
natural25
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Posted by Damnata
I don't see boredom, I don't see drama.
I see a man who's mindful about letting you and your friend have some fun by yourselves. How is that wrong?

Posted by P-Angel
1. Pisces don't get bored
2. Scorpios get bored
3. obviously, you are being a typical Scorpio in making shit up to be paranoid about, instead of actually listening
4. sounds like you are the one full of drama, considering he tells you what is in his head for his motivations, but, I instead of believing him, you make shit up as what could be possible issues.
5. #4 makes you full of drama
6. #4 makes him communicative to you
The math here is elementary
The only beneficial piece of information I have to offer you is .... run, now, before you get your little feelings hurt.

Posted by PVAF
Hi Natural25 🙂.
Please don't do the Scorpio thing and suffocate him. My Scorpio friend likes to spend every single second with her boyfriends. Pisces gotta have a little space. And if you have a friend or company around, I don't wanna be all over you, I find that weird. And if I see you all day, everyday, it's only fair that I allow you space to connect with the other person in the room, especially if you don't get to spend time with the other person that often. It's my way of being unselfish, cause I have had, and will have plenty of time with you. What makes Pisces run is not boredom, it's feeling fenced in. Go out with your friends.....please. I need time to breathe, to think, to reflect...hell sometimes just to daydream. Haha.

Posted by tiziani
Are they not two separate issues? I don't see how the example you brought up involves any drama at all but I do know where you are coming from in general.
nice to see you again, natural.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Pisces not getting bored? I wonder *is* this true? Everyone get bored now and then. Come on...how delusional. lol

Posted by natural25
I was thinking maybe by him acting in a way that would elicit a reaction out of me.
.... he might have just been uncomfortable.
This was his first time with my best friend and I.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by natural25
I was thinking maybe by him acting in a way that would elicit a reaction out of me.
.... he might have just been uncomfortable.
This was his first time with my best friend and I.
For a Scorpio, you seem very unevolved .... how is it that 6 months can go by for a water sign and they be oblivious to .... how your partner bends/turn/twists for reactionary purposes, how your partner (might) feel uncomfortable while you remain completely clueless to these nuances of him.
6 months in and you don't know how he responds/reacts ... you have zero gauge on his emotional expressions.
And what the fuck does him not ever seeing you with you with your best friend have to do with him having surprised reactions?
So, you are around other people with him. But, this one person he sees you with and this could be a fucking freak out for him?
You're playing at something .... of course, you're Scorpio, so we certainly can't expect realness of heart on your part.click to expand

Posted by geminicandIe
I don't know Pisces men very good, but perhaps since they are mutable like Gemini, they like to change it up every now and then.
I think everyone likes some space. For gemini it's to get air to breathe because we are highly nervous, for pisces maybe swimming around to recharge their dreams, as someone mentioned.
Enjoy YOUR space dear! You could go and do stuff that you are too busy when with him. How about spending afternoon in your local bookstore reading all the books and magazines for free, with a nice warm drink espresso or something?
This is where I run and hide. Or libraries, sometimes I find the most remote corner and just read or think. The silence is calming.
Or you could go get pedicure, shopping, catch up with friends, movies,yoga, swimming, weekend getaway, hobbies, etc...
That'll make him miss you and relationship stronger, in my opinion.
You will be just fine, as lovely as you are. Whatever you do, don't go scorpio on him. Come here and talk to us, lol.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
She's just trying to get a rise out of you Natural--probably because she is bored lol. Don't indulge.
Space is good.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
She's just trying to get a rise out of you Natural--probably because she is bored lol. Don't indulge.
Space is good.

Posted by tiziani
I can only go off about three Pisces I know closely. They are always thinking about their mate. "Boredom" I doubt is the right word.
But when they feel a certain amount of "oh my god this is so good it hurts" is missing from the deal, they'll self sabotage to get it back. I think most Water people I've come across do this, but Pisces are more subtle about the way they seek conflict. They have this self image of walking around wounded, and they worry if no one is there to pass them the salt.


Posted by IrresistableScorpPosted by cornfuzzled4everPosted by IrresistableScorp
Pisces not getting bored? I wonder *is* this true? Everyone get bored now and then. Come on...how delusional. lol
Twas going to say, in response to P's remark,
I'm bored right now. If I wasn't, I wouldn't be on this site. I'm bored like 80% of the time, and it matters little what's happening around me.
BUT
If she meant Pisces don't get bored in relationships, I might agree to that (for myself at least). I've ended relationships because there was massive drama and it was too much to deal with, but I've NEVER ended a relationship because I was bored with it, or because any "sparks" went away. And I've never intentionally instigated drama because I felt it was NECESSARY to keep things going, but I have done pretty much exactly what Tiziani said, for the express purpose of role-playing. I do it in non-romantic relationships too; stir shit up when things get too settled, just to keep myself (and others) on my toes. But as far as I can tell, everyone who knows me, easily recognizes when I'm antagonizing experimentally, versus when I actually want to ruin someone's day.
Maybe drama isn't the right word for it. I know we scorpios get accused of drama all the time. I hate drama myself. But this is actually one of the things I love about Pisces the most--you guys get that life gets real with all its myriad of conduct, etc. Its a very endearing quality.click to expand

Posted by natural25
Quick question. I have been with a Pisces for the last six months. The relationship is going well. Over the holidays we recently spent a lot of time together. Starting December 10 (with the exception of one week) I pretty much lived with him. My two dogs were there too. :-/ Needless to say, it got crowded quick. Well at least for me it did.
We recently went out of town for a few days to a concert with my best friend. Things were cool but he was not as affectionate as normal. I asked him about it and he said that he as trying to give my best friend and I some space to spend time together. Buuuuut could it also be that we have spent a lot of time together and he is growing bored. Or, maybe I am projecting? Lol. But it seems like when things seem to get a little mundane he throws a slight curve ball to invite a little drama. Not a lot. Just a tad bit of drama.
Does any of this make sense? How to spice things up when boredom comes into a relationship with a Pisces?


Posted by jukePosted by natural25Posted by IrresistableScorpPosted by cornfuzzled4everPosted by IrresistableScorp
Pisces not getting bored? I wonder *is* this true? Everyone get bored now and then. Come on...how delusional. lol
Twas going to say, in response to P's remark,
I'm bored right now. If I wasn't, I wouldn't be on this site. I'm bored like 80% of the time, and it matters little what's happening around me.
BUT
If she meant Pisces don't get bored in relationships, I might agree to that (for myself at least). I've ended relationships because there was massive drama and it was too much to deal with, but I've NEVER ended a relationship because I was bored with it, or because any "sparks" went away. And I've never intentionally instigated drama because I felt it was NECESSARY to keep things going, but I have done pretty much exactly what Tiziani said, for the express purpose of role-playing. I do it in non-romantic relationships too; stir shit up when things get too settled, just to keep myself (and others) on my toes. But as far as I can tell, everyone who knows me, easily recognizes when I'm antagonizing experimentally, versus when I actually want to ruin someone's day.
Maybe drama isn't the right word for it. I know we scorpios get accused of drama all the time. I hate drama myself. But this is actually one of the things I love about Pisces the most--you guys get that life gets real with all its myriad of conduct, etc. Its a very endearing quality.
Agreed. Let me scratch "drama" from the books. We can say, "stir the pot", "keep it fresh", "keep people on their toes". Whatever. Lol. That's what I am referring to.
I cannot stand drama myself. I have been through so much, drama is the last thing I need to be dealing. The LAST thing! Lol.
rabblerouser.click to expand

Posted by PiscesLove7Posted by natural25
Quick question. I have been with a Pisces for the last six months. The relationship is going well. Over the holidays we recently spent a lot of time together. Starting December 10 (with the exception of one week) I pretty much lived with him. My two dogs were there too. :-/ Needless to say, it got crowded quick. Well at least for me it did.
We recently went out of town for a few days to a concert with my best friend. Things were cool but he was not as affectionate as normal. I asked him about it and he said that he as trying to give my best friend and I some space to spend time together. Buuuuut could it also be that we have spent a lot of time together and he is growing bored. Or, maybe I am projecting? Lol. But it seems like when things seem to get a little mundane he throws a slight curve ball to invite a little drama. Not a lot. Just a tad bit of drama.
Does any of this make sense? How to spice things up when boredom comes into a relationship with a Pisces?
If I find the person I'm dating boring occasionally I'll instigate drama out of frustration with my boredom with them, but you've been together 6 months...way beyond the boredom threshold (at least for me, personally). So I wouldn't interpret it as him being bored with you.click to expand


Posted by natural25Posted by PiscesLove7Posted by natural25
Quick question. I have been with a Pisces for the last six months. The relationship is going well. Over the holidays we recently spent a lot of time together. Starting December 10 (with the exception of one week) I pretty much lived with him. My two dogs were there too. :-/ Needless to say, it got crowded quick. Well at least for me it did.
We recently went out of town for a few days to a concert with my best friend. Things were cool but he was not as affectionate as normal. I asked him about it and he said that he as trying to give my best friend and I some space to spend time together. Buuuuut could it also be that we have spent a lot of time together and he is growing bored. Or, maybe I am projecting? Lol. But it seems like when things seem to get a little mundane he throws a slight curve ball to invite a little drama. Not a lot. Just a tad bit of drama.
Does any of this make sense? How to spice things up when boredom comes into a relationship with a Pisces?
If I find the person I'm dating boring occasionally I'll instigate drama out of frustration with my boredom with them, but you've been together 6 months...way beyond the boredom threshold (at least for me, personally). So I wouldn't interpret it as him being bored with you.
What do you mean we are beyond the boredom threshold? For you, when do you general transition from that stage to a different phase of the relationship?
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Posted by natural25Posted by PhoenixRising
Just wanted to say "hi" nat.
Hiiiii! 🙂 How are you?click to expand

Posted by tiziani
Personally I give it a year before deciding things like that, but I am no fish.

Posted by tiziani
Personally I give it a year before deciding things like that, but I am no fish.

Posted by tiziani
Personally I give it a year before deciding things like that, but I am no fish.

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by natural25Posted by PhoenixRising
Just wanted to say "hi" nat.
Hiiiii! 🙂 How are you?
Irritable, but otherwise fine. I'm glad to hear things are going well with the King Fish. Pisces are quite lovely.
My , just ease up on the intensity, hard thing to do I know. As well, from my experience (dating and platonic), I don't get the impression that Pisces are "flaunt my affection for the world to see" kind of folks. They keep their passionate/affectionate side well hidden, but it vibrates off of them like crazy (or maybe I just feel it). My girlfriend for example, never discusses her relationship with her husband with us ladies, but I always notice the slightest twinkle in her eye and a slight curve at the corner of her mouth when her husband walks by or enters the room. I tease her all of the time.
I wouldn't sweat it.click to expand


Posted by tiziani
I understand what you're both saying. I guess my thing is respect and good company. Emotional connection can be nice too. I'm not sold on emotions but it always helps if that is a strong part of the big picture yeah


Posted by natural25
.... but it was our first serious issue we had to deal with.

Posted by natural25
A strong foundation is crucial. Which is also the the part of a relationship that takes the longest amount of time to build. Lol.


Posted by P-AngelPosted by natural25
.... but it was our first serious issue we had to deal with.
There was no issue ... except in your deluded Scorpio head.
I'm still astounded that after 6 months you are clueless to his emotional reactions .... and I will point out again for all the other readers that you expected a reaction out of him when he saw you are your best friend together ... which means, you set up some kind of dramatic scenario.
As a Pisces, he's not going to deal with these kinds of imaginary issues you have in your head. It's only a matter of time before he hurts your puny feelings.click to expand

Posted by LetltBPosted by natural25
A strong foundation is crucial. Which is also the the part of a relationship that takes the longest amount of time to build. Lol.click to expand
So you don't have a strong foundation after six months? At least a foundation when things are going so good you should be enthusiastic and positive, not afraid as you mention you are and reacting the way you are
I was not referring to my relationship when I made the comment about having a strong foundation. I was talking about other comments that were made among others discussing emotions and the how relationships progress...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Dating a Pisces, now thats boring.

Posted by LostinPhilly
One thing I don't like though, they are workaholics to the bone
Posted by PiscesLove7Posted by LostinPhilly
One thing I don't like though, they are workaholics to the bone
What...?? That couldn't be any farther from the truth!click to expand




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We recently went out of town for a few days to a concert with my best friend. Things were cool but he was not as affectionate as normal. I asked him about it and he said that he as trying to give my best friend and I some space to spend time together. Buuuuut could it also be that we have spent a lot of time together and he is growing bored. Or, maybe I am projecting? Lol. But it seems like when things seem to get a little mundane he throws a slight curve ball to invite a little drama. Not a lot. Just a tad bit of drama.
Does any of this make sense? How to spice things up when boredom comes into a relationship with a Pisces?