pisces moon/pisces ascendant escape route 101

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Paudel
@Paudel
11 Years

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10 months with my pisces mofo, oh actually he is not a sun in pisces, he is a cancer with moon and ascendant in pisces. Had made up my mind never to date a pisces, and I thought I was seeing a cancer. But he is sooo pisces in every possible way. 3 cancelled dates, one episode of his ex coming back to his life and finally I get commitment after a year of drama. And now I feel exhausted. I feel like breaking up. We are both indirect. And he is super emotional. I just feel so pressurized by him. I think I am a player. After I got commitment, I dont want to be in a relationship with him. And he talks about marriage. Makes me want to run a cross country.

And I am confused. I don't know what I want. I was better off as FWB with him. I feel so trapped like my life is coming to an end. Mind you all this I am typing in dxp, but the moment I see him, I am so smitten. I look into his eyes.go weak in my knees. His smell the cuteness cant get enough of it. But once he is gone, all I want to do is break up. I am 23.

Anyone out there as crazy as I am?
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Scenic
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13 Years5,000+ Posts

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You should be posting this on the cancer board instead of here. He's a cancer, not a pisces no matter how much you want to blame those placements for your lack of a perfect relationship. You both have brought problems to the table. If you two have differing values, it will be hard to make things work. He's talking marriage, you're thinking of leaving. You two aren't on the same level at all. You should find someone you can relate to more. Someone, that if you got really serious with, you would be okay with living your life how they want to live because it's also how you'd like to live, as well.

Is commitment a constant issue for you? If it is, you really shouldn't date people who want long lasting relationships until you can think about committing and not seriously think about leaving. You can't have it all. If you want him, you have to commit. Going back to FWB would likely hurt him if he has feelings, if he'd even agree to that. You took a step forward that neither of you seemed to have been prepared for. Don't string the guy along if you know you aren't going to stay with him. If it's possible, ask for time away from him. No sex, no relationship stuff, nothing. See what he really means to you. In my opinion, that would be the best way to find out what you want.