So I’m a Taurus female seeing a Pisces man. We met 3 months ago. On the first night he was telling me about his family and friends and asked if I was going to stick around for awhile. Since then we have bonded. I told him I was a virgin, that I’ve never done the relationship thing before, and that I tend to scare guys off with that fact. He laughed and told me that he would be my first then. Over the course of 3 months, we have spoken every single day. He would text me excited to go on our dates, he would be all over me. He told me beforehand of some odd circumstances of his life which all turned out to be true even though it was bizarre. He bought me a book set for my birthday that I told him I wanted in the first month we met. We haven’t had sex yet, he said he wanted to take it slow, we do everything else though. We spice it up. We spend our days playing video games which he is adamant about including me in, we binge watch shows all day, we watch movies all day, we laugh, joke, pillow fight, etc. we talk about our goals, what we want in the future. All brought up by him. Last weekend we went on a movie date, we had drinks, food, his idea. He had surgery recently on his foot, he said he wanted to deal with the pain alone, but he invited me over for that weekend. He has a shoulder surgery coming up soon as well. Now the issue is, he started texting me back once every 4-6 hrs which has happened before once but usually it’s every 5-20 mins. He said he needed rest and that he was exhausted. This happened once before but I told him that we were both adults and that he should communicate. Now, he’s saying that he needs to recharge and that he doesn’t know how long it will take, and that he wants to be alone, and just play his games, and sleep. He told me not to get attached bc this mood comes frequent and he doesn’t want that to be taxing on me while I wait for him to come back. He told me to just enjoy the time that we have together right now after I said I missed him. He sent me long paragraphs explaining that he hasn’t lost interest but that he’s been going through this mood swing since he was a kid. He said that if he doesn’t take this break he was going to explode. I don’t know what to do, we talked about kids, trips, all things he brought up, even last time I saw him, he told me that after his final surgery we would start exercising together. I’m torn up Bc I’m not used to not seeing him or talking to him. He did add me on all social media. He watches my stories, likes my posts, but I don’t hear from him. It’s been two days, I told him I would wait and that I would give him his space. I’m planning on contacting him again on the day of his surgery next week. But I don’t know what to do. He’s a great guy and he said that he would not leave me, but I’m scared I won’t hear back from him again. What do I do? How long do I wait? What’s the right thing to say to possibly bring him back to reality? Or to make him understand that I am hear waiting for him to touch back down from the clouds. Any advise? Bc at this point it hurts not hearing his voice or even hearing from him. He says he talks to no one not even his roommate, only his two best friends. I feel deep down that he wants me there but he’s pushing me away bc he thinks it’s better for me. I think he is the one. How do I respond to this mood?
