Pisces Man drives me insane

Hello,

I need some help with my Pisces man that I'm madly in love. We have been on and off for the last three years. My Pisces says that he has feelings for me but is not sure if he wants to marry me. Since he is looking for wife there is no point for us being together.

He does not want to be with me but he will not leave me alone. He calls me every day and he has been practically living with me ( staying over every night) for the last few years. I worry that he is not attracted to me because we only had sex like a few times last year. He says that he is tired and stressed out ( he does work 7 days a week ) but it did not stop him from cheating on me. Even though we do not have sex, we are affectionate. We give each other massages, spoon each other , cuddle constantly and fall asleep in each other arms.

I told him many times that I need to move on and have time to get over him so we cannot see each other unless he finds out what he wants but he just will not leave me alone. He calls every day, comes over, buys food, we cook together etc. He always invites me to his family events.

I should be strong enough and stop this "semi-relationship" but he is the love of my life. It is not healthy situation for me.
Please give me some advice or insight.

Taurus Gal

you sound like his security blanket, and in this case that's not a good thing.

The lack of sex is one thing. He wants to be with me and a few weeks later he says he does not know what he wants. He brought this marriage thing. He wants to have family and get married but he is not sure if he wants to be with me . It is just so confusing.

I think you should continue to let him make all the decisions and await his wishes .... in fact, why are you questioning him in here?


You know you're suppose to be focusing on only him .... so get the fuck out of here and go make him something eat, or wash his clothes he left there because he might decide to let you see him today.

this may come off a bit harsh but your situation made me think of this song lyric, "i was cold and empty and your body was warm". in my opinion i think the only reason he brings up the marriage thing is for another way of telling you he just doesn't see a future with you. he's feeling lonely and you're available, it seems to me he only wants to keep you around until he finds someone he does want to marry. i was talking to a good friend last night and mentioned that i missed my ex, and he told me, "no you don't, you just miss having someone around". he's not going to stop coming around unless you stop letting him into you life.

To Cancergem
I need to hear the harsh truth. I know the truth I guess but sometimes I' in denial. He probably feels lonely and uses me for comfort. I always thought that Pisces are affectionate and look for deep connections. Why has he wasted time with me for the last 3 years?

I miss him. It is not just about missing anybody. I have many guys around who want to go out and date me. But these man are not important to me . I'm searching for chemistry, connection and real feelings.

MAYBE HE IS GAY