Pisces...tell me about yourselves!

I'm falling in love with a Pisces and starting to think it's not my best idea as he is starting to give me that classic net-avoidance feeling...I'm curious about your sign.

Is it really true that you have near-mystic abilities to read people's thoughts and emotions?

I have a number of other questions but I'm sure we'll get there. Right now I just want to hear from you 🙂.

@djbuck1: I'm not trying to net him, actually. Through careful observance of him and also study of his Piscean nature, it seems that could be one of the worst things I could do.

In truth, I don't desire to net him. I want him to feel free, to feel that he can live as he needs to and not seem smothered by me. He's happy when he's free. I asked him last night if he felt I was becoming too attached, because I've had that tendency in the past and don't want to be that way with him. He told me he didn't think so.

@PVandJelleh: Do you have any insight on why he may be avoidant? Also, he once specifically said to me that he reads body language very well...but he doesn't seem to react much to it (I'm pretty deliberate with mine)...any insight on that?

Posted by djbuck1
Hmm. You may be over-thinking this.

I probably am. Any suggestions? Stop thinking?? (Not sure I'll be able to do it...)

My assumption when a guy gets distant is he's not interested and I'll move on.

I really like this one, so I don't want to do that nor is my gut telling me he is not interested....

Posted by djbuck1
No. Don't give up or stop thinking (for heaven's sake).

It's time for a deep, cleansing breath.

Don't make into an issue things that are not an issue. Don't let the relationship be stampeded off the trail by impatience.

Don't ignore him. Don't throttle back and abandon this. Just ease up some; try to stop worrying; and let him do some pursuing.

As always, wise words from you djbuck1.

Duly noted.

Posted by evanirae

Posted by djbuck1
Hmm. You may be over-thinking this.

I probably am. Any suggestions? Stop thinking?? (Not sure I'll be able to do it...)

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You Aries Moon will bring anything you see as a flaw within you in relationships. And you're an Earth Sign so you probably have an entire list...

Don't over-think and just breathe a little 🙂

Speaking as a Pisces that can be distant.. there are many, many reasons why we become distant or avoidant. Like others have said here, Pisces typically pay attention to every detail when it comes to behavior, body language, changes in temp, infections, etc. I can typically read a person very well and I also can tell when things are not right. That being said, if you have not been clingy, argumentative and have allowed him the appropriate room to swim then it could be one of those things that have nothing to do with you.

I at times go into seclusion if I feel uncertain about things. Sometimes I just need a recharge. If he's an introvert then he might need his space also. I find that if I am smothered and asked about it I will not admit it but I will try to swim to an area where I know there is space. Key is, we don't like to be forgotten during this time nor do we enjoy defending the reasons as to why we require our time. You need to let him know that you are perfectly ok with it, and be honest about it.. he will know if you are lying. 🙂

Posted by djbuck1
Are you trying to net him?

We don't care for that.

lol...

Posted by evanirae
My assumption when a guy gets distant is he's not interested and I'll move on.

I really like this one, so I don't want to do that nor is my gut telling me he is not interested....

😕 hmm, this might be taking a wild stab in the dark, but maybe instead of assuming you might want to simply look him in the eye and ...........ask?

@LetItB...lol, I HAVE asked him. It was awhile ago, but he told me he was most definitely interested.

I suppose I could ask again. I will. Whenever we start talking again...

@LetItB You're a Scorp Sun with a Moon and Asc in Pisces?! I have NO DOUBT that you are super interesting!!

Posted by Brandonium
Speaking as a Pisces that can be distant.. there are many, many reasons why we become distant or avoidant. Like others have said here, Pisces typically pay attention to every detail when it comes to behavior, body language, changes in temp, infections, etc. I can typically read a person very well and I also can tell when things are not right. That being said, if you have not been clingy, argumentative and have allowed him the appropriate room to swim then it could be one of those things that have nothing to do with you.

I at times go into seclusion if I feel uncertain about things. Sometimes I just need a recharge. If he's an introvert then he might need his space also. I find that if I am smothered and asked about it I will not admit it but I will try to swim to an area where I know there is space. Key is, we don't like to be forgotten during this time nor do we enjoy defending the reasons as to why we require our time. You need to let him know that you are perfectly ok with it, and be honest about it.. he will know if you are lying. 🙂

Great insights, Brandonium. Thank you 🙂. I could never forget him. I think about him every day.

But as a bonafide introvert myself, I have a very realistic understanding of needing space and I'm not afraid to give that. I think his and my definitions of "space" may be a bit different though. I'm open to learning.

Oh..ok. I wouldn't ask that direct question again, but a simple and subtle "is the interest still there?" or something to that affect may give you some reassurance.

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