that. However, one of his mates told me that he is interested but he's just very professional at work that is why he's not doing anything. On the other hand, he doesn't even send me text messages... AT ALL. So is he really interested? I'm leaving work soon though so hopefully things change by then, but I just wanted to know if Pisces are sometimes just really friendly and it comes off as flirting.

*I'm a cancer by the way
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How old are you, guys? It clearly seems to me that he is interested, since he invited you out exclusively and he cooked for you!
Really? I feel that he can just be really friendly. I feel that that is his personality. I think if he is interested he would be messaging after work at least. I'm 29 and he is 33.
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Fact #1- all ofus pisceans aren't the same......

What's his venus , mars and moon?

go on cafeastrology.com and plug in his birthdate if you don't know.

I highly recommend you to do this and maybe a compatibility report..all which are free btw.

It will give you more insight to what's going on.

He sounds like he has a water moon and or Taurus dominant in his chart.

If so...he's like me and I would say he's into you.

I never text girls I like until I know they like me a lot which means an extended period of time of them texting me / engaging with me .

I do this because I like to play aloof but also I just really like my space.

Pisces need room to breathe even if we like you.
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Althea
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I really don't know exactly why texting or keeping in contact through social media is so important nowadays. The life before internet was much more interesting and the contacts in real life were more intense. I barely use texting with my man now, since we have the privilege of seeing each other daily. Face to face activities are more authentic. He doesn't even enjoy texting too much.

There is no rule to state that if someone is not texting you, he is not interested. Love language can have many forms, especially in the early stages. Men can approach you intensely if they are extroverts, or with great caution, if they are introverts. If they get positive feedback, they start to open up. I "helped" mine a lot with this problem 🙂 Ideally is to meet halfway.

Pisces and Cancer should get along very well.
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Posted by allyouneedisloveandwine
Hi, guys! Just wanted to ask a question as I'm a little unsure if my colleague is really interested or not. I've had signs that he is interested, but I never really assumed anything until this weekend. He invited me to drink out thinking that we were a lot, then when I got there it was just the two of us and we drank til late. I met some of his friends at the end of the night. He teases me a lot at work and even cooked a dish for me one time. I just feel like he is just friendly like that. However, one of his mates told me that he is interested but he's just very professional at work that is why he's not doing anything. On the other hand, he doesn't even send me text messages... AT ALL. So is he really interested? I'm leaving work soon though so hopefully things change by then, but I just wanted to know if Pisces are sometimes just really friendly and it comes off as flirting.

*I'm a cancer by the way
You have to understand that Pisceans; such as myself, when we arrive to work, we put on our WORK hats. We leave our family problems, bills/financial issues, trials and tribulations, etc., at home! We respect the morals, values, and work ethics. I, myself, being Piscean DO NOT date anyone from work! I work for the Army and at my building we have unattractive men (even Soldiers) that I am NOT interested in meeting; let alone date. If I DO see a good looking Solider and I see a ring on his finger, I immediately respect his "marriage/vows" and do not pursue him. If I meet a man/Soldier on base; that's fine! But NOT at the same building I work at.

Your Pisces has such work ethics that he doesn't like to text all freaking day w/his SO (or girl he's interested in). As Pisceans we don't like doing the "Play by play" all day by texting, "hey" "How are you?", etc., as we have meetings to attend, deadlines to meet, etc., when at work. When it's after hours, then he takes off his WORK hat and is free to be himself (it's like visualizing the bird caged M-F from 7:30-4:30 pm (this is my work schedule). Pisceans are hard workers, we HATE to miss work to just sit around, and play hooky all day.

He'll come to you after hours.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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allyouneedisloveandwine
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Posted by d0s3r
if he sees u everyday at work then why does he need to text u

get relationship rules out ur head unless ur with an earthie
We don't get to speak much at work.. Haha. As I said I think we both feel awkward? And his friend said that "he likes to keep things professional." Haha. I just act as if nothing is happening at work so I was thinking maybe he would message me after work.
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allyouneedisloveandwine
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Posted by compy
How old are you, guys? It clearly seems to me that he is interested, since he invited you out exclusively and he cooked for you!
Really? I feel that he can just be really friendly. I feel that that is his personality. I think if he is interested he would be messaging after work at least. I'm 29 and he is 33.

Fact #1- all ofus pisceans aren't the same......

What's his venus , mars and moon?

go on cafeastrology.com and plug in his birthdate if you don't know.

I highly recommend you to do this and maybe a compatibility report..all which are free btw.

It will give you more insight to what's going on.

He sounds like he has a water moon and or Taurus dominant in his chart.

If so...he's like me and I would say he's into you.

I never text girls I like until I know they like me a lot which means an extended period of time of them texting me / engaging with me .

I do this because I like to play aloof but also I just really like my space.

Pisces need room to breathe even if we like you.

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Interesting.. So youre suggesting that I start conversations with him and be the one to ask him out? Hehe. Not sure if Im that confident. Hahaha. But ill try. 🙂) And how should I approach him without being too forward?

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allyouneedisloveandwine
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by allyouneedisloveandwine
Hi, guys! Just wanted to ask a question as I'm a little unsure if my colleague is really interested or not. I've had signs that he is interested, but I never really assumed anything until this weekend. He invited me to drink out thinking that we were a lot, then when I got there it was just the two of us and we drank til late. I met some of his friends at the end of the night. He teases me a lot at work and even cooked a dish for me one time. I just feel like he is just friendly like that. However, one of his mates told me that he is interested but he's just very professional at work that is why he's not doing anything. On the other hand, he doesn't even send me text messages... AT ALL. So is he really interested? I'm leaving work soon though so hopefully things change by then, but I just wanted to know if Pisces are sometimes just really friendly and it comes off as flirting.

*I'm a cancer by the way
You have to understand that Pisceans; such as myself, when we arrive to work, we put on our WORK hats. We leave our family problems, bills/financial issues, trials and tribulations, etc., at home! We respect the morals, values, and work ethics. I, myself, being Piscean DO NOT date anyone from work! I work for the Army and at my building we have unattractive men (even Soldiers) that I am NOT interested in meeting; let alone date. If I DO see a good looking Solider and I see a ring on his finger, I immediately respect his "marriage/vows" and do not pursue him. If I meet a man/Soldier on base; that's fine! But NOT at the same building I work at.

Your Pisces has such work ethics that he doesn't like to text all freaking day w/his SO (or girl he's interested in). As Pisceans we had to do the "Play by play" as we have meetings to attend, deadlines to meet, etc., when at work. When it's after hours, then he takes off his WORK hat and is free to be himself (it's like visualizing the bird caged M-F from 7:30-4:30 pm (this is my work schedule). Pisceans are hard workers, we HATE to miss work to just sit around, and play hooky all day.

He'll come to you after hours.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Thats a good way to put it 🙂 Thank uou so much... Hope things will work out for us haha. 🙂 Im leaving work in June so hopefully things will fly from there 🙂