Pisces POV needed

I am heartbroken, I finally have the conversation with the Pisces I thought I was dating. I told him that we are sweet on each other for a really long time now and I want to know what he feels about it so there will be no misunderstandings between us. He said that he wasn’t into the boyfriend girlfriend thing (and he did tell me that before). But he thinks I’m a really cool chick and he still wants to be playful and sweet on each other. I said I like being sweet and loving with him too.

I told him that I wouldn’t mind if we were physical with each other. And he said he didn’t want that because it will only ruin and complicate things between us and he doesn’t want that to happen to us.

So I get that he is not interested in me in that way. But what I don’t get is that we have such an amazing connection and we have been so loving with each other. Friends tell us when we talk together, they can see electric between us and we are so focused on each other that a bomb could go off and we wouldn’t know. And I feel that connection too. That surely can’t be faked! So this makes me feel really insecure. Maybe he just isn’t attracted to be physically or maybe I wasn’t good enough. Like he said I was the smartest and most chilled out girl that he ever met but apparently that still isn’t good enough for him.

I asked him if he was even attracted to me and he said he likes being with me, making me laugh and hanging out with me and he doesn’t want to ruin this thing with a relationship because they seem to end and he doesn’t want that to happen.

At that time I was actually cool about it, I was thinking that it is possible to love someone without the pretext of a relationship. But it slowly ate me up inside. I don’t need a boyfriend/girlfriend thing but I don’t want to be feeling like I wasn’t good enough.

Is this really about him not wanting to have a relationship? Have I been friendzoned?

Posted by SadlySaggitarian
I am heartbroken, I finally have the conversation with the Pisces I thought I was dating.

Can you expand on this? How long have you too been seeing each other? And in what kind of context? Also knowing your ages would also be helpful.

I used to kick it with an Aquarius when I was in college. We'd sneak out of class and smoke herbage on the daily. Really liked his company but wasn't feeling him from a relationship stand point. He thought we were dating since we were spending so much time together.

We've been seeing each other for about 6 months. It all started when he asked me out for dinner. We are in out late 20s.
The comment about not having responsibility is making a lot of sense lol. knowing him and all.

He tells you upfront where you stand .... but, you don't accept that, so you attempt to read more into it than there really is.

And now you are here, acting heartbroken because the bubble was popped on your fantasy.


it's your Pisces moon ..... it's the worst placement a person could have .. it has you severely deluded.



Because all through your testimony, he is constantly telling you that he is not interested in being your boyfriend.


the only thing you need to do is check yourself, at least try to bring yourself back to reality.

Hi Pisces female here who has been in love with a Pisces male and also had to friendzone a Pisces male. I really hate to say this but from my experience with/as a Pisces it doesn't sound like he likes you in that way. Us Pisces are hopeless romantics, intuitive and will feel a connection almost instantly. If we don't it's unlikely we will pursue anything further despite how well we may get on with someone.

Sounds like your ego has been bruised, your not hearbroken...this maybe worse on the surface. I think you need to set your sights elsewhere to focus on the other things in life that make you happy.

You don't even know why he's doing these things or exactly what's going on with him, but you're already trying to make yourself believe that he feels as much of a connection as you do. To me, it sounds like this is mainly a one-sided thing. He clearly just wants to be friends, but your high emotions are making you want to believe there can be more or that he feels something for you. Some people just want friends and some people just like sleeping around without a relationship. And if he does just want to sleep around, then you should feel glad that he at least doesn't want you to be in his life for one night. But don't kid yourself in to thinking he has romantic feelings for you. Or at least any strong ones. Come back down to reality and try to live with what he wants. If you try pushing him or your boundaries with him, it might end up in an even bigger loss for you.